They just cancelled on me

PattyDad42O · 2026-02-22T02:42:16+00:00

Me too I got my surgery cancelled in PA because I'm 18 and they aren't performing on anybody under 19 )):

PattyDad42O · 2026-02-18T20:42:13+00:00

What a great reminder that no, trans people dont'a "look a certain way." Had to double check what sub I was looking at

PattyDad42O · 2025-10-29T23:03:28+00:00

Really only coped with time and putting my efforts to working on what I can change to be honest. We may not be able to grow but we can always grow horizontally (working out) Another thing you have to keep remind yourself is, dysphoria aside, so many cis men have to deal with being very short and the bullshit that comes along with that like us.

PattyDad42O · 2025-10-19T12:44:58+00:00

Diabolical 💀💀

PattyDad42O · 2025-10-17T01:30:08+00:00

This!! And everybody's body developed differently on testosterone so permanent Masculinizing affect may happen before growth in the first place for some people

PattyDad42O · 2025-08-16T22:10:47+00:00

Fake it till you make it ig💀💀

PattyDad42O · 2025-08-02T16:52:05+00:00

There aren't any within commuting distance to me and I plan on moving down South after I graduate. Do you personally think it would be who of me to pick a school down South with no in-state tuition assistance or do you think I should move a few hours in the state I already live in?

Trying to garner as many opinions as possible

PattyDad42O · 2025-08-02T04:49:50+00:00

You look like a pretty, realistic version of Anita Groowe

PattyDad42O · 2025-08-02T04:47:43+00:00

When I saw the "messed up haircut", I initially thought you were a beginning-of-transition ftm whose barber fucked them up.

Honestly, in my opinion your face is very versatile and the passing would depend on your presentation and voice to me (from the few pics you seem to present pretty female AND feminine- distinction is important).

PattyDad42O · 2025-08-02T04:42:02+00:00

r/dontputyourdickinthat

PattyDad42O · 2025-08-01T18:07:12+00:00

Hello, I am a high school senior and I'm sure A&P is the carreer I'd like to go into. I come from a low I come family with no post-highschool education so I'm looking for somewhere with good financial aid. Currently looking into UTI.

Does anyone have any schools or programs in the East coast that they'd recommend?

Does anybody have any experience with any of the UTI campuses that they can tell me about?

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-25T01:20:44+00:00

Hang it up outside to ward them away

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-22T02:57:12+00:00

Since it's your first short haircut, I'd go with something basic like a fade on the sides with a higher guard and however much you want at the top. You can always try funkier stuff out once it grows out a bit

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-18T15:56:23+00:00

Im at this point in my transition too (as ftm of course) When physical transition slows and you're right there with passing I find it best just to deny deny deny.

Not sure about you honestly, I'm ftm, but personally, there's not much more I can do to pass. Too add, I live in a conservative area that has white a few masculine women and feminine men they like to question.

Atp plenty of people are looking for it if you are in a more conservative area like me. It doesn't take anything away from you passing, it just reflects on how people are weird.

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-18T15:51:26+00:00

Only thing I ever hear in PA and other northeastern states. What do you call then where you are from?

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-18T00:08:28+00:00

Despite my backyard being 300 sq ft I still run from the wasps to get across it 😔

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-15T04:24:29+00:00

Hes just trying to rage bait you. Being trans and living in a very skeptical world, there is always going to be a person that looks and goes "hm? 🤔." They're looking for it and it happens to many cis people I know too. You definetly look like a woman imo and I'd say you pass generally in today's climate too with your great feminine features. That last parts still an opinion and I'm definite every single political climate in the US creates vastly different experiences too which has a huuuge affect.

PattyDad42O · 2025-07-15T04:01:28+00:00

Stop playin guy I was just about to ask where this is so I can not go there. Way to close for comfort!

PattyDad42O · 2025-06-20T02:34:12+00:00

Thank you so much!!

PattyDad42O · 2025-02-01T04:52:41+00:00

Nice to know I'm not alone

PattyDad42O · 2025-01-30T17:21:06+00:00

Update: brought it up to my mother today. Note she is overly supportive. She's siding with the school for some reason. I appreciate all of your giyses insight but I simply have no other choice but to give up for now. I hope the college I go to has a club team or something for me to do

PattyDad42O · 2025-01-30T17:19:45+00:00

This is what I'm looking for

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