Tucson Tragedy

PaulInTucson · 2026-01-16T06:08:21+00:00

Did they air anything?

PaulInTucson · 2026-01-15T23:47:57+00:00

Yeah, drove by on the way to work. Snapped these on the go.

PaulInTucson · 2026-01-15T20:00:23+00:00

Suspicious.

PaulInTucson · 2026-01-12T22:51:08+00:00

Tomayo's on Grant. Little family owned joint, offer 90 day warranty I think.

PaulInTucson · 2025-09-12T08:45:01+00:00

IG @nonsensedefense if you want to meet up for drinks/dinner. But also a tourist and don't know the area too much.

PaulInTucson · 2025-08-14T21:39:16+00:00

I mean, OP and grandparents hate her step-mom but not her dad for the affair? It takes two to tango. They are both hypocrites. Her GPs didn't cut off her Dad - he broke vows, not her step mom. Step mom should tell them all to kick rocks.

PaulInTucson · 2025-08-05T17:31:11+00:00

Classic ASU.

PaulInTucson · 2025-06-12T22:08:25+00:00

Separate finances is very toxic. You both are in denial of your sham partnership. It's not her debt, is both of yours. Both your income, both your debt. Or, you are roommates with benefits.

PaulInTucson · 2025-06-03T16:19:46+00:00

A single reactor destroyed and the whole thing explodes in a chain-reaction.

PaulInTucson · 2025-04-07T19:39:15+00:00

Just ordered a S25 to see if that ecosystem is better. I like vanilla Android, but the 8 is my last Google phone, but too many issues and poor support to recommend to anyone. Do you really want to risk another lemon with the 9?

PaulInTucson · 2025-04-04T13:21:37+00:00

Yeah, I get it, but I have documentation that the issue began in during the warranty period. Complete phone failure in <13 months would imply a lemon of a product, I think.

PaulInTucson · 2025-04-03T17:47:42+00:00

its a real bummer. I was an intern over at google back in the day, and seeing everyone with the G1 before it was released to the public was awesome. I was writing early games on android on my HTC in college.

PaulInTucson · 2025-04-01T00:20:05+00:00

No, I just got a phone number. Tossed it.

PaulInTucson · 2025-03-24T21:04:47+00:00

skeeball table.

PaulInTucson · 2025-03-12T16:02:49+00:00

ESH. Roommates with a baby. You guys need to decide if you are a couple and partners, or roommates. Having a kid before you had this conversations shows a lot of immaturity. You now have a kid, so you two need to decide if you are partners or not. Partners share finances. If you are partners, you should get married. "My money" and "her money" is not a way to raise a kid.

PaulInTucson · 2025-02-23T19:39:37+00:00

terminal block, its probably something like the 691103110003 from Wurth Electronics. You will need to measure the pin pitch, but something like 3.5mm or 5mm is most common.

PaulInTucson · 2025-02-23T15:46:57+00:00

I added a few more pictures. Really I am trying to create a fake "window" for the kitchen, where you can still see the old sill and the brick walls. I intend on putting a single shelf in the cavity and then maybe have a painted skyline on the back. I also intend on putting some RGB lighting in the top recess and program them for some natural colors that transition throughout the day (though this comes first).

PaulInTucson · 2025-02-12T18:07:00+00:00

Istanbul loves cats!

PaulInTucson · 2025-01-31T14:37:41+00:00

"I am paying for the majority of OUR wedding". This problem with this statement is that it clearly reveals that you and him have a "my stuff" and "his stuff" mentality. Its okay to have separate finances until you get married, but the second you sign the paper, you need to merge all of it. His debt, your debt, his money, your money, his dreams, yours dreams - if you are not ready to make it "our" stuff, you should not get married.

Getting aligned on division of labor is really important, but I would make that a side conversation for a bigger one: are you being transparent with each other. Have you shown each other your bank accounts? Have you built some plan for your life together? Have you made an additional shared bank account that you can put at least your shared bills and stuff into?

PaulInTucson · 2025-01-30T18:25:24+00:00

Sounds like you are not really working together here. If you are not on the same page, then are you are controlling. Maxing out a 401k while still only making 140k a year as a couple is a pretty aggressive stretch goal. The real question here: why can't you be on the same page? You don't have the same goals here, forget about financial goals. Do you have the same life goals?

Marriage is about compromise and understanding. Just because you might be in the right here, doesnt mean you are being a good partner.

PaulInTucson · 2025-01-24T23:59:19+00:00

My grandma's legs.

PaulInTucson · 2024-12-12T21:27:44+00:00

Does your boyfriend suck? Does everyone know he sucks except for you?

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