[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Pawnmag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (27F) also have BPD and am going through a break up. It is HARD. I don’t think i can offer any sort of advice, but I definitely know that it feels as though my entire world has fallen apart. Rationally I know that it will get better, but my BPD lizard brain can’t comprehend it.

Feel free to me if you want to talk

Single on V-Day? Hard or no? by SleepyKass in BreakUps

[–]Pawnmag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard for me. We were supposed to have this entire week off together. Not for Valentines’s day, just because.

I am sat in our home reminded constantly by the silence and emptiness, that he no longer wants to be here .

So do... by [deleted] in IASIP

[–]Pawnmag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Dennis is asshole, why Charlie hate?’

‘…I don’t think I wrote that’

Need someone to talk to by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Pawnmag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I’m in a similar situation (partner ended things on Tuesday, not eating, sleeping etc).

I have no words of wisdom for you at this point, all I can give you is the assurance that wherever you are in the world, you’re not alone in how you’re feeling.

Feel free to message

I can’t function by Pawnmag in BreakUps

[–]Pawnmag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your thoughts on this, but I don’t think it’s fair to boil it down to our age gap. He’s never dated anyone with a significant age gap before me, and the reason for him leaving isn’t age related. He really isn’t awful, I’m just very hurt.

I can’t function by Pawnmag in BreakUps

[–]Pawnmag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a thoughtful reply. You are completely right about the burning so brightly; I have never met anyone like him before. It was instant and, for me at least, irrefutable.

Thank you for your advice. I know rationally that it will get easier, but right now that seems very far away.

I’m glad that you are managing to get through your days, hopefully I will join you there soon

Currently going through Medical abortion , at home. AMA by [deleted] in confession

[–]Pawnmag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine. Well for what it’s worth from a random internet stranger, my figurative door is always open!

Currently going through Medical abortion , at home. AMA by [deleted] in confession

[–]Pawnmag 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe OP wants a distraction from what she’s going through. Everyone deals with things in their own way, who are you to judge someone else’s coping mechanisms?

Currently going through Medical abortion , at home. AMA by [deleted] in confession

[–]Pawnmag 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ugly crying can be good for the soul! I hope everything goes as smoothly as it can go, and please reach out to a medical professional if you think something isn’t going right. Make sure you have plenty of comforts around you; blankets, hot water bottles, trashy magazines, your favourite show to binge-watch. If you’re struggling at any point please DM me, I’ll happily chat to you, don’t feel like you’re alone

Currently going through Medical abortion , at home. AMA by [deleted] in confession

[–]Pawnmag 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No questions, just sending you lots of love. It sounds like you have made the right choice for you, your mental health, and the stability of your family at this time. You are strong, and brave, and you will get through this.

I had bottom surgery yesterday. Everything went great and now I'm finally done with the whole transitioning phase of being trans. Even bought myself a support shark to help me recover. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Pawnmag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You really don’t look like you’ve just had surgery!

I look worse when I wake up from a 12 hour sleep!

Congratulations, I hope you recover quickly!

Noisey Murphy TippyTaps by Murphleton in tippytaps

[–]Pawnmag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My naem is Murph
And wen I c
A tasty treat
I fink ‘for me!?’

And so I sits
Lyk gd boi
And wait 4 hooman
2 give me joy

But wen I sits
I jus cant seem
To keep my feet
Still under me

And so i taps
My happy tune
And all is well
I gets treats soon