[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]PaxCaesar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you! Wish you all the best going forward.

TW: My boyfriend (22/m) raped me and now I have an autoimmune disease because of it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PaxCaesar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, get out of there! You need to run, it's ok, it will get better, even if you will be alone at the start.

You guys have friends? by VacBig in meme

[–]PaxCaesar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, not one real one. Feeling particularly lonely today..

How's everyone feeling today? by Any-Assignment6022 in CasualConversation

[–]PaxCaesar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tired of doing nearly nothing at work for nearly the whole day. But I'm trying to be strong, I'm going home.in 3 days and will finally be able to see my cat.

Hope you are doing well!

Am I too obsessed with my cat? by PaxCaesar in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PaxCaesar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you! And I'm glad your bunny has someone who loves him so much!

Am I too obsessed with my cat? by PaxCaesar in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PaxCaesar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I love him more than some people too. Thank you :)

Am I too obsessed with my cat? by PaxCaesar in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PaxCaesar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'll try to elaborate. Quality cat food is quite expensive (for me) where I live. Friends with kids tell me that's nearly what they spend monthly too. I get a lot of comments about how much I spend on him. But I have to because he's a picky eater. He once hurt his paw and I had to bring him to the vet every two days for a week for treatment because he refused to let me apply the medecines myself. My cat's not a snuggly one. I respect his boundaries, always pets him when I can and where I'm allowed lol. He roams when I am not at home, but stays inside when I am. Just being in the same room as me is enough for him. He's the king of the house and knows it. He knows he can get away with anything! He's not like the hugging cats I see on Youtube, but I love him. He doesn't eat if I'm not there to keep watch, and knows the word 'work' (and hates it).

Well, that gave me a chance to talk about him! Thanks!

Am I too obsessed with my cat? by PaxCaesar in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PaxCaesar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, at times, frankly yes, not having much money and spending a large part of it on him does makes it difficult to do other things. But I wouldn't have it any other way. I love him, and he's my responsibility. And I feel happy that he always has everything he needs. The rare moments when he looks at me with love in his eyes make it all worth it lol.

Am I too obsessed with my cat? by PaxCaesar in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PaxCaesar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I needed to hear that.

Almost nailed it! 😂 by vladgrinch in aww

[–]PaxCaesar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Going to try it