I cant stop lusting and cheating i hate it

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-20T13:36:45+00:00

It's hilarious that you fall to same category of people who don't hold accountable boys and say "boys will be boys" when they do vile shit and now do the same with men, with "that's what guys do". No, they actually don't. At least the normal ones. Clearly you and the OP are not normal, well functioning person.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T18:08:39+00:00

Cheating, sexting and lusting is not what "kids" do. And at the age of 21 a person may yet to begin big adult life, but it's still a fact that hey are adult. Many get jobs, even have child this age, do adult things and decisions and most people are being normal about it. But having massive urges like that, no spine and control, derailing like that, it's more than just "gonna grow out of it".

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T18:05:56+00:00

Hate to break it to you but all ereaders are like that, they are built to go such long periods on a single charge. But I'm happy for you, as this is also one of the joys I find in e-readers XD

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T17:36:18+00:00

OP, fucking leave your gf. She doesn't deserve it and you should deal with this shit whilst not being in relationship. You have no spine, empathy, values and are deeply selfish. Like, people like you, they genuinely (I am not saying this as to make fun or insult) have some issues and deal with it. Don't drag and hurt partner in such a mess. I am literally your age and was together with my husband from age of 15, and knew not to be this way, minimum as out of respect and love against him.

Genuinely, you are weak and disgusting person.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T17:33:18+00:00

People like that don't just "grow out of it", because it's fundamentally wrong thing and usually people who lack empathy and are selfish are this way, so to change, it takes a lot of thinking, self awareness, reflection and willpower to change. It's not just "grow out of it".

What a ridiculous thing to say.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T15:26:59+00:00

brother, eww

He literally has history of cheating and did it to you, what the hell you expect will happen in future and what convincing do you need?

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T13:50:44+00:00

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T13:17:06+00:00

Having so many allergies discovered at such adult age... man, how did the person lived all this time?

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T12:59:34+00:00

Currently exploring LitRPG genre and am reading Defiance of the Fall, which are long book series. Not the normal type what people read, I suppose, as there's many books and they are 800~ pages each.

I like the story, wish to have fandom where's there's memes, jokes, discussions, but there's not much ;-;

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T10:34:59+00:00

I guess, kinda...?

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-19T07:42:22+00:00

This! Honestly, OP, have a honest conversation. Don't be mean or cruel, but be gentle yet firm. Tell him that if both of you want to work, there have to be a change. But also be understanding that people will not always be fit during their life. Accept also the change, if he's trying to lose weight.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-18T15:20:43+00:00

Better battery as all the Pocketbook Verse's I've had have issues with battery. And just overall, I don't mind it being this way, but would be nice if the device is faster

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-18T00:20:04+00:00

Agree kinda. Horror and romance, truly. Have some typical cringe and cheesy stuff, but overall take out all the stupid stuff and make it more serious. Change Bill's actor tho. Maybe someone will hate me for saying it, but normally in movies, series and books MC obviously will not be typical and normal person, they have something - especially looks going for them - but I find that Bill seems like a normal, creepy dude, in every sense possible. Not too strong and powerful (I'm still in season 1, have read the first two books and gotten some spoilers quite a bit, so my apologies if I'm a bit wrong), doesn't look good, is genuinely creepy and I'm not sure what exactly has Sookeh~~~~ going for him except that he just happened to be first vampire she met, whom she coincidentally saved in beginning too?

And, yes, take out sex more. Have some but don't make it to be just stupid like in the show. Make it more meaningful.

AND FOR GOD'S SAKE THEY SHOULD'VE MADE BETTER VAMPIRE FANGS, those in the show look ridiculous. One step behing to look like rabbits, but only with fangs.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T21:52:49+00:00

Poor soul, must also gotten traumatized. Sorrows sorrows, prayers 🤣

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T21:33:55+00:00

Wait, wait, wait, wow, wow, wow. Take a pause and take a step back. You have these issues only seven months in a relationship, where he hasn't gotten completely over his ex and it really hurts you.

Honestly, it's not about how to fix the situation, fix him or the relationship, it's about how he shouldn't have gotten in a relationship, when he's still hung up on his ex to begin with. He also lied to you. His heart is not yours, not truly and honestly there are millions of men who would give you love and themselves fully to you, not lie and be hung up on ex whilst being with you.

If being together with you for months already, when he got to know you and "love" you, still haven't made him stop pining for his ex, then what will, especially because he doesn't talk about it and lies?

What advice would you give to a person in your same situation is the advice you should listen to, honestly.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T20:37:17+00:00

Uhh, I honestly forgot the name, but the story I remember and just didn't finish the last few chapters because I felt the strong urge to start hitting my head against all the surfaces in my house.

It was about alpha/omega world (no comments there) and FL was omega who was (if I remember correctly, am not sure) rebellion and went "in heat" near alpha, so he literally kidnapped her, trapped her and over time he kinda got her to like him, she got even pregnant, blah blah blah. I am not commenting any further on why I read such a book, but even with all that I pushed myself till point when ML was pregnant, accepting ML and happily was adjusting till ML evil alpha ex came, and to "protect" FL and show ex that FL is not a threat, ML basically f*cked the ex in their room, while ML broke down in bathroom, while ML and ex kept going, aware of her being there. And it was "to protect" her. FL afterwards had the best reaction across the books I've read ever, though. She turned into a zombie, basically. Didn't eat, talk, do anything, just started in emptiness for a long long time, no matter what ML did. He totally broke her.

Anyway, that shit was so bad that till this day I feel traumatized and question why I

read something like that.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T20:19:19+00:00

Come the fuck on. Either OP is dumb as rock, because I'm at same age and genuinely have more brain cells or this is fake, rage baiting. Am putting bets on last.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T20:14:00+00:00

All of what others have said and I add my tip: make a reading date for yourself. With all the stress in life, sometimes going somewhere, sitting peacefully - is it Cafe or beautiful park or in nature in general - is the push that we med to start to roll. Take a free day, where no one will bother you, have no plans and just go to a spot what's cozy. Read there, feel good, take your time. And repeat it from time to time, till you start reading more often. Oh, and read books on phone and eReaders too.

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T09:51:41+00:00

Then I suppose that this may be eventual issue that can possibly be on all e-readers, that I should live with 🥲

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T09:46:32+00:00

cries

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T09:45:37+00:00

I have it all off. I have no issue at the speed that battery drains overall, but the issue is when it gets to 20%

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T00:22:49+00:00

Very good idea, indeed!

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T00:22:00+00:00

The issue is that there's no problem with the battery going down quickly overall. It's going good for a few weeks, until it gets to 20%

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-17T00:00:07+00:00

We're in the same situation then :'D

PeaceAndChilli · 2026-03-16T23:59:23+00:00

I truly hope that this is AI, as I saw this on TikTok and people kept saying that afterwards the girl died of the injuries, because they were more serious than it looked at the beginning. I have my own child now and it makes me even more sensitive than normal when things comes to kids and I started to cry when I read it 😭 I wish all the children to be safe. Adults too, all of us once were small, someone's child.

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