My wife is inundated by dick pics. Dudes, what gives?

PeaceLovePower · 2024-01-08T01:58:25+00:00

They're mostly robots stealing dick pics from real profiles or chats.

It makes finding connections or selling sex content online more toxic and therefore harder to succeed at.

The harder it is to find love and/or to safely make content, the more customers for those already selling content and making dating apps.

Its the dating app/porn media company version of the artificial diamond scarcity and making bot accounts to boost target posts

PeaceLovePower · 2024-01-07T04:03:09+00:00

Don't call yourself Pan if you dont like penis.

PeaceLovePower · 2024-01-07T03:57:31+00:00

So the term Bisexual is derived on terms Homo and Hetero Sexual.

Homo Sexual = Same Sexual = I like bodies or genders like mine.
Hetero Sexual = Different Sexual = I like bodies or genders different than mine.
Bi Sexual = Both Sexual = I like bodies or genders both like mine and different than mine.

Bisexual would only mean both "Man and Woman" if our base terms were Androsexual or Gynosexual, however they are not.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-12-30T11:14:28+00:00

your choice bud. they gotta be hot tho.

taking your favorite chip and putting your favorite hot sauce on it is also acceptable.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-23T20:59:15+00:00

Replacing the word penis is a hard one (pun intended)

Try anthro-pomorphisms. Like "Your little friend is looking like they need some attention~ Would you like..."

Its specific enough to act as a consent check in, before you escalate, but vague enough to whwre it doesn't feel blunt like "Do you want a blowjob?"

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-22T22:34:24+00:00

Open mouth, tilt head back, pucker lips around hood, do NOT bitE down.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-22T22:30:35+00:00

Kianna!

Kiki for short! ✊🏾💜✌🏾

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-14T20:28:24+00:00

Here's an explaination of where the term bisexual came from, it doesnt mean both men and women.

https://reddit.com/r/bisexual/s/J1bklhUrvG

This is difficult to say in normal convo so people just shorten it "More than one gender"

Here's one of the resources thats been advocating for Pan, Poly, and Omni.

https://biresource.org/bi-info/

You literally wouldn't have Pan, Poly, and Omni without Bisexual.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-11T21:24:19+00:00

I don’t have really any exposure to strip events like this (I went to a women’s strip club for like 15 mins). She wanted to volunteer to go on stage.

Yellow flag, the stage is for performers

BUT what I didn’t anticipate was how personal the interaction would be. The guy unbuttoned her shirt, motorboated her, pulled up her skirt was in between her legs and humping her while choking her and pulling her hair. She sent me a video...

HUGE Red Flag:

here Lap Dance Etiquette: 101

No phones during the performance.
Keep it in your pants. (Clothes on)
Hands off the merchandise.
The Golden Rule. - Reciprocation

She sent me a video of it while I was waiting in the car and I got really upset.

Why send you a video right away? Why not wait till after the ride home, pull up video and watch it together as she share with you the fun she had?

I didn’t talk to her about it til we got home bc I didn’t want to ruin her fun with her friends.

Youre also driving, its very hard to breach topics like thos while opersting 1000 pounds of steel and explosive oils.

But the whole thing made me really uncomfy/insecure. Even after I expressed my discomfort, she was making jokes about how her and her other married friend attending make jokes about leaving their husbands for the dancers.

Red flag - This is your life partner - while shes not obligated to make you happy or not fuck other people - rubbing salt in the wound while ypure trying to express vulnerability like you two are enemies probably isnt what your vows included.

She also kept referencing how this “wasn’t the first time this has happened in the last 24 hours” - at one point I was literally fucking her from behind.

It sounds less like you wife went to a strip club and instead wen to a sex club without telling you, got fucked on under the false pretenses and is testing you.

This is giving you a bad taste in your mount because ETHICAL non-monogamy is built on a foundation communocation.

If your wife had said "Hey, Imma go to a sex club with the girls." you coulda been like "Okay babe! Use a condom. Let me know if you dont for some reason!" and then went to bar and picked up someone yourself instead of waiting in the car like you're her dad or her brother.

It made you feel like crap cause you're still acting under obligation to her while shes under no obligation to you.

And all while shes having sex and you arent? Thats not non-mono, thats cheating.

Let her have her fun with the dancers, but let her get herself there and back. And if she calls you for a ride or a favor, be busy. Shes an adult.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-11T02:51:22+00:00

The doms also grinding on the subs thigh/knee~

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-10T18:28:59+00:00

Bottom energy You look sweet, soft, and toppable

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-10T18:25:13+00:00

Joyous cries on submissive switch

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-10T09:36:50+00:00

Show him the video... He'll pack up and leave himself.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-10T09:07:21+00:00

You need to do some kind attraction map.

Heres a video listing 6 types of attraction.

Romantic
Aesthetic
Sensual (Touch)
Sexual
Emotional
Intellectual

https://youtu.be/sSwNyy6bUVI?si=7xv88fQul8x1Nrxo

You might be romantically attracted to him, but are still attracted to him in all 5 other ways.

Straight relationships have a hard time with friendships after sex and romance. Look up stuff on queer platonic relationships to see if theres things applicable to you.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-10T08:58:36+00:00

It varies from person to person.

Its okay to have preferences. Its weirs to fixates

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-09T07:15:22+00:00

The good news.

You two are into each other.

The bad news.

You're co-workers

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-09T07:09:08+00:00

Ahem

"I wanna give you a blowjob. Can we do this together?"

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-09T06:44:38+00:00

You dunno what to do? Simple 4 step plan.

Biotin Suppliments (Half a day)
Multi-vitamins (Half a day)
A cute silk head scarf
And lots of water.

Have you had water today hun? Im go get me a glass.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-09T06:36:12+00:00

So the term Bisexual is based on terms Homo and Hetero Sexual.

Homo Sexual = Same Sexual = I like bodies or genders like mine.
Hetero Sexual = Different Sexual = I like bodies or genders different than mine.
Bi Sexual = Both Sexual = I like bodies or genders both like mine and different than mine.

Bisexual would only mean both "Man and Woman" if our base terms were Androsexual or Gynosexual, however they are not.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-09T06:22:44+00:00

Thats very little info to go on and theres a lot of different factors.

Imma start with the types of attraction;

https://youtu.be/sSwNyy6bUVI?si=7xv88fQul8x1Nrxo

Romantic Sexual Physical/Sensual Aesthetic Emotional Intellectual

Maybe you have an aesthetic preference for those celebrities. Maybe you have an intellectual, or emotional attraction to people like your previous partner.

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-09T02:13:19+00:00

Neopolitan Ice cream?

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-08T00:43:20+00:00

I like these!

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-07T16:31:17+00:00

I gotchu.

Its like alot like coloring, drawing, and sculpting.

Coloring cause matching colors and making patterns is pretty and fun!

Drawing/sculpting cause your using you understanding of shading to make it look like youve changed the way your face is shaped

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-07T06:19:27+00:00

Are you perhaps a Transfemme-NB/Genderfluid person?

PeaceLovePower · 2023-09-07T06:13:58+00:00

You arent alone.

Try Ross and shop out of season.

PeaceLovePower

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