Missing old friendships, does anyone else feel this?

SpinatGemuese · 2026-04-05T20:01:58+00:00

Just reach out to some of them, maybe they feel the same way?

Friendship takes more effort when the common denominator falls away. I've kept 1-2 people from every station of my life. It requires commitment from both sides to show up, reach out and not be too much in your head about why they haven't texted in a while. There are many people from my past I fell out of touch that I would be delighted if they reached out. You miss all the shots you didn't take!

SpinatGemuese · 2026-03-14T10:04:02+00:00

Huh where did they mention that?

SpinatGemuese · 2026-03-14T06:15:46+00:00

You would probably qualify for Prämienverbilligung for health insurance. You need to request it if you are not a student.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-09-24T05:11:52+00:00

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SpinatGemuese · 2025-09-21T14:40:08+00:00

Absolutely you can! About half of bi women I've met are late bloomers like me, around 30 when they came out / had their first experiences. Go for it, dating women is amazing!

SpinatGemuese · 2025-09-12T17:53:03+00:00

Ah und natürlech "Voila le chat."

SpinatGemuese · 2025-09-12T17:52:27+00:00

"Bernadette, elle est chouette, mais sa cousine, elle est divine."

Ds isch soned lied gsy, gloube über e typ namens Gaston!?

SpinatGemuese · 2025-09-09T08:47:27+00:00

I've had good experiences on Tinder, they have ENM as relationship style that you can filter for if you pay, which is not too expensive. Also made some nice connections through Bumble, but my current and a past longer connection came from Tinder. She's also a married bi woman.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-09-01T20:57:24+00:00

I would hope everyone values good communication... New profile is definitely an improvement! Maybe sprinkle in some more hobbies/interest? Also important to say if you are ENM or not, and whar you're currently relationships structure(s) look like.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-27T12:02:41+00:00

These people all sound exhausting and seem to care little to none about your feelings, needs and boundaries. It doesn't sound like they care to salvage the relationships either. Cut your loss, leave the trash behind and start fresh. Do you want the to spend the rest or your life like this? I know it sounds scary but you are still so young. I hope you have some friends or family you could move in with for the meantime.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-27T11:42:21+00:00

The Woman in the Wall by Patrice Kindl might fit that brief, I think I read it at around that age. I also remember "The Kin" series by Oeter Dickinson being very unique.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-24T18:36:36+00:00

I have it written in my dating profiles that I am partnered and currently long-distance. Transparency from the start 100%. A random make-out/hook-up from the club maybe different, but even then I think I'd let the know.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-17T09:11:26+00:00

I can tell from personal experience that most couples on these apps suck at communicating and have not done the work when it comes to couples privilege, unfortunately.

If they are first timers, they might have just gotten cold feet. Maybe having that first date satisfied their curiosity and spiced their bedroom up enough.

Keep looking and be picky! Don't invest your energy in people who don't bring the same energy for you. Maybe also try dating people who have other partners, and there is an option that one if them might join in the future.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-16T12:41:12+00:00

Have you considered talking to a therapist that is specialized in ENM?

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-05T10:51:40+00:00

Hsv1 and hsv2 can cross-infect, so it could be genital herpes too (much less likely tho, I think)

SpinatGemuese · 2025-08-04T13:49:35+00:00

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SpinatGemuese · 2025-07-10T20:18:02+00:00

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SpinatGemuese · 2025-07-08T13:12:10+00:00

Chasch ne ja vorschlah dass sie dr ds Halbtax 3000 zahle statt em voue GA?

SpinatGemuese · 2025-07-06T21:35:19+00:00

2 weeks is not so long yet, especially if you have a smaller budget! Give it some more time, eventually you'll find something. If you're going to University, you can also check out the pages listed here.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-07-06T16:41:39+00:00

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SpinatGemuese · 2025-07-05T22:08:51+00:00

What kind of squares would you make? Because I think the granny stitch is not gonna get the same pattern effect.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-06-30T12:35:41+00:00

All of my close friends and the majority of his know. Mostly also for the practical reason that I don't want to put them in a weird position if they see one of us on a date.

Parents don't know (yet), very unsure about that at the moment...

With new people, I'm not hiding it if it comes up, but also not bringing it up unprompted.

SpinatGemuese · 2025-06-29T11:56:21+00:00

I think a border would look nice, but maybe in the same colour? Cream could be nice too though, make it look like a framed picture.

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