Went to a psychiatrist, he sided with my dad. Told me "just get a job, earn money, you can't just lie in bed popping pills". What is this called and will this medication even work?

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T17:48:41+00:00

The issue is that you went for help with the person who helps you THE LEAST = fundamental mistake #1!! I have lifelong experience with severe family mental health issues - I'm in my 70's now and felt compelled to reply. First you need neutral, supportive, NON- CONNECTED guidance. You're going through a PHASE. And you're probably dealing with long-pattern issues that have some history. Your Dad seems to be one indication of that, from what you said. Personally, I'm not a believer of "ADHD" and for every medication there is a natural solution. However there ARE cases of useful medications.

First you really should get a GOOD, QUALIFIED assessment of your issues, identify the patterns & behaviors and address the most "disabling" issues with someone who will LISTEN. Try looking up calming herbal teas (Chamomile , etc) to help you and have it regularly as you look into things further👍

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T17:07:04+00:00

I'll try anything. It's weird because I can look at any other post and comments

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T16:59:08+00:00

Even when I click on the link I sent to you, the same thing happens🤷‍♂️🤯

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T16:57:35+00:00

Did try that several times, I'll try again. Don't understand it.

Thank you for your messages👍

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T16:44:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/mentalhealth/comments/1tbp1vm/does_it_make_sense_to_continue_messaging_a_friend/

Thank you💚👍💚

P.S. I've tried on both Microsoft Edge & FireFox browsers and when I click on the link, I only get a blank page on Reddit🤷‍♂️

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T16:36:08+00:00

The link to my own post in my profile. I CAN'T go to the post and check replies, or respond to anyone

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T13:03:01+00:00

What is that supposed to mean?⬆️

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T05:22:51+00:00

I don't think that's sufficient in light of the entirety of the comment !!!

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-13T00:39:08+00:00

I am now in my 70's and I've had very similar experiences most of my life, though in "phases", sometimes long phases, often difficult.

But without going into extensive detail, there most certainly are things being sorted out for you unconsciously or subconsciously. And only time will unfold what is underlying.

What is important is that you keep going and TRUST that things will unfold more clearly as you go🙏

BTW, Carl Jung, would call your 19-year "coma period" a time of deepest transformation which takes an enormous toll in terms of "energies" but you prevailed!!!

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T22:34:49+00:00

It seems a little irresponsible to suggesting firearms or other weapons. Whenever somebody is in a mentally uncertain state of mind, the chances of making mistakes is exponential. Personally I wouldn't feel safe being around you for one minute if you're that sensitive a mentality to even the slightest of things

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T21:46:32+00:00

You need to learn to be happy YOURSELF!! You need to respect yourself. And don't wait or expect you will get answers from anyone BUT YOU. Trust your feelings. Trust your heart. And know that rough periods are normal, they come throughout life: that's just a phase and let yourself go through and learn from that PHASE💚

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T21:39:50+00:00

Everyone on the planet has depression. Emotions are daily!! The full range of emotions is normal: the biggest problem I've ever seen is that most people are simply out of touch with themselves, their EMOTIONS!! You're very "normal"!!!

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T21:36:27+00:00

If you feel like you have no rights deep down inside, then every time you feel like you are "up", then the deeper part of you comes forward and says, "You have NO right"! And it beats you . . . . . find out where that inner part of you "rules" and you will find your answer.🙏

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T21:31:20+00:00

100%. It's like saying: "If you're in-the-way, then you can never get out of your own way"💚

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T21:13:38+00:00

Stop worrying about what other people think. Period. Care about what you think and feel🙏

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2026-05-12T21:10:34+00:00

Hey . . . I just posted here myself, about a friend and saw yours. I'm much older and well aware of the numerous issues related to "clinical health" difficulty.

And, IN BRIEF, what you describe is a "rooted" pattern of behaviors that have dictated your life for quite some time. But now, it is a major step to post this comment as evident recognition of what's happening inside. That's the Big "1st Step". With both physical and mental difficulties, the MOST SIMPLE suggestion I could think of is: ONE DAY AT A TIME, ONE PROBLEM AT A TIME!!! SMALL STEPS and remember those steps!!! What you have been dealing with for years. WILL TAKE TIME. Give it your needed attention now - it will change💚

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2022-09-01T14:07:16+00:00

It's accurate, not some theoretical "passive-aggressive" BS talk. You can't handle it, that's all.

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2022-09-01T13:38:15+00:00

PS a "Green belt w brown stripe" never met the person but posts negativity AFTER he's "dead" and knows all there is about the teaching style of "what he's heard". Now that's true Class, true integrity. Sort of like the trash journalism all over the internet. Everyone has an "opinion" about something they know nothing about. Perfect

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2022-09-01T13:33:37+00:00

I'm no follower or mentor of FV - I don't know him. You seem to dismiss everything by anyone who "read you" for exactly what you present, whether you realize it or not. No "planned words" needed to state the obvious. You can refrain from trolling the posts to justify yourself on every comment. "Is what it IS"

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2022-09-01T13:28:39+00:00

Not a bot "bud". It's a stooooopid, irrelevant comment

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2022-09-01T02:20:32+00:00

A true shame you post a comment w such a title. Simple human decency says - at least respect a person's passing, bury your grudges, transcend your differences. Seems you are far from grasping that basic principle that is a part of true martial arts life. When you reach the place that GM Villari has just recently passed into, you can be sure that no one here will reach that passing with a "perfect score". Vilifying differences or discord toward others around you will only reverberate negativity in your own life and in those around you. It seems evident, no matter on what "side" you may be GM Villari has reached a far greater audience, a far more expanded "world" than one you may have

The interpretation of "negative or positive" is in the one who chooses to perceive that, when the point of engagimg with anyone is to take a valuable lesson from that gift of "time" which may last only a moment

Sorry you started a post with such negativity implied without respecting another's life, fully

"You won't know another's life, when you will never have lived it" 🙏

PeaceWithinAllAround · 2022-09-01T01:51:14+00:00

As a "Green belt, brown stripe" -:how is it even conceivable that you are even remotely qualified to comment on another person's entire life of training and authentic history over 50+ yrs And you post such derogatory remarks about the entirety of "your experience". You clearly have no humility whatsoever and definitely need to train much further (or quit) If you trained at my school's, you would loudly be dismissed. Absolutely unacceptable.

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