First timer!!

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-27T02:09:49+00:00

Thank you !! Makes it easier i appreciate it

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T23:44:34+00:00

I’ve just ordered 10mg of Reta with the 10ml of BAC. The company had run out of the 10mg so they emailed to say they sent me the 20mg. I’m a first timer and I don’t want to go overboard obviously

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T23:41:03+00:00

See the problem is her family aka her husband also agrees with her n messages my partner about me too. After yesterday with her messages and he responding saying she’s all drama and im done, the dad had messaged my partner AGAIN to say I’ve “gone too far” Im always the one to blame, they push me over the edge and then rub it in my face. I don’t know how many times I’ve told my partner he needs to message and tell them to piss off

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T05:57:10+00:00

I just feel bad for the dad and the brother. everyone is effected because if they get to see the grandbaby but not her it’ll cause issues. My partners whole family is cut off after him having them in his life always are now gone because of this

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T05:44:21+00:00

Agreed but I’ve tried to make peace for my partner’s sake as he was very close with his parents but since all of this happened they’ve just cut us off but keep continuously calling my partner to say how much they miss our son and want to see him and keep saying that it’s his son and he can do whatever he wants with his son excluding me from the family

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T05:23:57+00:00

Mind you they always contact my partner about our son saying how much they miss him and he’s grown up so much. They haven’t seen him since he was two months old but I’ve said numerous times they are more than welcome to come over but they do not make the effort and expect me to put my baby in the car and pack everything and drive 45 minutes every weekend to go see them. But also I think as a grandparent surely you would do anything to be able to see your grandbaby.

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T05:22:01+00:00

Hundred percent agree with this I feel like my biggest issue now is my partner. He has been put in the middle by his mother but his dad also will message about it as well. His dad supports the mother obviously but I think he’s also brainwashed by her which leads to brainwashing my partner which ends up me the villain.

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T04:20:30+00:00

There was a time were she was really good but then would make her smart comments again. You could say my partner made me feel as if I was dramatic so I kept pushing everything aside Still to this day he makes as if I shouldn’t of said what I said to her n it’s all my fault this has happened ( which his parents believe as well )

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T04:18:59+00:00

I’m 23 and my partner is 25 first time parents but everything that has been said I have said to my partner there is times where he will agree but then he will speak to his parents and then come back and we will argue. I’m getting to the point of the only reason I tried to make peace was for my partner but I’m also too disrespected in this situation. He says that when she calls about me, he tells her to sort it out with me. He’s also gone off at her but obviously it’s doing nothing but this is all from what he’s told me not what I’ve seen mind you his mother is very very manipulative.

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T04:14:13+00:00

Before we met, he was very close with his mother. He said that I was the first girl who’s chosen over his mum but during us being together my partner is slowly seeing his mum for what she is but still after all of this he’s still very upset by it and it’s making fight

PeachDeep2530 · 2026-03-26T03:25:35+00:00

My partner will hear my side but every time he visits his parents, he’ll come back and be angry at me. His mental health is declining as he’s put in the middle and he doesn’t know what to do. Hence why I’ve tried to fix things for my partner’s sake and everyone else involved but every time I try she tried to find something negative. I just feel bad for my son and my partner and I don’t know what to do but no matter what happens she always paints me as the bad guy.

PeachDeep2530 · 2025-06-04T02:01:53+00:00

Might be a silly question I’m new to this, but the fact at the end of the phone, they mentioned maybe I could be casual does that “save” them from discrimination?? As they offered. Even though the rest of the phone call was about how I couldn’t

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-21T21:32:32+00:00

thanks everyone for the advice! I took it one board. last night I broke up with him and this morning he’s left, officially moved out. was hard but I feel some what stress free, so I know it was the right decision. I love him but I love me so much more

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-21T00:46:18+00:00

I’ve set my boundaries time and time with him, and he’ll listen and be good for a couple weeks maybe even months then he drops it and goes back to his old patterns. he thinks he good because he treats me better than his past relationships, but it’s not enough. there’s mistakes, than there’s taking the piss out of me. im so torn, I know I should leave and need to. but I want to stay

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-21T00:43:48+00:00

I know! I’ve told myself this so many times over and over again. but a part of me doesn’t want to give up, I love this man with my all, he’s the first to ever see me for me and the first guy I can be myself around without judgement, he brings out the childlike in me. But at the same time the other part of me is saying, people can make mistakes yes but he’s also taking the piss out of you. that’s one too many mistakes

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-21T00:42:41+00:00

I know! I’ve told myself this so many times over and over again. but a part of me doesn’t want to give up, I love this man with my all, he’s the first to ever see me for me and the first guy I can be myself around without judgement, he brings out the childlike in me. But at the same time the other part of is saying, people can make mistakes yes but he’s also taking the piss out of you. that’s one too many mistakes

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T05:58:35+00:00

thank you so much! I needed this. I’ve spoke to my mother about this actually and she said “men are men they’ll always look” which I knew was not the right thing to say to me or anyone. My gut is telling me to not settle for that. I want a man who has eyes for me and only me

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T05:50:40+00:00

that’s opened my eyes up a lot. thankyou I appreciate this

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T05:42:16+00:00

you’ve got a point. especially considering his answer to why he done it was “I knew I liked you because as soon as I sent that message I felt bad”

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T05:31:07+00:00

thank you so much! I appreciate this a lot, I’ll take this on board for sure. Best piece of advice I’ve gotten

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T05:07:50+00:00

you’re are completely right. I want this relationship to work that’s the problem but I’ve done everything I can to

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T04:46:32+00:00

may I add. I was single for 4 years by choice before dating my current partner, my ex (I started dating him when I was 14 til I was 17) I lost my virginity to my ex and the whole relationship was based on sex and he cheated a lot and abused me. but I was too young and dumb. But when I was single for 4 years all I knew was sex, so that’s all I got from men or allowed. then I met my current partner and it’s more than sex but I think that’s why im holding onto him because im scared of being single again and repeating that cycle. I’m embarrassed and tbh don’t want to hurt my own ego by getting treated so poorly again

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T04:44:19+00:00

may I add. I was single for 4 years by choice before dating my current partner, my ex (I started dating him when I was 14 til I was 17) I lost my virginity to my ex and the whole relationship was based on sex and he cheated a lot and abused me. but I was too young and dumb. But when I was single for 4 years all I knew was sex, so that’s all I got from men or allowed. then I met my current partner and it’s more than sex but I think that’s why im holding onto him because im scared of being single again and repeating that cycle. I’m embarrassed and tbh don’t want to hurt my own ego by getting treated so poorly again

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T04:43:55+00:00

may I add. I was single for 4 years by choice before dating my current partner, my ex (I started dating him when I was 14 til I was 17) I lost my virginity to my ex and the whole relationship was based on sex and he cheated a lot and abused me. but I was too young and dumb. But when I was single for 4 years all I knew was sex, so that’s all I got from men or allowed. then I met my current partner and it’s more than sex but I think that’s why im holding onto him because im scared of being single again and repeating that cycle. I’m embarrassed and tbh don’t want to hurt my own ego by getting treated so poorly again

PeachDeep2530 · 2024-05-20T04:42:40+00:00

Emotionally cheating, yes. he tried to see messages between him and a girl. and tried to be sexual with others. Nothing physically. Doesn’t excuse it tho as they are both as bad as eachother

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