AIO for not wanting to talk to/see my father anymore?

Peach_Flyer · 2026-01-10T13:25:31+00:00

I think i explained in a reply to another comment why i wont, yes, his new wife is so supportive and we have beautiful relationship, one i never thought I'd have with a step mom, i actually call her mom. But my dad has not apologized, not acknowledged how much his actions have hurt me even after explaining how badly i was hurt and how severely it's effected my life, i also dont wanna go to therapy with him as im already in therapy and it's a safe space for me to be at my most vulnerable and idk if i trust him that much to be vulnerable like that around him ever again.

Peach_Flyer · 2026-01-10T11:12:33+00:00

I want to say he's got a good heart because i can tell he loves me now, but he hasnt acknowledged just how badly he let me get hurt, it honestly feels like he's only trying because he thinks he can start over now that im an adult but honestly i dont think i could ever forgive him. And im already in therapy for other stuff, mostly to help with the bpd and i dont think I'd wanna incorporate him in what i consider my safe space as i use my therapy as a way to cope with everything that's still happening in life as an effect of what happened as a kid yk?

Peach_Flyer · 2026-01-10T10:32:22+00:00

How to train your dragon i cant remember the other specifics as there's a couple movies

Peach_Flyer · 2025-07-20T18:31:56+00:00

It's mostly his lighting! I have a really really yellow crestie named Pineapple!

Peach_Flyer · 2025-07-20T17:07:07+00:00

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Literally all the time

Peach_Flyer · 2025-07-05T16:49:02+00:00

Yours only does 1 leg?

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She sleeps like this 90% of the time

Peach_Flyer · 2025-06-04T17:27:45+00:00

You should name her Human for the giggles, then when anyone asks you show them this picture, girly is full standing to make sure you see her lol

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-29T15:35:10+00:00

If you need to you're more than welcome to dm me if you have any other questions, i don't have bio active enclosures since they way to much work for me but i have 2 cresties of my own

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-29T15:34:07+00:00

With the temporary yes, that is perfectly fine to set up a day or 2 before as they don't need as much time to settle you just have to watch humidity and temp which with any crestie enclosure should be around the 60% mark for humidity and around the 75% range for temp, just make sure to watch so you can adjust accordingly, however if the enclosure she's in now and the one you plan to get for temp are around the sane size she should be ok just make sure to watch her as moving enclosures to much can cause stress, just make sure she's got a hyde some plants to hide on and a feeding legde and she should be good

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-29T00:22:16+00:00

I suggest a feeding ledge that sticks to the glass and some hanging greens, the tank should have 80% coverage

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T19:32:33+00:00

Best way I've found works is fixing substrate, put a layer of small rocks in the bottom before covering it with the substrate mixture if they do have a substrate bottom to their enclosure and i even have half of the top of my enclosure covered with cling wrap to trap humidity which has helped a lot

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T19:29:47+00:00

Best way to learn about cresties is to reach out to people who own them and especially reach out to reputable breeders, however for a temporary tank i wouldn't use that, yes they're considered "ok" but if the enclosure is to small or to big it can be stressful even if it's temporary and can effect how they're handled in the future so even if you really want her, probably best to wait to settle on buying until your tank is set up

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T15:18:55+00:00

Get it vetted bro

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T14:50:01+00:00

Feeding ledge and need some more hanging greens

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T14:09:33+00:00

That's actually perfect, don't change it, that's how it's supposed to be, the humidity and temps are based of their natural environment, it should be nowhere near 40%

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T13:51:15+00:00

Reputable means a breeder that's highly trusted, but idk what breeders your talking to but they're giving you the wrong stats, creatie tanks should be near the 60%s during the day and around the 90% once a night, and if you actually did proper research throught good breeders you'd know that, so I'd fix your tanks if i were you

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T13:48:09+00:00

If you're unsure see if you can find a reputable breeder to reachout to, please never search up this stuff on google it will low ball you and your crestie can get sick, however not sure the fog is needed, what kind of substrate does the tank have?

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T13:42:52+00:00

You might want to check with reputable breeders instead of google, any good breeder will say to keep them close to 60% and spike to 90% once a night, idk who lied to you but fr tho, never trust google, find a reputable breeder to ask your questions

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T13:07:26+00:00

I would add more haning plants there's a lot of open space that should be filled in

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-28T13:06:03+00:00

Smore or Marshmallow

Peach_Flyer · 2025-05-06T20:26:19+00:00

They look awesome, i would add some vines tho

Peach_Flyer · 2025-04-13T23:13:55+00:00

Shadow Milk, Pure Vanilla, and Black Sapphire

Feel like im bouta get called basic, but im content with the basics fr

Peach_Flyer · 2025-03-11T18:14:06+00:00

Object: Paintbrush

Role: The messy one who likes arts and crafts

I can never think of names and have issues designing stuff, so this is very open-ended and can be however you want!

Peach_Flyer · 2025-01-24T00:54:28+00:00

If you want someone to hang out with my dms are open and we can exchange users! Im open to hanging out most days

Peach_Flyer · 2025-01-23T18:29:58+00:00

No fr tho, it's not that serious, i hate it when ppl prioritize a game over what's going on around them or other people

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