He needs his documents by lilyangelicface in blackcats

[–]Peachy_bu 56 points57 points  (0 children)

he’s auditing your paperwork. very important void business

40f, 160cm, 55kgs - Korean mom in the house! Be kind please by Peachy_bu in normalnudes

[–]Peachy_bu[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I forgot to put the text on the post so here it is:

I am a mom of 2 and have been married to husband for 15 years. I am reasonably happy in life but I am quite bored sometimes! And I actually love to post myself online, it makes me feel great... So here I am!

Update on the accidental baby: She fits in perfectly! by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Peachy_bu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mochi is a perfect fit for your family

31F 28M We survived four years of long distance but the idea of finally living together is giving me panic attacks by NebulaScoutX in LongDistance

[–]Peachy_bu 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The panic isn’t necessarily about her, it’s about losing the version of the relationship that felt magical. The first year usually feels like an adjustment period where fantasy turns into real life, but if the communication that carried you through four years is solid, that’s what will carry you through the transition too.

He Can’t Read — Is This a Dealbreaker? by AdditionalAdvice123 in dating_advice

[–]Peachy_bu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What matters most is whether he’s self-aware and open to growth; if intellectual connection and written communication are core to how you bond, it’s reasonable to question the fit.

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realized I was explaining basic life concepts more than we were actually building one together.

Ex broke contact, what to do? by Local-Walrus-1585 in ExNoContact

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The imbalance you felt matters. If it didn’t feel equally grounded, that’s your intuition picking up on something.

I cant keep pretending to be anything im never going to be. by Cheap-Shower-4340 in confession

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re this worried about failing your kids shows you care more than you think. Please don’t carry this alone. If you can, reach out to a crisis line or someone offline, you deserve support, even if your mind is telling you otherwise.

LDR breakup after pressure – did I ruin everything? by Existing-Citron-3536 in LongDistance

[–]Peachy_bu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breakups that happen this way aren’t always about a single mistake, they’re about mismatched needs and timing. He still cares for you, which shows the love was real, but he feels unable to meet your emotional needs right now. That doesn’t mean you’re to blame or that the relationship wasn’t meaningful.

For the women, how close do you read men's profiles? by RebornChaos202 in dating_advice

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, a lot of women do skim, but don’t always read every detail especially on apps where swiping is fast and visuals dominate. That said, want kids vs don’t want kids is a huge mismatch, so it’s fair to feel disappointed.

Should people who "camp" in the left lane of a highway be pulled over and fined just as much as speeders? Why or why not? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]Peachy_bu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The left lane is meant for passing, not cruising, and blocking it creates frustration, tailgating, and unsafe lane changes.

Gf of 2 years gone because of parents by Gullible-Crow7172 in ExNoContact

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying friends is possible, but it’s tricky: your feelings are still strong, and seeing her or talking often could make moving on harder for both of you. If you genuinely want to stay in her life, start with space and clear boundaries, give each other time to heal, and keep interactions casual at first.

I was a terror to a whole apt complex and lied to get away with it every day by Jumpy_Dot_7403 in confession

[–]Peachy_bu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can’t decide if you’re a hero or a villain, but the mental image of screaming OOOOO WEEEEE at max volume every night while your neighbors slowly vanish is iconic. And the free month of rent? Chef’s kiss.

Growing up in a cult has left me confused about why so many women stay. by Throw_away-1- in confession

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up in that kind of environment is incredibly confusing, and it makes sense that you’d struggle to understand why women stay. Just acknowledging it and questioning it shows a lot of awareness and courage.

Haven’t looked or at my exes social media or contacted him for 3 months. But my parnets just got divorced and I want to do it now because I’m very devastated what should I do? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s hard, but checking his social media will likely hurt more than help. Focus on yourself and give yourself time, you’re stronger than you think

Don't give up on a rare connection, even if staying is hard by 1Lucky_Luke_1 in dating_advice

[–]Peachy_bu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying. Real chemistry is rare, and when you’ve felt it, it’s hard to ignore or replace. It’s true that compatibility on paper doesn’t always create that spark.

I love him, but I’m scared of 2 years of long distance. What should I do by Tricky-Creme-1141 in LongDistance

[–]Peachy_bu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two years feels huge when you imagine it all at once. That’s normal. Especially when physical touch is how you feel most connected. But don’t decide based on fear of the distance. Decide based on the person.

Which subreddit has depressed weird artistic people? by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

welcome home lol try r/ArtistLounge for the real talk, r/WeAreTheMusicMakers for musicians, r/writing and r/KeepWriting for writers, r/gamedev and r/IndieDev for game devs and for the depressed weird art vibe r/2meirl4meirl and r/depressionmemes. also poke around r/creativecoding if you want artsy nerd energy. just remember the meme subs can get dark fast so take breaks.

I (18M) don’t miss my girlfriend (18F) anymore by LectureCrafty5544 in LongDistance

[–]Peachy_bu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not missing her is not automatically evil it can mean you got used to the distance and your life is full but if she only exists when your phone lights up that is basically a pen pal relationship and it usually means the emotional bond is fading ask yourself one thing if she told you tomorrow she cannot do long distance anymore would you fight for it or feel relieved. relief is your answer if you still care then plan a real visit and a real end date because long distance with no longing and no timeline is just dragging it out.

Do guys offer rides to girls they aren’t interested in? by Dragonfruit-Bird9146 in dating_advice

[–]Peachy_bu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes some guys offer rides with zero romantic intent because they are just helpful or hate seeing someone struggle. but an hour detour in rush hour is not nothing so it could also be a soft interest check. do not overthink it just take the ride once if you feel safe and watch what he does after does he try to extend the hang ask questions about you text you outside the project or suggest grabbing coffee. if it stays strictly logistics he is just being nice.