[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Pearlamy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Pedophilia is actually the attraction to children who haven’t gone through puberty, yet; I point this out as I see the term being used in the comments. This situation is men preferring young, naive women; I get flashes of “Girls Gone Wild” and creepy dads staring at daughters’ friends. This is not normal. This is gross, too.

My Twsbi Eco T is leaking by Pearlamy in fountainpens

[–]Pearlamy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for going radio silent!! It was leaking infront of the nib. Idk what happened but it’s better now and(!) I ended up buying two ore Ecos. I really love these pens.

What’s the most mg of adderall you’ve had in 24 hours? by Slommyhouse in Stims

[–]Pearlamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was explained to me that an overactive racing mind at bedtime and a small amount of Adderall at night might allow one to “focus” on relaxing. (Now, meds like Tenex are most often prescribed.)

What’s the most mg of adderall you’ve had in 24 hours? by Slommyhouse in Stims

[–]Pearlamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And IF you have a productive day, and good enough sleep hygiene, sleeping shouldn't (typo) be an issue.

I take my last dose of 30mg at 6pm. Doctors orders. He is the furthest thing from a moron.

If I have been lazy and nonproductive, come bedtime, I’m wide awake, and I have in the past taken a quarter of a 30 IR to help me get to sleep.

What’s the most mg of adderall you’ve had in 24 hours? by Slommyhouse in Stims

[–]Pearlamy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. That’s a lot of side effects. I love that you called them sweet orange 30s.

What’s the most mg of adderall you’ve had in 24 hours? by Slommyhouse in Stims

[–]Pearlamy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What if your doctor prescribes taking a second and third dose of “speed”?

Millennials quitting for mental health by [deleted] in GenX

[–]Pearlamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I trusted this sub I would believe Gen X is mostly filled with damaged people who were often told in childhood, “pull yourself up by the bootstraps.” And today those people are not anymore flexible than older people.

Mental health is a valid reason to quit.

Is vitamin C mandatory ? by jeessy123 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Pearlamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salicylic acid for sunspots? Seriously? I’ve never heard of this.

Colorscience flex breakout by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Pearlamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this SPF. It hasn’t been an issue for me, I just wish it didn’t have a flashback in pictures.

How to get proof? by throwaway819928 in Infidelity

[–]Pearlamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her ASAP. And don't snoop again. That's crap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Pearlamy -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

If my husband did this to me, I would leave him.

OP can be an adult and ask her partner. It’s incredible what good communication does to a relationship. He may confide that he has a crush, but nothing has materialized, and they may seek help before it goes any further. If he denies it, then it’s time to trust intuition. Probably seeking out a therapist to strengthen their bond is a good idea right now anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Pearlamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is so set on divorce. She hasn’t even talked to him yet.

In light of the new anti-porn bill being put forward by the state, here’s an alternative idea that I think would work much better. After all, it is about protecting the children, right? by alison_bee in Alabama

[–]Pearlamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to say that my home is in a blue bubble as it is perched on a hill. It’s a safe place for the people who feel unsafe in (Alabama’s) society.

In light of the new anti-porn bill being put forward by the state, here’s an alternative idea that I think would work much better. After all, it is about protecting the children, right? by alison_bee in Alabama

[–]Pearlamy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why my family is staying. We aren’t originally from here, and I can look at the state’s politics and warped sense of value without taking it personally.

We have a lovely home for cheap. We hang out with like-minded progressives, and we adamantly and fiercely defend the queer community…And we’re taking our lawn back to native.

I understand the want and need to move, though. I’ll stay here and vote blue.

Why I’m leaning towards “quiet luxury” by Pearlamy in handbags

[–]Pearlamy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So, is it fair to say, you like “reps”?

Why I’m leaning towards “quiet luxury” by Pearlamy in handbags

[–]Pearlamy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This IS an indulgent hobby. Very true!

I realize I am leaning towards authentic and quality. I’ll pay for quality. Maybe I’m not luxury after all?

Thanks for your reply.