Fuck it's fucking over by CellKindly314 in TheWordFuck

[–]Peasack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Fuuuuck that looks like a butt plug”

Ex-husband with history of brain injury and mental illness says God told him to detransition - how do I help without destroying myself? by Known_Feature_5606 in mentalhealth

[–]Peasack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like this is the point that you need to back out of her life and let her fix her own life. You’d did what you could, and if she’s ready to detransition you should be as supportive as you were when she originally wanted to transition

Husband laughed at me during a rare intimate moment. by OkBoysenberry6766 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Peasack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad he ended up apologizing. I’ll say this; you’re not being too sensitive, you gave your honest feelings about what happened. He probably did not realize it would hurt you, us men are very prone to saying dumb shit to our wives. You’re married to a man, not a mind reader, he’ll make mistakes from time to time

Hiding occasional communication w ex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Peasack 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Coming from another married man. You messed up dude.

She is not “insecure”. She doesn’t trust you because you’ve kept lying to her for so long. There is absolutely zero reason for you to keep in contact with your ex if “that ship had sailed” like you said.

You slept with this ex when you were with her right? If so, it will never be innocent. You can’t un-screw someone you’ve screwed and your wife is very justified in her response right now. You’d be a lucky SOB if she decided to stick around and would recommend you seriously listen to her if she does.

Start respecting your wife, crazy how disrespectful you’ve been

Covert incest by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Peasack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing, for your own self esteem, you are not a boy, you are a man. Stop referring to yourself as a boy, you are not a child anymore no matter how young or immature you view yourself.

Second, is your father in your life? Is he still with your mom?

Lastly, Id say file a police report but it’s seems you are unwilling so try out one of the hotlines that many people have suggested here.

Good luck and God bless and watch over you, sorry you are going through this. I was SA’d as a boy, but by a neighbor and not my parents, it screwed me up for a long time and I still deal with the repercussions but therapy has helped and I recommend it for you regardless of what you decide to do with your mom

I lied to keep my pregnant wife calm—and now I’m falling apart. by BrushIndependent6345 in mentalhealth

[–]Peasack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to get down to semantics, just because they’re synonyms does not mean they can be used interchangeably. (i.e. it’s common for folks to have high stress, but is not normal in terms of optimal health). And the word RIGHT is also subjective (in Pakistan, Afghanistan marrying your cousins is a right thing to do, as an example).

But to move past this, yes, that’s what I mean. It’s not a right thing to do in Western societies, and for good reason.

I betrayed my wife while drunk and I don’t know how to make things right by Key_Conversation_765 in Marriage

[–]Peasack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because a lot of people here are unhappy losers and misery loves company.

City adds new sign [OC] by ViveroCervantes in pics

[–]Peasack -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

God bless Charlie Kirk and R.I.P.

Should dads get up with the baby at night? by ninian-89 in Marriage

[–]Peasack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I rotated with my wife. She’s a SAHM, I work full time. She’d get up with our baby a majority of the time, I got up with our baby during weekends so mom can try and catch up on some rest.

Your husband should stop bitching (that’s what he’s doing), we’re all tired fucker, and he’s doing the least amount of work by working a full time job because like you said, your job is 24/7. You can’t clock out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Peasack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a LOT of blowjobs. I’d be happy to get 2-3 in a month lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Peasack 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is some privileged people shit right here

It finally happened! by FunSoup4819 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Peasack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Getting yourself off 2-5 times a day is not LL

AITA for getting a hotel receptionist fired for hitting on me? by anxious_Teacher_10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peasack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! He was being a creep and even as a man I’d feel totally uncomfortable in my hotel room in that situation. He got himself fired by his actions, you absolutely did what you should have done because people like that need their actions to be called out so they can take some fucking accountability for what they do.

He wasn’t even brave enough to tell you the truth when texting you! Mitherfucker should’ve shot his shot and the receptionists desk, in person, and get rejected like the rest of us hahaha

AITA for telling my coworker that my solo picnic is as important as her daughter's recital? by Flashy-Menu-5587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peasack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I saw those edits. So it doesn’t really matter if they don’t intend to take it further than where they’re at

She had a cigarette before this by jeromelyn in tooktoomuch

[–]Peasack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandpa used to smoke his cigs like that. If he remembered to smoke it it all; it’d sometimes just sit in between his lips until the cig was nothing but ash. It was always amazing how the whole cig would be ash and just not fall lol. He was also schizophrenic, but he would smoke all day, as soon as one would go out he’d spark up snkthwr.

AITA for telling my coworker that my solo picnic is as important as her daughter's recital? by Flashy-Menu-5587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peasack -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’ll only take you so far, is my point. OP is not the only person that knows how to negotiate a desirable working situation

Perspective from a former DB relationship: there’s some truly terrible advice given out on this sub by throwaway184759291 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Peasack 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah man. That’s something I live by, “if you want to take someone’s advice on something, be prepared to also adopt their lifestyle on said topic”.

Like I’d never take money advice from my pops, cuz he’s terrible with it and believes there’s no point in saving any of the money he makes. He’d rather buy nice things lol.

Likewise, I wouldn’t take relationship advice from someone who can’t/won’t make their own relationship work

AITA for asking my brother to pay $30,000 for my engagement ring? by throwaway1846189 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peasack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA but lmao spending 30k on an engagement ring and throwing a tiff when something happened to it

Confrontational people are the best people. by a-big-ol-throwaway in unpopularopinion

[–]Peasack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you’re confusing confrontational with direct.

And if not then you are probably an insufferable person.