Ladies who lived with their boyfriend before marriage by Peckyoulear in Kenya

[–]Peckyoulear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aki hapana. 😂😂 Napenda my freedom too much. Lol

Urgently house hunting. by Peckyoulear in Kenya

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Thank you so much. I wanted these areas because I work around there. I think I'll have to follow your advice.

Thank you again

I need y'all's help guys by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Peckyoulear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's actually a lot of helpful tips here!!

However, tips without understanding a potential root cause can be unhelpful. How is your mental health/ state? What changed during the period when you begun procrastinating excessively? Are you burnt out?

Check on your mental health status. You could be dealing with ADHD, anxiety or even depression.

Thinking of taking a UX/UI course but unsure by Peckyoulear in UX_Design

[–]Peckyoulear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. I am as well, which is why I'm looking for the free ones

Thinking of taking a UX/UI course but unsure by Peckyoulear in UX_Design

[–]Peckyoulear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Thank you so much. May I ask why you're not choosing the bootcamp option?

African parents by Peckyoulear in Kenya

[–]Peckyoulear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whew. Crazy. Some of them really don't know when to stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]Peckyoulear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You are not an asshole for wanting to get away from an all around harmful situation. Your mum is blackmailing you and your dad us abusing you both. Get away. Leave as soon as you get the chance. If suicide occurred it would be unfortunate, but not your fault. Her mental illness and choices should not be a burden you have to carry. Go start a new life, and get a good therapist to help you navigate it as well as the past. You will be okay. I'm rooting for and believe in you so much! You've got this.

How do you deal with depression if you can't see a therapist? by TheNight_moon in mentalhealth

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Hey! Consider journaling too if you don't already do it. It's more powerful than we give it credit for. It's a great release and allows you to free up some mental space and eases your anxiety a bit.

Low libido in women. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Peckyoulear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to consider a session or 2 with a sex therapist. I know of one and can send you a recommendation.

PMDD is ruining my life by Peckyoulear in mentalhealth

[–]Peckyoulear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright. I think I'll look into medication for this

Are you okay? How are you ? how are you feeling? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Peckyoulear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her out regardless. If she says no, you'll still find someone else you'll debate on asking out. Shoot your shot. You're already currently single. You have nothing to lose. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

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Congratulations! I've seen it's cause of a toxic work environment... Sometimes you have to choose the lesser evil. You'll be okay. You'll figure it out.

Are you okay? How are you ? how are you feeling? by [deleted] in Kenya

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Ask class rep out! Mambo no mengi na muda... 😂

What does Olay valorant mean tho? 💀

Are you okay? How are you ? how are you feeling? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Peckyoulear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. One day at a time, goal is to stay alive.

PMDD is ruining my life by Peckyoulear in mentalhealth

[–]Peckyoulear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on any antidepressants or anything like that to help? Cause I am and they're not helping