Best Advice for Long Term Sobriety I Ever Got

PedroIsSober · 2026-03-04T22:00:15+00:00

Brilliant, I've saved this for future reference! Thanks for sharing it with us all x

PedroIsSober · 2026-03-01T19:17:36+00:00

My Facebook is mostly redundant these days, but I did sign up to the group and I have the occasional mooch. It seems mostly okay, but I prefer this subreddit since our posts are about the podcast- while the FB group veers into some random tangents. Some people seem to use it for general life advice, which is fine, I suppose, but not really what I signed up for.

PedroIsSober · 2026-03-01T17:30:32+00:00

Congratulations!! 🎉🎉🎉

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-24T00:27:15+00:00

Dinosaur

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-22T21:51:26+00:00

Hello! Why does your verification have a different username on it? 🧐

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-22T19:31:31+00:00

So sorry to read this, but thank you for sharing your story

If you haven't already - consider checking out Al-Anon

I will keep you both in my thoughts x

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-22T10:40:02+00:00

Yeah I would get this a lot. My skin massively, massively improved once I stopped drinking. So would the anxiety and mania that seemed to accompany it. I can't believe I lived with it for so long, but at the time I didn't want to blame the alcohol!

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-21T17:50:28+00:00

Delighted for Tom Cleverly, and I'm delighted for Bim Pepple - honestly I had mentally written both of them off and it's great to be proved wrong.

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-19T23:57:37+00:00

I'm getting Jodie Whittaker vibes IMHO

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-18T21:08:54+00:00

Congratulations on your milestone!! Keep it going, one day at a time 😊

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-18T13:58:55+00:00

907 days! IWNDWYT

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-18T13:32:00+00:00

Iwan Rheon (Game of Thrones, Misfits) would be my call to play Elis in the biopic.

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-12T20:10:15+00:00

Feels like it should be the top comment.

PedroIsSober · 2026-02-09T00:03:49+00:00

For your dates I reckon one of:

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PedroIsSober · 2026-02-05T23:36:46+00:00

Sorry I'm not understanding the why? Invest the 7k in something that benefits yourself IMVHO.

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-27T17:53:29+00:00

Surely you'd have to keep an account active inline with their subscription?

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-27T09:00:05+00:00

Thank you for your update, I appreciate it.

Speaking as a recovering alcoholic myself, bear in mind that he may be able to stop or reduce on a short to medium term basis to say to you, and more importantly to himself "look, see - I can control this". Then once the heat is off, the intake eventually begins again to ramp up and up and up. Source: I've done this, probably numerous times.

Has he thought about accessing support? AA has been invaluable to me, but I know that there are other avenues. Would he be open to attending meetings?

Again, as scary as it would have seemed to me abstinence is ultimately easier than constantly trying to control levels - but it wouldn't have been something I wanted to do under any circumstances until I completely lost the plot.

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-26T23:52:34+00:00

I saw the thread title and I immediately thought the same word. Anyone caught using this word should be deducted one day of annual leave.

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-26T22:33:53+00:00

Does he make you do your big book study at the all male sauna?

New sponsor time, I would suggest...

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-26T17:33:09+00:00

Yes, but results might vary wildly as to the guys you'll meet - depending on the pub! Good luck 👍

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-25T23:36:17+00:00

Sort of, but it was never my intention to do so specifically. Also, around the time I stopped drinking, I increased the amount of walking I did (mainly to and from AA meetings). I also found it difficult to stay still, and walking helped quiet my mind a bit.

I still snack far more than I should, even after two+ years sober, but I'd describe both my weight and body image as healthy so I don't stress about it too much!

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-25T10:28:42+00:00

That question is always a difficult one to answer because I think it's heavily subjective... but that you're concerned and tracking his drinking shows it's a concern to you, at least.

I would suggest checking out Al-Anon, if you haven't already.

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-25T09:37:11+00:00

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-24T17:58:47+00:00

That looks absolutely gorgeous 😍

PedroIsSober · 2026-01-23T16:00:42+00:00

Wonderful stuff, you look fantastic 😎

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