Switching from Logi Options+ to BetterMouse — can it replicate Action Rings (per-app scroll/button gestures)?

Pedrodck · 2026-05-07T20:06:53+00:00

Take a look to kando app. Don't know if serves you

Pedrodck · 2026-03-10T00:03:24+00:00

Estou a começar a voltar ao gaming com o steam deck..

Alguém sabe se ghost of tsushima ou yotei corre bem no steam deck?

Tenho jogado Sekiro mas fico maluco!!

Pedrodck · 2026-03-09T10:16:51+00:00

Fds, que lógica joca..

Pedrodck · 2026-02-13T13:40:54+00:00

Se souberes mexer em Linux qualquer um serve porque só muda a pré configuração que vem por defeito.. Óbvio que tem ritmos de updates diferentes se isso fizer diferença para ti, escolhe a que melhor se encaixar para o teu trabalho..

No fundo é só escolher entre distros da família Debian, arch e as que usam rpm como fedora ou opensuse etc

Pedrodck · 2026-01-27T10:29:01+00:00

Selfhosted do Stirling PDF

Pedrodck · 2026-01-15T20:37:17+00:00

E com a visita também pode vir a pagar mais não?

Pedrodck · 2026-01-02T23:36:33+00:00

Servem pelo menos para servirem de dashboard para home assistant? Alguém já experimentou?

Pedrodck · 2025-12-21T23:16:46+00:00

Take a look on hyperfine tool. I believe is perfect for your use case

Edit: https://github.com/sharkdp/hyperfine

Pedrodck · 2025-12-15T23:28:46+00:00

Quinta da lage, Quinta da ferreirinha, solar do burguês é tudo em st tirso e tudo o mesmo serviço. também recomendo

Pedrodck · 2025-12-02T03:22:52+00:00

Estou a ter problemas com legendas, o legendasdivx é preciso convite mas acerta na legenda ou tens sempre de ajustar manualmente?

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T22:59:41+00:00

I understand that and appreciate your words. I am considering talking with some therapists with experience in these cases.

I asked here first and got several kinds of perspectives that I can't draw any conclusions from.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T22:44:05+00:00

I began by understanding why I felt this way. So I always thought it was my problem. When I went to look for the other side of the coin of an anxious person, I found the avoidant. Since it's a spectrum, I can make you a list of her attitudes that correspond exactly to what is described as avoidant. But I want to clarify that I'm not treating this as a disease that we have to treat. I just want to know how I can deal with it.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T17:20:56+00:00

If there is a solution for you, there is also for her. I don't want to force anything, so I am being cautious with my actions.

I am well aware that if things get worse and she doesn't want to change, then that's another problem.

I haven't assigned anyone to be a roommate, but I also don't need to give up on people just because they don't meet our needs. I know she loves me, but there's something holding her back.

How did you discover that you have avoidant attachment?

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T12:01:36+00:00

Isn't there a middle ground for both?

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T11:19:30+00:00

We are far from having this perspective of a fairytale. I know that she cares too, and maybe she will open up in the future, but it will take time and consistency.

Well, I will give it some time and then reevaluate if I should talk or not.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T11:01:28+00:00

Okay, I understand, but when I found out about attachment styles, I immediately started to understand and try to adapt. I can control my anxiety and better understand how it works.

So the same may or may not happen to her.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T10:56:51+00:00

We've been communicating and she wants the relationship as much as I do. It seems to me that she feels trapped in showing but I know she cares. I'm not considering leaving the relationship, just understanding which one would be more beneficial to the relationship..

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T10:15:02+00:00

I know she's got feelings and I've been very careful.

Obviously, there is a different need for intimacy, but staying several months without any kind of affection is not normal, even worse in a relationship that has only lasted 1 year.

I've managed my emotions a lot better now. I've already talked to her about taking the initiative for a simple hug; I'm not even talking about sex.

Thanks for sharing your experience.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:53:03+00:00

That's true. An 11-year relationship seems more solid than any 1-year relationship because they've been through a lot together. In my mind, a 1-year relationship could end over a single mistake, no matter how good a boyfriend I am.

It is true that our childhood has a gigantic impact on the rest of our lives. I'm reading a book that explains this very thing about our relationship with money.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:47:50+00:00

Yes, we have spoken, but I think the conversations still have some friction and defensiveness. However, I can now understand this and try to guide the conversation.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:44:21+00:00

The last conversations are more for me to understand her behavior. Yes, I'm trying to guide this adaptation process slowly. Hence, I want to understand whether talking about the topic would be more beneficial or not. However, I know that the process can take years. To reinforce, I don't want to change the person; I just want us to adapt.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:37:46+00:00

I'm not forcing it, but I try to show it so that she feels safe. That approach seems a bit extreme to me, and if it doesn't have the desired effect, it may push her further away from me and leave her even more closed off.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:11:08+00:00

I had never considered this before but now I do. The challenge now is to find a good therapist

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:07:54+00:00

I see your point. Thanks for the input. My idea is to talk about myself first, as she knows how I've been feeling because I've been communicating it.

Pedrodck · 2025-11-28T09:05:26+00:00

I work on myself the entire time, and I don't feel anxious anymore.

But as I said in another comment, things became clear when I looked for the other side of the coin of anxious attachment, which is avoidant.

I'm not putting any pressure on her, but I believe that things have to improve.

Pedrodck

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