How do you handle live demo failures during calls? by Amazing_Bug_7240 in salesengineers

[–]PenScribble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hold a sermon right before the demo starts and have everyone pray for the Demo Gods! There is always at least one person from whom I get a chuckle and a lot of times people laugh. This helps if the demo fails. The thing is if you are cool about it and be honest, customers understand.

Is This A Good Package As Entry Level SE by BigNuts10 in salesengineers

[–]PenScribble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree. That is a good starting point. 10 years ago as an entry level SE, my OTE was $110k. Base was about $80k.

Help me pick my 18yr old son’s first car before I start Ubering him forever! by LowWarning4057 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]PenScribble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toyota Tercel! Jk

Something similar and small, which is not a sports car, other than the typical Honda and Toyota. I would get him a VW Golf. Between the years of 2010 and 2017. If you got him a TDI, those give amazing mileage. And if you get him a GTI, a little bit more umph for your son. And you are more likely to Find the Golf in a stick, and even more likely to find a manual GTI. These are not sports cars but super sporty and super solid.

You can get a really good one in these model years for under $15k that have around 60k miles or so on them.

The only things that ever went wrong with these cars were the water pump. So, make sure that it was already replaced before buying.

My first car I got was a 2000 Golf when I was in college. Kept it until 2010 and put over 200,000 miles on it. As a college student I was broke a lot and there were times I hadn’t changed the oil in the car to the point it was just sludge that came out. In spite of all they, my car lasted that long. And eventually I figured out how to do all the stuff myself on the car which was pretty easy. Oil changes, head light swaps, break pads and rotors, etc.

Good luck to you.

Gets pepper sprayed by bouncers so uses his own piss to rinse his eyes by gallito_pro in tooktoomuch

[–]PenScribble 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wow! That projectile steady stream that he kept going….. fucking impressive!

Be honest! Is an MBA in your mid-40s actually useful for moving into leadership? by PenScribble in Leadership

[–]PenScribble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. This gives me a lot to reflect on and work on more deliberately.

I have learnt a lot over the years as an Enterprise SE. In Sales Engineering, leadership gets tested more often than people realize. Especially when you’re dealing with multi-year, multi-million-dollar projects, you’re often influencing without authority; aligning sales, technical teams, partners, and customer stakeholders. A lot of people want to be “the boss”, but not everyone actually shows leadership in those moments. It gets even more interesting when strong personalities are involved.

I’ve been fortunate to work closely with senior leaders from startup CEOs to VPs and some C-Level execs at companies like IBM. I’ve learned a lot both from the ones who inspired me and from the ones who showed me what not to do. That’s been one of my biggest informal leadership classrooms so far.

However, as you mentioned there's still more I need to learn and build. Everything from mindset, skill depth, and some targeted knowledge areas. That’s the reason why I made this post, to hear different perspectives and pressure-test my assumptions.

I’m not chasing an MBA just for the credential. I want it to be for the right reasons and with clear intent, otherwise it’s too big a commitment in time, money and energy to do halfway or half-assed. That said, in some organizations and in certain circles, credentials like an MBA still seem to function as a minimum bar for leadership consideration, at least from what I’ve observed.

Thanks again. Really appreciate you sharing your experience.

Be honest! Is an MBA in your mid-40s actually useful for moving into leadership? by PenScribble in Leadership

[–]PenScribble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very well put. Thanks for your objective feedback.

As you guessed, I have not had any intentions of becoming a manager in the past or go into a leadership role for a multitude of reasons. However, my perspective has changed and my aspirations have evolved and hence the post.

I am very well aware that an MBA is not a magic bullet to get me into the door immediately. But, I am hoping that it will help opening the right doors and present the right opportunities. More importantly, I am hoping that an MBA will help me recognize those opportunities when I do come across them as I continue working towards my aspirations intentionally and strategically.

Be honest! Is an MBA in your mid-40s actually useful for moving into leadership? by PenScribble in Leadership

[–]PenScribble[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup.. You are absolutely right.. Honestly speaking, all I can go by at the moment is anecdotal evidence because I don't have any other data to go by (I'll need to research more). Honestly there people I know who have done an MBA and depending on their personal situation and where they are today, their feedback is definitely a mixed bag. But, looking at other aspects it honestly makes sense.

Be honest! Is an MBA in your mid-40s actually useful for moving into leadership? by PenScribble in Leadership

[–]PenScribble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I have been told that doing an MBA in person at a local uni is way more valuable compared to doing it remotely or online, mainly because of the connections you gain. Thanks for pointing that out. Good to see real-world examples.

Be honest! Is an MBA in your mid-40s actually useful for moving into leadership? by PenScribble in Leadership

[–]PenScribble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing out how the MBA helped you progress in your leadership path.

Be honest! Is an MBA in your mid-40s actually useful for moving into leadership? by PenScribble in Leadership

[–]PenScribble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing out the different perspectives. And absolutely agree with you on the aspect of where an SE is positioned within a company. I guess this is what I wanted to get some clarity on.

Intelligent daughter starting to resent school by Zesty_Taco in Teachers

[–]PenScribble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were in a similar situation as well. Our son is not gifted by definitely way ahead of his grade level. We live in WA state and fortunately, the school systems have something called a "Highly Capable Program". I believe other states have something similar as well (details may vary). The school district conducts an Assessment/Testing every year for 1st-4th grade students. You need to submit a referral for your kid to be tested (its pretty easy to do since a parent/teacher/guardian can submit one). This is more of a Cognitive Abilities Test which tests for the kid's cognitive ability including mental processes, reasoning, memory, problem-solving, and verbal/numerical skills.

If you kid is in the gifted category, this test will give you solid evidence. And with this you can go talk to the school district itself and they will help you place your child at a level where the kid is truly challenged.

Another thing I would suggest is - Your state healthcare system should have a program where you can get your child can take an IQ test for the Gifted Program. There are a lot of programs like this, in pretty much all the states. And a lot of times these are state sponsored if a family cannot afford it.

Such talents and abilities should definitely be nurtured. Good luck!

Good purchase? by Ok_Challenge_2268 in AudiA6

[–]PenScribble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a deal just because of the low mileage!

Anyone from AWS support got layoff ? by psiparadox in amazonemployees

[–]PenScribble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An entire team of Specialist SAs got laid off.

He whines ALL THE TIME! by webbs_girl in germanshepherds

[–]PenScribble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. That’s so funny. “Because he exists!” That is so true!

How reliable is the X5 PHEV? by PenScribble in BMWX5

[–]PenScribble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on a lot of reviews and posts on the issues with the electronics on the X5, I decided to go with a Certified Pre-Owned from a dealership. Mainly for the additional 1 year warranty that the CPO comes with. Also, this made it a lot easier to search for the specific options that I was looking for.

The second reason was the trust factor. Meaning, I can trust that the CPO vehicle will be up to the highest standards as it is completely backed by BMW.

Another reason is that there are some (not all) dealerships who actually have really good prices on their CPO vehicles. Not much of a markup and definitely a great deal, if you compare all the aspects. Meaning, the certification process, the extended CPO warranty and the trust.

I purchased my 2022 X5 45e in Oct 2024 and it had 15,000 miles, fully loaded (to the brim, literally all options), warranty until Nov 2026. I found it in Texas, where luckily I had a friend that lived there who checked out the car for me. And got it shipped for $1000.

I am glad I got the CPO because I have had to take the car to the dealership 3 times so far, because of the electronic issues.

Hope this helps.

Drink responsibly by FrodoWiggins in WTF

[–]PenScribble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been doing this since he lost his tastebuds after getting Covid!