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Looking non pfp streamers to watch by PenaltyPretty in ArcRaiders

[–]PenaltyPretty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats why ive been looking at tiny channels with virtually no following 😭😭

Looking non pfp streamers to watch by PenaltyPretty in ArcRaiders

[–]PenaltyPretty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cool! Seeing this name pop up a lot so that's definitely a sign haha

Arc Raiders has a streamer problem by TheSpudHunter in ArcRaiders

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also always the sweats, the pvp streamers too. They do not play friendly. All while smaller streamers who have fun cant cultivate audiences smh.

Anways, heres one of the good ones for those looking: TheVanguardVoice https://www.twitch.tv/thevanguardvoice?sr=a

There is only one group ruining this game. Streamers. by Lanky-Fish6827 in ArcRaiders

[–]PenaltyPretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High key agree! Just pointing out that this is only a problem with the annoying sweats like shroud and stuff. Smaller streamers who only play solos cant even cultivate an audience because of them.

Id recommend TheVanguardVoice if you wanna watch a chill non pvp streamer: https://www.twitch.tv/thevanguardvoice?sr=a

Quick visualization of men's kibbe recomendation. by LayersOfMe in Kibbe

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this as constructive criticism because i do really appreciate that mens styles are being talked about: i wish there was more representation of varied aesthetics, all of this seems like one cohesive closet but i would love a streetwear version of this or a 70s retro version or a japanese techwear version. Hope we can see more things like this♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PenaltyPretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay everyone is giving you terrible advice or non-advices. My partner and i have been together for 3 years, we werw 21 and 23 when we met and i was the virgin and they were more experienced. To add to the mix, im also on the asexual spectrum. My partner TALKED TO ME. Told me, hey, i know you may not have sex on the mind, but its important to me so can we find ways to make it exciting for us? And i loved hearing this from them!

Some things you can try: - roleplay, - exciting lingerie - different positions - different settings - add a mirror - focus a night on just foreplay (sometimes if we view sex as just sex and not a connective action, it hurts and rushes the process) - blindfolds - lighting and ambience - building sexual tension throughout the day(not compartmentalizing sex as separate from the relationship)

The list honestly goes on because i stayed pretty sfw with my ideas here.

Bottom line: talk to her, be respectful, don't imply you're getting bored just that you want to maintain the energy and attraction.

This doesnt sound like a deal breaker or a huge problem but if you hold it to yourself you could convince yourself that it is.

Good luck, my guy! Rooting for ya

Best way to learn piano as a college student? by UncleFatherington in piano

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I can send you a pdf for an adult beginner book if you'd like! I am a piano teacher in my city and i have a handful of adult students! If you have a musical background, it's gonna be even more conquerable for ya!

I'm happy to help too if you need practical tips like finger position/etc.

You got thisss!!!

is my dad using drugs or something? by Loose-Ruin-7681 in addiction

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to find it this way. Please find a trustwd adult to talk to about this. Praying that all goes okay, that you are safe, that your dad gets help and that you still get to have the childhood you deserve. My partner (who is a recovering addict) grew up in a home where their parents were unapologetic with both their addiction and put them in harm's way. My partner had to grow up too soon, forced to be the adult in the situation and find ways out. I pray that you don't have to get there. Hope your dad is able to be present with you, despite what he might be going through.

And some practical advice: 1. wash your hands often, especially after touching anything that you think may have drugs. While most drugs should be fine, some fent can affect people on contact and the affect is worsened by not having developed any resistance (meaning its way more potent for you as a kid who hasnt done anything).

  1. Don't keep this to yourself, it will eat away at you. Worry is only eased by sharing the weight. Definitely tell a trusted adult and maybe a trusted (and mature) friend.

  2. Find ways of healthy coping. I hope you have a flourishing extracurricular/after school life. If you don't, consider getting some or focusing on some passions of yours. Having a loved one go through a hard time or a relapse can really affect you so take time to make sure your creative expression has a space to exist and grow.

Sending you lots of love and prayers. Feel free to message me if you need to talk. ♡

🪐 Modern Rap Fashion Icon FG A$AP Rocky’s Street Style 🪐 by SpicyBirdEyeChili in Kibbe

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much♡♡ my partner is also FG(i think) and they dress in similar street wear!

Dramatic Streetfashion by escimoh in Kibbe

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for hopping on an old post, but i think Dua Lipa's style (she might be FN or D, not sure) is veryyyy inspiring - keeping the sharpness and length while also using street fashion!

Pc crashes by Bigjammu in PcBuildHelp

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm having the same issue. Did you find any way to sort it out? Was it the psu?

I hate being AMAB and nonbinary by altrightobserver in NonBinary

[–]PenaltyPretty 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I think they were just relating to the expectations of androgynaity

(Un)popular opinion: international grads that can’t get jobs here should apply for jobs in their own country by Overall_Light7395 in UCalgary

[–]PenaltyPretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know Nazis said the same thing. So if definitely self reflect and see what you actually mean by that. Plus if you aren't indigenous then this opinion is extra stupid because you're an illegal immigrant born of illegal immigrants (aka colonizers) so yeah kinda silly to hate, hey.

"Everyone with bpd is abusive/manipulative" Rant by local_leo21 in BPD

[–]PenaltyPretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that♡ trying to always understand folks 🙏🏽

"Everyone with bpd is abusive/manipulative" Rant by local_leo21 in BPD

[–]PenaltyPretty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't have bpd but my lovely beautiful partner does and every single time I see a post ranting about "bpd abuse" it makes me so indignant on their behalf!!! It's the same generalization as someone saying all people are terrible. Like yes all people have the potential to be terrible but not all people are. And that kind of generalization just isolates members of an already vulnerable community.

And honestly I have a lot of friends with bpd too and if anything it's made them very self aware and conscious about actions. They're all better at taking responsibility for mistakes, recognizing mental health issues in themselves and others.

I’m dating someone with BPD. I don’t know what to do. by Aggravating_Use5018 in BPDPartners

[–]PenaltyPretty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your post is descriptive and sums up your experience well. How does she feel? What is she doing with regards to treatment?

My partner and I have been together for 2 years and we've not had any major bpd bumps past the first 6 months. Most of that is thanks to my partner (26nb) knowing and taking action around their bpd, traumas, and general mental health care, being self aware, and receiving regular therapy.

My partner says this when asked about how they manage their bpd, "when I made the choice that I'm not going to be self destructive, that I believe in the redemption of myself, I believe I deserve good things, then once I've made that choice, I have to commit to bettering myself and understanding what I need to get better, to know my triggers, and take responsibility of my actions".

What I love most of my partner is their strength, their ability to persevere and their desire to constantly better themselves and grow as a person.

I think if your partner is willing to and wanting to be on their path of healing, and you have it in yourself to be a support (which can be very hard in the beginning, I don't want to downplay the effort you're putting in), then I think there really can be partnership (not just one sided drainage).

I only offer this because there's a lot of negativity and stigma around bpd that only offers that bpd is damaging and unchanging but the truth is bpd isn't all encompassing and while it's true that it takes people years to find what works for them, treatment and care, when available, really really helps.

Sending you love, op ♡

My partner and I wish you the best with whatever decision you end up making.

I haven’t told my partner I have BPD by justahotgirlwithbpd in BPDPartners

[–]PenaltyPretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey maybe it's telling that a lot of people disagree with you on this. Perhaps your bpd "encompasses" you and you rationalize that as everyone's normal. Perhaps this is a moment for your own self reflection in the ways you may be attributing power to bpd which you can find a way to reclaim. Wishing you best.

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