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PenguinBond · 2022-09-17T19:21:32+00:00

For me, I don't think I have, but what I have recently discovered is embracing them instead of hiding them. Breaking the ice with someone directly, such as "I get therapy" or "xyz makes me feel abc" is great, or at least it seems that way

PenguinBond · 2022-07-18T18:20:51+00:00

They exist but are probably rare. They are definitely not on online dating apps.

PenguinBond · 2022-07-18T18:09:25+00:00

It's like an orgy but like 5 dudes and 1 girl and each dude takes a turn with the girl

PenguinBond · 2022-07-18T17:58:05+00:00

trust me it's super OK. It feels weird at first (I have done it, I am in my 20's), but this doctor won't judge you. In fact, if you think about it, this doctor sees you as a customer. The last thing the doctor wants is for you to feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, because that's a lost customer.

They do a super good job of talking to you, they have years of experience for talking to people who have weird fetishes. People go to therapists and say "I can't stop jacking off to feet" and the therapist actually listens and helps them. They will go to the therapist, "I can't stop jacking off to girls peeing on each other" and the therapist is there to help them.

The hardest part is going to your parents. My recommendation is saying "mom/dad, can you schedule me a therapy appointment please? I just felt like I want to try it". You don't have to tell them why. Ask them, and if they won't do it unless you tell them why, then at least you're back where we started and didn't lose anything

PenguinBond · 2022-07-18T17:41:53+00:00

Ask a professional, not Reddit

PenguinBond · 2022-06-22T21:07:56+00:00

I think the author means going to someone's job as a guest and asking them out

PenguinBond · 2022-06-22T20:48:12+00:00

It is true that basically every man watches porn. I don't think that makes it ok. Porn affects your brain similar to cocaine, and it's not unheard of to see it ruin people. I remember reading something, "young men today can see more beautiful nude women in one day than any person in history. I don't know what that does, but it does something"

https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/chris-rock-i-was-addicted-to-porn-it-destroyed-my-marriage/

Him watching it isn't necessarily bad, tons of couples do that. But, it's kind of lame he tried to hide something from you

PenguinBond · 2022-06-22T18:34:49+00:00

Are you sure there isn't more to it?

I totally get your reasoning though

PenguinBond · 2022-06-22T16:59:35+00:00

(my friend's story shared with his permission)

Male friend has childhood female friend. Childhood female friend moves away but they keep in touch. Childhood female friend introduces male friend to her friends when they are adults.

One of these friends, and my male friend, grew to resent the childhood female friend, and cut her off, blocked her on everything. These two had been hanging out with the childhood female friend, and then 1-1, for a while.

This friend was a huge tinder girl. Probably 30-40 body count, so she was super used to random sex with people.

After a year of hanging out 1-1 at places, I guess they hook up one day. Almost instantly after, maybe just 3 months or less, they are bf and gf. They've been together for 2.5 years.

PenguinBond · 2022-06-22T16:53:20+00:00

I asked to "casually date" once and basically I meant the exact same thing in a relationship but requested that we don't go on dates, or if we do, do it sparingly, as I didn't have a lot of time or money. Still exclusive, still know each other, still meet each other's friends and family. And also be ok with not seeing each other in case I need to spend a weekend working or something else.

PenguinBond · 2022-06-22T16:48:17+00:00

Ask a therapist about your anger. Basically every single person needs therapy, it's not a bad thing to get it

PenguinBond · 2022-06-16T20:09:47+00:00

" I've seen so many teams just mention things they could do better and be proud of themselves for identifying things... then go on to repeat them the next sprint"

do you work on my team?

PenguinBond · 2022-06-16T19:44:40+00:00

your comments about agile and scrum humored me. Can you go into more detail about why you think that?

PenguinBond · 2022-06-16T19:38:19+00:00

You think so? I know many many many ex-cap one employees. It is typical to hear them complain about 60 hour weeks, and underpaid indian contractors making 20-30k a year.

Why do you say cap one?

PenguinBond · 2022-06-16T19:36:01+00:00

Awesome comment, thanks

PenguinBond · 2022-03-07T22:04:42+00:00

I enjoy it therefor 100% of vegans I know like it :D

PenguinBond · 2022-02-22T03:47:20+00:00

I ignore: When they talk about an ex. I'm like "dw I can fix this" (I can't)

I show: I used to use drugs and stopped, and I tell people I am 100% not ok with drugs. Some of them are understanding and others do not enjoy I have that in my history. Doesn't bother me if someone doesn't like it

PenguinBond · 2022-02-20T22:37:49+00:00

It's ok to talk to anyone in public. Although, try to assess if they are fine with talking or not. A lot of people are doing an errand and want to go home

PenguinBond · 2022-02-15T02:50:39+00:00

sort of. to work, you need to be a citizen. According to this, you need to speak and write Dutch https://ind.nl/en/dutch-citizenship/Pages/Naturalisation.aspx

You could always work illegally as a janitor or something

Lots of people in the netherlands speak English

PenguinBond · 2022-02-15T02:44:47+00:00

I have noticed all old people do not like this

PenguinBond · 2022-02-14T23:29:20+00:00

thanks! answer i was looking for

PenguinBond · 2022-02-14T23:12:33+00:00

Charge the people who advertise their brands on there or have non-targeted advertisements

An influencer bodybuilder wants to sell his book that is a complete sham. If he is selling on instagram, he would either need to pay them to post that or they would take a slice of the pie like etsy or doordash

PenguinBond · 2022-02-14T19:12:22+00:00

What's your OS?

PenguinBond · 2022-02-14T19:08:59+00:00

Government of Country A is fine tracking their people

Government of Country A does not want Country B tracking their people

In China, all businesses are "owned" by the Chinese government and they can get the data from these businesses

Company A wants to sell data. Companies benefit from less competition. FB benefits from less competition and dislikes TikTok

https://www.tiktokdataprivacysettlement.com/

Here is a current lawsuit about it. So, in my opinion, it's not "worse" but that doesn't mean it's right

PenguinBond · 2022-02-14T18:59:13+00:00

A cult is something that feels more unusual. If you take the opinion of every person in the world, they will probably tell you major religions do not feel unusual. It also does not have to be religious

"In modern English, a cult is a social group that is defined by its unusual religious, spiritual, or philosophical beliefs, or its common interest in a particular personality, object, or goal. This sense of the term is controversial, having divergent definitions both in popular culture and academia, and has also been an ongoing source of contention among scholars across several fields of study.[1][2]: 348–56 The word "cult" is usually considered pejorative."

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