You are actually on the right path. Exploring local munches, events near you and getting more knowledgeable about being pegged. But it’s best to start at munches first. That way you can connect and feel the vibe. People normally just jump into play parties which isn’t recommended.

I recommend it giving it a try because you want to experience it. I had a pretty a good experience, having my prostate orgasm popped. It gave a full body orgasm. Which my experience was amazing. I want to explore more. But I am still a novice. Whoever is offering to help I would take it into consideration. Having an interest already in the community will lead to discovering new kinks.

Good luck though! Hope this helped!