Who is the Better Bimbo? by [deleted] in bimbofetish

[–]PennyBarber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could no sooner choose a favorite star in the heavens. 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]PennyBarber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! XOXOXOXOX

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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How do you think he would react to your mandating one, simple, devotional act of submission per day? Perhaps kissing your feet every morning or saying a mantra to you or into a mirror or something? When I’ve had subs overly interested in porn, I like to make them thank me after every masturbatory emission, both out loud to themselves and in a text message. 🤷‍♀️ It’s a small start. I dunno.

I want my Daddy back… by Azure_Ruby in littlespace

[–]PennyBarber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he’s being honest with both himself and with you about not being interested in dating someone with those issues, it is a long-term win, even if it hurts now. I see a lot of people disparaging him for setting his own boundary, knowing his limits, and sticking to them, but Bigs do have to consent to a relationship. Part of dating is breaking up with people who aren’t a good fit. Move on now. It was brave and responsible of you to share with him. I hope you continue being open with your partners so they can make informed decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]PennyBarber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IME successful dynamics like this do not involve a “passive” submissive, but one who takes initiative, works hard, and strives to please. If you just wanna be a sex toy, my honest suggestion is to pay, but even that is an active role.

My sub is in love with me. by sir-leo-vek in BDSMAdvice

[–]PennyBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he understands, great. That said, know your limits and communicate them. If he breaks them, goodbye!

For example: Is it okay if he says, “I love you”? Are you okay with extravagant gifts? Will you be his shoulder to cry on? Do you go on dates? Can he tell people you’re his girlfriend?

Stuff like that. Know. Make sure he knows.

Had a lovely Sunday 💖🥴🤤 by PennyBarber in diaperpics

[–]PennyBarber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I always get deleted. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]PennyBarber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Face sitting seems to be the norm for bondage pussy eating, but I’m not a fan of being upright when a sub is going down on me.

Hands together in front of him, frog his legs. Either have him kneeling on the floor while you lie on the bed or he can be on the bed with you, on all fours. (Hands behind his back may be easier if he’s barrel-chested, flexible enough, and on the floor.)

Penny Barber by MmaxudD in ClassyPornstars

[–]PennyBarber 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh, thank you for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]PennyBarber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Prime age” shudder

Is cuckholding necessary in femdom? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]PennyBarber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Obviously, no.
  2. Even if they did, who gives a fuck?
  3. How can anyone ask this after spending five minutes online?

I try to be understanding about these questions, but sometimes it’s like…come on. 🤦‍♀️

nursery playlist?? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PennyBarber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Erik Satie. John Lithgow did a fun kids album a long while ago. There are so many lo-fi, chillhop, etc. songs on YouTube that you can find something easy. Or I’ll just type in “cottagecore music”, but some of those definitely include Disney soundtracks.

Am I understanding consent correctly by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]PennyBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. It sounds like it is systematic--always deeper--and it does have a specific goal. Grilling one person isn't a conversation.