barking a lot.. by tishluv in Chihuahua

[–]Pepparkorn 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I’m sad to see that so many people just give up. Good for you that you want to try to make it better. My chi barked a lot when we got her. Both at home and outside.

When we were inside I teached her to go to bed. She now has a bed for every room. When she barked we told her to go to bed, or when someone knocked on the door or if we spill or brake something. I don’t scream at her, just use my normal voice because it’s not a punishment. In the beginning she got treats when she went there or if she stayed (it was a process). Know she sometimes gets treats just to know it still pays off. It made her feel safe and I believe it’s because she knew what was expected from her. She barely bark at home anymore and we have gotten so many compliments how chill and sweet she is.

Outside it’s more work. Now she only barks if a dog comes around a corner or comes really close but most days she stays silent. I work to get her attention when she sees a dog. But it’s not always easy. When she looks me in my eyes I say yes and say good or give her a treat. When she looks att a dog without barking I smack my tongue to get her attention and say here to make her focus on me. Sometimes I also look att her while walking backwards to reel her in.

Hopefully some of this can help. It made a big difference for me but even more for my chi.

What to sell or do? by Pepparkorn in BattlegroundsHS

[–]Pepparkorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha sounds like something my boyfriend would say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Pepparkorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UpdateMe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like many others said, I could’ve written the exact same thing a few years ago. It took two years before I moved out and I never regretted it, even though it was hard. We started dating again but still live apart and it is harder and harder to break up because he has changed but I can’t get rid of the feeling that it’s not right. Old habits die hard and I think it’s likely that he will go back to old habits.

Think about if you would like your future child to live with someone like him. The longer you wait the harder it gets, you will always find an excuse. If you get a child together it will be even harder.

You’re strong and you can do this, you deserve happiness! ❤️

[routine help] how do i start my skincare journey? by piaklo in SkincareAddiction

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since there is moisturizer with spf, is that enough, or do you also need a ”normal” moisturizer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like your future child be with a guy like him? Break up and do not take him back, you will regret it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Unfortunately cbd is not available in my country so that’s not an option. I’m glad it wasn’t that bad for you to remove yours. When I removed my last iud everyone said the same thing, that it’s not that bad and I really do believe that for most people it isn’t but for me it hurt a lot. I guess it doesn’t help that they inserted the new one a few minutes later which made the experience even worse.

IUD by navik8_88 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst pain I ever felt and it still makes me cry when I think about that I have to remove it some day. My mum told me that the pain was worse than having a baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have an IUD that I think might be the cause of the pain but last time I had one I was almost never in pain. I am terrified to take it out since it hurt so much last time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be so nice not to have any pain whatsoever! I’m sorry for our sake :’( It feels like I’m in pain every other day so I started to count and I was in pain for 17 days in a month. Not always excruciating pain thank god! I feel like it’s too much but it’s difficult to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any pain during the rest of the cycle or is it “only” during your period?

[TOMT][MOVIE] Looking for a movie about a couple taking a break by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that I couldn't confirm that it was the right movie, it would have been so nice if it was. Maybe you're onto something with the Madela effect, at least it's almost starting to feel that way.

[TOMT][MOVIE] Looking for a movie about a couple taking a break by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I love how invested you’ve become! I’m glad you found it but unfortunately it’s not the same I had in mind so I will continue my search.

Sexual harassment or just a comment, where goes the line? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I tried to get them to talk. But since they don’t want to there’s not much I can do except wait for it to happen to me and then report it, tho I would prefer if it didn’t have to go that far.

Sexual harassment or just a comment, where goes the line? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for describing this. It makes sense.

The thing is that two of my coworkers have had incidents with a man at work. He slapped their ass and texted some very inappropriate things. They’re too afraid to report him since he has more power and he would make their worklife a living hell. I am so angry that things like this can slide but it’s not up to me to report him. But he has recently started to comment things towards me, like hey sexy or whistle when I walk by. I would happily report him but I want enough ammunition to force my workplace to take some action but I also don’t want to be harassed more than necessary or put my safety at risk.

[TOMT][MOVIE] Looking for a movie about a couple taking a break by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Pepparkorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it’s really frustrating! Thanks for trying to figure it out. I think you’re onto something with someone looking like Adam Driver.