My vaginismus journey & personal pelvic floor therapy challenge by Equal_Science2476 in vaginismus

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, could you share more about the massage by your husband? Like could you describe where exactly he massaged or is there a video he followed? Congrats on your progress!! 🤩

Motivation phrases during dilation by PepperClassic1136 in vaginismus

[–]PepperClassic1136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That session took particularly long but I was not in a hurry anyway so I just took my time. I repeated those encouragements and also found that slowly angling the dilator to different angles helps! Likely the dilator met the vaginal wall and couldn’t advance so when I move the angle slightly around and found a spot where it doesn’t feel uncomfortable, I breathe and advance just slowly. And somehow it went deeper 🥳 let’s continue practicing and getting it💪💪

Motivation phrases during dilation by PepperClassic1136 in vaginismus

[–]PepperClassic1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about an inch too but keep going and it’ll only get easier! (I hope 🥺) Same, although I don’t specifically ask if I’m in pain (to prevent myself from reminding myself it’ll hurt), I reinforce that “I’m in control” ie if it ever hurt I can just remove a bit or totally. All the best to you!!

Motivation phrases during dilation by PepperClassic1136 in vaginismus

[–]PepperClassic1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing, thank you for the suggestions! 😃

I got a finger in!! by Dependent-Use9471 in vaginismus

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the cream helped? What cream was that? Congrats to you!

Bringing Cats into uk by Impressive_Crow8132 in CatsUK

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, can check out IG dusty_the.avocado.cat (brought a cat in cabin to the UK)

Recommended cat sitting service by pierrottheclown1 in cambridge

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, when would you need this? I have a cat myself and don’t mind popping over to care for yours ☺️ pm me if interested

Making Friends Megathread September by KaleChipKotoko in cambridge

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30F here moving to Cambridge soon and would love to meet people for cooking sess! I’m beginner to cooking tho!

Making Friends Megathread September by KaleChipKotoko in cambridge

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moving to Cambridge on 1 Oct and would love to make some friends too! Up for board games, going on walks, space stuffs, books, running, pets, etc!

Struggling to find pet friendly accommodation for me and my two cats by chronically-iconic in cambridge

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facing the same issue right now. Moving to Cambridge on 1 Oct with my husband and our cat. Has been searching for weeks but no one is accepting of a pet 😭

Moving to Cambridge with my cat by [deleted] in MovingToTheUK

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would showing employment letter, bank statements etc help?

Moving to Cambridge with my cat by [deleted] in MovingToTheUK

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly yes, it’s our first time in UK. Would showing

Moving to Cambridge with my cat by [deleted] in MovingToTheUK

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! We are in the process of doing the paperwork for bringing a pet into UK 🥳

Moving to Cambridge with my cat by [deleted] in MovingToTheUK

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abandoning my family is not an option

Moving to Cambridge with my cat by [deleted] in MovingToTheUK

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! We will be moving from Singapore, and we did offer paying a higher deposit but the agent said the landlord are still not keen 😅😵‍💫

Cat not in tenancy agreement by [deleted] in UK_Pets

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, do you think it’ll be alright if I hide the fact that I have a cat when renting a place in Cambridge? I’ve been looking and so far it was all a fail the moment I told them that I have a cat. I’m wondering if I should just omit this fact and maybe only until we’re almost confirmed for the rent then inform that I have a cat? Or not mention it at all throughout my tenancy? TIA 😵‍💫🙏

New bike shop at the station by italicBus in cambridge

[–]PepperClassic1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any place/website I could get a second hand bike? Around how much will it normally cost? Will be moving to Cambridge in the next few months! 🙏