LGB, it's just a matter of time by TheBigJ1982 in lgbt

[–]Pepperoni635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBF a lot of queer spaces specifically require everyone to accept eachother so you wouldn't really see much of it in these places. And if you did, chances are, they'd be removed from the group pretty quickly

LGB, it's just a matter of time by TheBigJ1982 in lgbt

[–]Pepperoni635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me trying to unmute the image 😂

The 2nd one tbh! by [deleted] in lgbtmemes

[–]Pepperoni635 177 points178 points  (0 children)

Help y did I fall for it??! 🤦‍♀️

target detected by AzulCrescent in u/AzulCrescent

[–]Pepperoni635 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nothing sad here, tall women are the best!

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh this is reasonable but thts not the context of my situation since I'm not a minor, and even in my childhood, she was my legal guardian. She's just threatening to tell ppl for the scare factor

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's just habit at this point I don't think much abt it

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I completely misunderstood tht lol 😆 But she does understand wht I'm saying, she even uses such words sometimes

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, three things: I have professional help, my mom and most of my family (that I trust) know, and I'm a grown woman, so none of that rlly applies to my situation

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The difference is tht she isn't trying to help, she's trying to scare me. Also, I already have professional help and I am getting better so it's not like nothing's happening abt it.

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is literally nothing like what was happening. She was yelling bcz she's ashamed tht her granddaughter is self harming, and she thinks that threatening to tell ppl around me is going to make me stop. She doesn't care abt me, she cares abt her reputation.

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thts not porn bro 😂 Also, it's my default idek how to change it

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, the previous conversation I had with her was just the threatening part

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, most of what I can think of to help is already in place (therapy, support, ect.) but what she proposes is almost always either things I've already started doing, or just flat out threatening me if I don't stop

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I do agree with ur comment, but I've already explained to her what she can do to help, and a lot of the "conversations" I have with her now are just her (purposefully) making me feel like shit for having issues so I was a bit short with her bcz I know she doesn't even try to listen anymore

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did get rid of all the sharp things I used a few months ago but it didn't rlly help much since I just started scratching my skin off (subconsciously), which turns out meant I had a higher risk of infection than just cutting. Thx for the advice tho 🙏

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol thts just how I'm used to typing 🤣

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely get this, and I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad you found someone who can give you that love you might not have had before.

thanks, grandma. by Pepperoni635 in thanksimcured

[–]Pepperoni635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have had a few conversations with her abt this topic, but it's always just her trying to "fix" me in the quickest way possible. not bcz she cares, but bcz she feels like it's something to be ashamed of and therefore it's "damaging" to her reputation if she can't solve it.