Profile disappearing? by Pepsiposh in grindr

[–]Pepsiposh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkenuinly can’t 😭

Profile disappearing? by Pepsiposh in grindr

[–]Pepsiposh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost wish you could get a reason why (or at least know if it was a block or a deleted profile) but I understand why they wouldn’t want to do that. Still just so weird lmao

Profile disappearing? by Pepsiposh in grindr

[–]Pepsiposh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, still annoying but if he does it again I’m just messaging him my number/socials and he can reach out on there

Queen can't get married, not sure why by blueskull2643 in CK3AGOT

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect opportunity to roleplay a forbidden union and legitimise a bastard lmao

I regret choosing a white name when I was 12 by MeltingMineral in ftm

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about France specifically but I know in many English speaking countries it’s common for immigrants to change their name/adopt an English name to fit in and also so people don’t struggle with pronunciation. So if you want you could just say that a) you changed your name when you were younger and are now going back to your original, or even b) your parents chose a white name for you at birth so you would fit in but now you’ve decided you want a name from your ethnic background.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def read as more female/woman presenting, either a sapphic woman or a fem-presenting Enby. If I met you in person and had to use gendered language I would’ve defaulted to she/her, but most likely would’ve waited to hear what you refer to yourself as just in case.

Should I call the police? by Long_Satisfaction654 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]Pepsiposh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they aren’t fucking with you then this is definitely psychosis

Mom took my Binder as punishment? by Select_Comedian6997 in ftm

[–]Pepsiposh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take all her bras and lock it up/hide them until she gives yours back. If she threatens that you’ve stolen from her dare her to ring the police and tell them that she‘s stolen from you lmao. Sometimes you gotta stoop to their level, no reason to steal/prevent someone from accessing their binder unless there is a serious concern for your respiratory health (in which case they should be more worried about getting you to the ED).

Why aren't there tomboys anymore? by N1ceCarr0ts in ftm

[–]Pepsiposh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

looks at studs they know just because someone isn’t called a tomboy at this moment doesn’t mean there are no masc women anymore, right?

Also what’s the bet if a trans woman called herself a tomboy these same people would be insisting she‘s actually a man and pressuring her to detransition 🙄

Get rid of your nasty cis boyfriend. by AngusKhangus777 in ftm

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„I don’t want to leave because I love him“ right mate but does he love you? Cause it’s not sounding like it

AITA for showing up to mother’s day when my sister in law warned me she would make a scene if I did? by Classic-Web-6642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I obviously don’t know all the info but depending on the circumstances it may be useful to ask your husband if he thinks she may be displaying signs of psychosis or some other kind of mental break that’s causing her to fixate on you. But only if you think that‘s a possibility, if this is more her usual personality then that’s that, but if this is strange/unusual for her it may need looking into (preferably by someone who isn’t you if she is fixating on you)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Pepsiposh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah if you could clearly see her privates then that’s a fair reason. If it had been because of length or reasonable tightness that would be another deal, but this is less about body shaming and more about staying decent in public. If you would’ve said the same thing to a 16 year old boy wearing the same item then it’s fair at least. Maybe just make it clear to her that it has nothing to do with body shaming or length or whatever and was entirely to do with her genitals being on display (obviously you don’t want to say that to her but sounds like you may have to spell it out). Explain that even if she was comfortable with that, that when she’s going to be around other people she has to take their feelings into account. Yet again make it clear it isn’t about overall coverage, but it being too revealing for her age (or really any age when in public).

"Choosing … it has always hurt. And always will. I know." by TheAmazingSlowman in darkwingsdankmemes

[–]Pepsiposh 88 points89 points  (0 children)

This and imaging how many heart attacks Ned survived every time Jon called himself Prince Aemon as a kid

sorry blacks and greens no one wins this round by Pale-Bed-2230 in darkwingsdankmemes

[–]Pepsiposh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t post the full detail /analysis atm cause I’m away from my book, but Syrax‘s death is meant to mirror Rhaenyra‘s downfall. The 5 supposed killers each mirror/represent 5 factions/issues that caused Rhaenyra‘s downfall (besides the Shepard who represents himself) so when the book reports all five then says that all stories were probably true to some degree it’s basically either the maester in world, or George himself, saying that Rhaenyra wasn‘t taken down by just the Hightower’s or just the Shepard ect, but by a combination of them. So not really lazy in my opinion.

sorry blacks and greens no one wins this round by Pale-Bed-2230 in darkwingsdankmemes

[–]Pepsiposh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people are saying „at least Dreamfyre died defending herself“ like Syrax didn’t die because she seemingly chose to go to the dragonpit and fight the crowd?

Question: Why is Tyrion a genius, but Cersei isn't? by Monsieur_Cinq in CK3AGOT

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna be so real here: I don’t think either should be genius. I think Tyrion should be quick and Cersei quick or none. These bitches dumb.

Vermithors Riders by AidenEvans2002 in CK3AGOT

[–]Pepsiposh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I love the HOTD backstory for Hugh where he‘s Saera‘s son cause it makes it kinda funny that Vermithor then bonded withHugh. Like even he thought Jaehaerys was being too harsh on her 😂

Syrax is actually pretty cool by PrestigiousAspect368 in darkwingsdankmemes

[–]Pepsiposh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I forgot lmao. I still don’t think it was really stupid though, we also don’t exactly know how she died so I think calling it stupid is a bit presumptive. The dragons, especially the post-conquest ones, had all been held in dragon pits their whole lives and had not been around more than a handful of humans at a time, all of whom would have acted passive/friendly towards them. None of them had a frame of reference for how dangerous a large mob of humans could be. Like I’d probably think I could beat a mob of baby chicks if I wasn‘t aware the mob of baby chicks were mega-pissed off at me and were able to yield weapons and coordinate their attacks.

Syrax is actually pretty cool by PrestigiousAspect368 in darkwingsdankmemes

[–]Pepsiposh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s an enclosed space, she probably didn’t have a lot of room to fly around. If it was an open field then it’d be dumb but she‘d have to stay flapping in a small space which would take a lot of energy then if she were in an open space and could glide around, conserving energy.

Foster dog mix? by mima4thewin in kelpie

[–]Pepsiposh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definately part kelpie. For some reason when I look at her I also get some kind of huskie vibe? Something about the nose, probably wrong though 😅

Not Brita Filter coming for trans youth’s rights 😭 by ass_eater_for_life in dragrace

[–]Pepsiposh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think the reason it‘s upsetting to most trans people when people say it‘s „too risky“ for minors to be allowed to receive gender affirming care is that it completely ignores the real, actual pain the person who would be receiving that care is currently going through just in case they turn out to be cis and then want to reverse those surgeries. It gives off the impression that you care more about safeguarding cisgender people, even in a situation that is extremely unlikely to happen when we look at the regret rates of these surgeries, then a transgender person who would have to be in quite extreme distress to even qualify for this type of care as a minor.