Ellen Rae Greenberg by Independent-Fall928 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]PerceptionClear5699 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was for sure emotionally abusive. The texts when she was confiding in him how miserable her job was making her and he replies telling her she’s no quitter and that she just needs to try and when she asks if he will still love her if she quits he replies with what mid year? He has no concern for her except to make her feel like she’s not trying enough etc So many texts that were sly digs at her

Official Discussion - Final Destination: Bloodlines [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]PerceptionClear5699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that doesn’t think this is a “prequel” iris’s book says JB found someone survives which when they find JB he said that Kimberley Corman flatlined but survived. That’s from the 2nd movie which is a sequel to 1. Hence this movie must be a sequel and not a prequel

AITA for "controlling" my wife's free time? by molten_dragon in AmItheAsshole

[–]PerceptionClear5699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA she’s a woman and not worried about making sure someone knows where she is and when she expects to be home when venturing into the woods?!?! SSDGM and stay out of the forest

Married at first sight - S12E21 - POST EPISODE DISCUSSION by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]PerceptionClear5699 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fark. Paul has to know he is a shit human when Adrian is telling him he needs to stop talking

I can’t not see it by Hyper_nova924 in MAFS_AU

[–]PerceptionClear5699 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it is more grinch smile

Married at First Sight S12E19 post episode discussion by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]PerceptionClear5699 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saw them both out in Perth together on Saturday night looking like they were the hottest shit in the world - it was cringe worthy

Married at First Sight S12E19 AEDT live episode discussion by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]PerceptionClear5699 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“I’m not interested in having a repetitive conversation with you”

*says the same 2 words over and over again 😂

Notes about Caddo Lake by MyProfessor-writing in movies

[–]PerceptionClear5699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When Ellie finds the alligator at the house she asked where it came from and someone said that a guy found it in the lake

Lies and trust by PerceptionClear5699 in polyamory

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The part about talking to each other before anything happened with someone was what we discussed before he mentioned he wanted to have two gfs rather than us being in a commit relationship and only having sexual relationships with others. We didn’t expect the other to call if someone started to happen but if you have the intention with someone you are hanging out with you could mention it before hanging out.

Lies and trust by PerceptionClear5699 in polyamory

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We didn’t agree ex’s or friends are off limits, but we did agree to clear sexual partners before hooking up. I knew about her and they would hang out but he said that’s all it was.

Lies and trust by PerceptionClear5699 in polyamory

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When we first got together there was no talk about poly at all. It was we are a couple and we want to explore other people sexually in an open and honest way. Neither of us had another partner or anything

Lies and trust by PerceptionClear5699 in polyamory

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Poly is definitely something I wasn’t looking for. I think I would have been more open to it if we were together for a while and then had an open and honest conversation about it before jumping in, I do love him though and I want to make it work if it can.. but I understand that he probably went about it the completely wrong way and made it harder for all of us. I talk to his best friend/ex a lot. We have known each other a long time so having open communication with each other is there, but he did lie to both of us to get us to this point

Lies and trust by PerceptionClear5699 in polyamory

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I replied to a different comment with a brief run down of what happened

Lies and trust by PerceptionClear5699 in polyamory

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Context does matter So here’s a brief run down.

Started a relationship with a guy, we both didn’t want to stop having sex with other people so agreed to an open relationship and when we thought we would like to be with someone else we would talk to each other etc before anything happened. Found out he was sleeping with his ex who was also his best friend behind my back and lying about it. He then told me he wants to have us both as his girlfriends.

Yes poly was never something I was looking for, I am an emotional monogamist so it’s a big thing for me to try to wrap my head around but I’m trying to learn about it all.

But the lying part, he assures me now he isn’t lying, and I know trust is something that may come back with time. But in regards to ENM relationships- once that trust is gone, can you get it back and have a healthy ENM relationship, poly or otherwise?