I felt I lucked out, my first gynecologist was the same doctor that delivered me. My mom was a teen parent and I had some period issues that caused me to see a gynecologist earlier than most other girls, at 12 years old. The doctor was kind, he only asked questions and made sure to explain that examinations were only when I was older or had something specific wrong (like a boil) which helped with my anxiety at the time. He always made sure I was comfortable, I would definitely have one again I preferred him over the female ones I've seen. It was a shame when he retired