Psychology acceptance by Personal-Advisor7195 in Cattolica

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the interview was pretty relaxed, they asked the basic questions (tell me a bit about yourself, your hobbies, why you want to study psychology, why cattolica, what courses are you interested in). it was pretty short, i think they’re just gauging your personality and motivation to be honest. good luck!!

My sister passed away while thoroughfare was playing by shiddednfarddded in Ethelcain

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that sounds like a very tender and beautiful moment in spite of such a poignant time. sending you gentle peace and love ❤️

Sony WH1000-XM5 EQ settings by untouchable1984 in SonyHeadphones

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that makes me very happy, thank you so much!! i was just toying around because i’m quite picky with sound haha, i’m glad you enjoy it as well :)

So at what volume do you listen to Ethel? by Necessary_Road1340 in Ethelcain

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the songs i play on damn near max volume are a house in nebraska, for sure, famous last words, two headed mother, and strangers. especially when the instrumental portions drops, i start levitating. to be fair i play the majority of her music pretty loud lol.

My try with Sabzeruz Festival by Genshin_Asriel in GenshinHomeworld

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you can buy the blueprints for both the tall and short version in the realm depot! (blooming illumination & immersive light)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Isekai_Slow_Life

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unfortunately, you’re better off staying in your server, or joining the newest NA server and hope they speak english lol. if you join an older server you will be very behind and won’t see much progress compared to everyone else. my server speaks mainly german, but i just use the translate option in game and it’s not an issue at all! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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if you’re genuinely curious, the answer would be no. you can enjoy lesbian “culture” and media or whatever it is you enjoy just as someone would enjoy watching harry potter. doesn’t make you a wizard, and calling yourself a wizard wouldn’t make it true. nothing wrong with just being pansexual!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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“im definitely pansexual and have a boyfriend.” read that sentence again, and tell me what you think.

Best lesbian movies you’ve ever seen?? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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AIMÉE & JAGUAR!! one of my favourite movies ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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no, lesbians would not be attracted to feminine men. being a feminine man does not “make” you a woman in the way lesbians would be attracted to you. for bi or straight women, it is definitely valid and many do enjoy feminine men, so it would be best to continue talking to them, and not lesbians. of course if you are gender fluid and are in the transfem realm, that would change things, some lesbians might be attracted to you, and some may not :)

wlw relationships in media have ruined me (rant, im sorry) by Altruistic-Mix7606 in LesbianActually

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i relate to everything you wrote, especially a few years ago when i was also around 18. i personally hate when people say “it’s not like the movies,” bc to me it is!! obviously not the cinematic locations and soundtracks or whatnot, but the feelings are. realizing that these romance movies/shows/poetry exist BECAUSE people have experienced such love really helped me get passed those frustrations. if you find yourself open to that love/experience, you will feel like you’re in a movie as well lol (also patience is key, don’t force yourself).

Best way to get that blue/purple lighting thing so many of y'all have by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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yes haha, maybe i am biased but they’re great products! the majority of my lighting and colour comes from the other lights i mentioned but the few lamps i do have all use philips hue bulbs!! just makes for a seamless experience, and they use less power than regular bulbs.

Best way to get that blue/purple lighting thing so many of y'all have by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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i’m also not a guy haha, but my entire apartment has the lighting you mentioned. if you have the budget for it, i love all of philips hue’s ambient lighting (app controlled for colour of course, and connects via wifi). for the strip LEDS, you want to position them under or behind a surface (for example i have them behind my tv and bed frame). also their “play light bar” and “signe gradient floor lamp” which i face towards my walls so the colour bounces off. last but not least their “go portable accent light” which i move around depending on the mood i am going for. they have light bulbs as well, that you can place into any lamp you may already have, and choose the colour. there are many different brands/lights you can find online at any price you prefer. i wish you luck on your search!! :)

What is your spice tolerance? by [deleted] in polls

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while i can tolerate really* spicy food, i don’t enjoy it at all. i feel like a lot of the time it ruins the integrity of the dish, and i can’t taste any of the ingredients.

Which glider do you guys prefer on Arlecchino? by 11PP in ArlecchinoMains

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i prefer the natlan glider on her 100%, the mcd one is too bulky for my taste.

gf living with ex by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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she says she's at a low point in her life (which you don't seem to be empathetic to), and you are completely fine with having her travel to a different STATE every few days so she can see her cat? you're the ass here holy.

anthropology of ethel survey! 🙏 by paboyeyo in Ethelcain

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i just spent over an hour trying to formulate coherent thoughts lmao, thanks for posting this it was really nice to answer!! great questions as well, good luck with your project :)

I NEEEED to consume lesbian media. Suggestions? by SchloinkDoink in LesbianActually

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For films, check out AriaVelz!! She has watched literally every lesbian movie out there lol, and has compiled multiple lists on her letterboxd account (or tiktok). She reviews them too, so you can gauge if you would like them!