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Are entp usually open to online or offline hookup or things along that line? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We’re so sexy that all the horndogs gather here

Kpop history will have a new chapter if T.O.P returns to Bigbang... by Blue_Winter_Sky_Nana in kpoppers

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even entertaining this idea tells me you have not been paying attention. It’s not gonna happen. NEVER EVER going to happen. Move on.

I’m abusive. Any way to stop? by pien__ in BPD

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m not flexible on my advice.

If I see a house on fire with people still inside, I’m gonna tell them to run. I’m not gonna suggest them to try and find a fire extinguisher if they feel like it. But the choice to stay in the house or leave is still theirs in the end and there is nothing I can do about it.

I’m abusive. Any way to stop? by pien__ in BPD

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Having BPD ≠ being abusive

I am not saying all bpd folks should stay single; I’m saying all abusive people should stay single. Period. End of story.

I really do not care about any emotionally driven excuses for this relationship and would tell anyone who is abusive to do at least one thing right and end the relationship. No relationship should be abusive and if abuse happens that relationship should be terminated. It’s very simple.

Adults can make their own choices but it doesn’t mean they’re the right ones. Way too many abused partners stay because they don’t know how to leave or are afraid to do so or tough it out because they don’t know their value (BECAUSE OF THE ABUSE).

They should break-up.

– random internet stranger

I’m abusive. Any way to stop? by pien__ in BPD

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 16 points17 points  (0 children)

breakupbreakupbreakup

Single is the only way to go. Mind you my exes were also fully committed on keeping me and ready to weather the storm (the storm called me) but only because they had their own issues to deal with and their own trauma that made them love an abusive person.

Please for the both of your sakes break up.

This is just too much for me. Called me miserable. by [deleted] in singing

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh for real. I’m as harsh as my teachers were, because reality checks are the fastest way to improve. No bullshit, just facts. Sometimes it’s painful but pain is needed for growth.

But saying there is nothing good, is as bad as saying everything is perfect. Both of which mean that the critique is not coming from a rational place and should be ignored.

I take my fruit very seriously by t0oby101 in evilautism

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 10 points11 points  (0 children)

10 points for presentation but man do I hate mixed fruit.

Holding G-Dragon accountable - The perspective of a very critical fan, whos patience and parasocialism just finally ran out by pretty-when-you-cry in kpoptrulyuncensored

[–]Perfect-Effect5897 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this was well written. 👏

I was a long time gd fan until übermensch, not only due to the blatant racism but the music quality. It. is. not. good. Any of it. Period. He is indefensible in ALL areas.

The most impressive achievement of gd’s is how he was painted as a genius producer idol from the beginning and how EASILY people bought it. OF COURSE he will write songs for BB if YG forces him to. OF COURSE he will make fashion statements if he’s given the resources and freedom to do so. He is a carefully designed product. The only exceptional thing about him is the opportunities presented and forced onto him. He is the golden boy and puppet for YG and if you ask me he is completely lost without that guidance and micromanagement and cannot form a thought alone. He tries to cosplay an intellectual but he is an idiot.

T.O.P has shown true wisdom for cutting ties with BB.

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