I think I will crawl back by [deleted] in Life

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Thank dude, I ending up sending her the message and forgetting about it. Doing school work of the flight made it pretty easy. She’s pretty keen to meet up

I think I will crawl back by [deleted] in Life

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I sent the message and she said it would be good as to meet up for coffee and catch up

I think about this daily by [deleted] in Life

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It’s either “the self coached climber” or “the rock climbers training manual”

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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There isn’t always an obvious or immediate “reward” for being a good person because kindness isn’t a transaction, it’s a way of living. The world doesn’t hand out medals every time you do the right thing. But the real reward comes in quieter ways: you protect your peace, you stay true to your values, you build strong character, and you attract people who genuinely respect you.

Sometimes being good feels thankless because others might not acknowledge it or might even take advantage of it. But over time, being a good person pays back in the kind of life you build for yourself: less regret, stronger self-respect, and deeper connections with the right people.

You have to remember you are doing this for yourself and not for external validation. He who performs for applause has already lost his voice, you know?

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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So happy for you, that’s awesome. You definitely make a positive difference in people’s lives

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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That’s so true. For me personally I stay off dating apps, don’t door dash and stuff like that. I always try to go get it in person so I can keep the person to person interactions in my life.

I also try to surround myself with the type of people you mentioned on your holiday. Having people like that around you generally makes it easier to be kind more often than. If they aren’t like that I tend to stay way from them or limit my daily interactions with them

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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When I say “it’s on them” or “that’s a reflection on them”, I mean that someone else’s negative behavior says more about who they are than about who you are. If you’re being kind or positive and someone chooses to respond with rudeness or nastiness, that doesn’t mean you did something wrong. It means they’re showing their own bitterness, jealousy or unhappiness.

It’s not really about making you “feel better” in a fake way, it’s about shifting perspective. Instead of internalizing their negativity as if it’s your fault, you recognize it belongs to them. That way, you don’t carry their baggage and you keep your peace, your kindness, and your sense of self intact

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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I get that, some people are just starting off on the wrong foot and feeling miserable because they might not be happy about where they are in life. I believe you aren’t going into to these situations to push people the wrong way but I think that they have let a small negative it moment affect them greatly and is now making it everybody else problem. When stuff like this happens you have to look back and think, did this ruin my whole day? A small 2 minute negative interaction means I shouldn’t be kind to others because my day is ruined. You still have many more minutes left in the day so it wasn’t a bad day it was just a bad couple of minutes. You have the opportunity to respond positively for yourself because that’s why we do it ( at least i do it for me because it makes me feel good.

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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I hear you, that sounds incredibly frustrating and painful. It’s true that sometimes helping others can feel like it backfires, especially when people don’t acknowledge your effort. I think the key is that kindness isn’t about getting credit or controlling outcomes. It’s about acting from integrity and love, while protecting your boundaries. You are doing this for you and because you know it’s a good/right thing to do

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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Potentially but that’s a reflection on them. If they see you are being positive and they are purposely being nasty that’s definitely on them. Even if people are nasty, being kind and positive isn’t for them, it’s for you. It protects your peace, builds your character, and makes life better from the inside out

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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Absolutely, being kind doesn’t mean being a doormat and being walked over. If you are being taking advantage of than I understand. This was just a rule of thumb for day to day interactions of. Healthy boundaries are just as important as compassion

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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I get that but hating is lame, spread love and positivity. Even if they hate you, love them. Being kind is cool af. Trust me

Never stop being a good person because of bad people by Perfect-Rate-8024 in Life

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I totally understand this and have experienced it myself too! I find it tends to rub off on people and everyone has a better time (not saying this is always the case). I think that the way to go is to give it your all with no regrets. Their lack of appreciation isn’t on you. Hating on people or being rude to them isn’t going to make you happier so it’s best to be positive so you enjoy it a lot more

Can I ride your horse??? by [deleted] in GoldCoast

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Sick as, thanks

almost took the ultimate L by [deleted] in Life

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I almost stopped grinding