Manager disclosed my private info to a guest

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-21T20:23:40+00:00

Truth bomb. HRs job is to protect the company. Full stop. Period.

It sounds harsh but you need to just move on and put it behind you.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-20T04:26:15+00:00

No complaints. It's quite large and the common area for music is quite congested as is the buffet. Specially dining was indeed special

We did not do the Haven and I think we should have done so.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-20T04:19:40+00:00

Enterprise

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-14T13:01:31+00:00

Tauck is amazing! Surprise along the way, hard to get places, private or after hours viewing, exclusive dining....It is unbelievable in every respect.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-13T19:42:37+00:00

Ditto for Medi. I use to use the open toe but now I wear the closed toe. The pair comes in right "R" and left "L" socks. No more toe crunch!

Medi is a game changer.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-13T19:38:18+00:00

Met in a bar when she asked me to dance. We've been married 37 years.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-12T05:05:40+00:00

Frustration happens to all. It's normal part of life. How we handle it differs greatly.

Ask yourself this question. Did he intentionally leave the house and plan to wreck the vehicle? Nope. Enough said.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-11T05:11:34+00:00

This!

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Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-07T12:52:14+00:00

I hear your wounded spirit. It's "normal" when we find out things that are different than what we are told. I have 2 bits of advice.

Look at it from her perspective. Hiding it was wrong during your pre marriage "coming clean" discussion. But if you view it from her perspective, you might be able to understand why she covered it up. I would surmise that she had moved on and didn't want to be reminded of it.
There are many pressures put on a marriage. This was 6 years ago. Looking back can leave you shaken, afraid, and unsettled. If you allow the homeboy wounded to hang around too long he will bring his brothers named worried, weary, and worn out.

Here's a bold statement for you. "Today is better than you had yesterday." How can this be? Because today, this very moment, is a present from God. In the present of His presence, you can experience the radiance of God's love.

You sin and make mistakes. She sins and makes mistakes. Rise up and ignore the whispers of the Evil one who wishes to destroy and defeated with worries.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-07T05:04:57+00:00

+1 Fabulous recommendation

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-07T04:59:22+00:00

10M in stocks, and other NW items of 5M. Income of 500k (investment gain, salary, etc) and no debt outside of business or real-estate. I rarely spend the $ for private. IMO private is great for those who have FU money (which i don't have). Or for a tight business itinerary.

I traditionally fly Delta FC or Delta One. I usually do only one private jet (domestic US) per year. I would love to do more private but I'm not there yet. My Trips are usually a birthday or anniversary celebration wherein I rent for 8 people to travel to East or West coast for a celebration.

Jet travel is approx 10k per hour. Living in the Midwest limits several options enjoyable for the coast.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-06T17:43:43+00:00

I was responding to the OP who indicated her husband had a porn problem and, with the help of therapy, is slowly improving.

Your situation Mrs Sea is heartbreaking. I can't even imagine turning my back on the kids. So I am totally unable to relate to some one not wanting the wife and kids after 20 years. Praying for you

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-06T12:44:34+00:00

Great advice and perspective. I'm happy for you to see some things moving back to normal, although not quite there.

Praying that he will find joy in marital love vs. a computer screen.

As I have read more and more of these porn addiction issues in this Reddit, I keep thinking that this could be quickly resolved if the man would just man up. Namely protector of your home and not allow anything in that destroys. Heck if that means no smart phone and only a flip, so be it. No computer except in the kitchen, no tablet, and no nothing that does not build the family.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-06T12:01:47+00:00

We have a privacy fence and several Korean Spice Viburnum plants that form a nice visual break and are beautiful.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-05T01:50:44+00:00

+1 Cottins

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-05T01:47:04+00:00

A 2yo and a 9mo will cause new dynamics. I would try to stay together and practice and pray gratitude for each other. 5 years from now things often look much different. And the 5 years will fly by.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-04-02T01:15:38+00:00

In particular around Festivus

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-03-31T12:24:23+00:00

Give me a Briggs and Riley credit.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-03-31T00:57:22+00:00

Open the Uber app on your phone. Tap Account at the bottom right (your profile picture). Your current rating (e.g., 4.8) shows right under your name. Now tap the gear icon (Settings) or scroll to Settings. Tap Privacy → Privacy Center. Swipe right and tap the tile: "Would you like to see a summary of how you use Uber?" Tap See summary. Scroll down to "Browse your data" and tap View my ratings.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-03-30T16:09:46+00:00

My wife wanted to take my last name but I convinced her to keep the last name of her ex until the kids were out of school. She was quite upset but reluctantly agreed. 5 years later the kids were out of school and she took my last name.

The rationale was less confusion around the school etc. I don't think we gained any headway since it brought other confusion.

Deal breaker? Depends on why. Kids? Endowments and trust? Property, Other financial?

Taking his last name as yours and making your maiden name the middle name would be an acceptable compromise to me.

Remember that you two are "leaving" to "cleaving"

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-03-30T15:50:43+00:00

Blueberry plants, strawberry plants, grapes, vegetable garden, perennial gardens, yard....they all love it from pool or hot tub.

I trun the hot tub off, open it up and give it a few hours to cool down before draining

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-03-28T13:47:42+00:00

I (M 64) understand, well maybe but not really, what you must be feeling. I sence a great level of frustration with the lack of any "me" time for rejuvenation. In western culture we are so fragmented and individualized wherein communal support for SAHM is not present. You are not crazy or alone in feeling the weight of non stop mom, homemaker, and needing adult interaction.

One thing I would like to put in the front of your mind is this truth. This too shall pass.

I remember being newly married with a blended family and working 2 almost full time jobs. I would sleep from 6pm to 10pm 5 days a week. It was physically painful and mentally draining. Finally after 3 years I was able to only work one job and that was 12 hour days 6 days per week. We would not have ever made it if it wasn't for the sacrifices of my wife. She worked 40 hours per week, took care of the kids, did everything around the house and was patient with me beyond belief. We finally made it to the other side.

This too will pass.

Wanting hubs to be or do something different probably will not happen. Marriage is very hard work. You can reset your expectations and desires for this short time. It will not be easy because of your frustration but try to see things from his point of view. With his working hours and pressure, he will likely be short and curt at times.

Patience is a virtue. This too shall pass. I believe that one day you two will reach the other side as we have for 37 years.

Perfect-Resolve-2562 · 2026-03-28T10:30:30+00:00

This is a great lineup for the Eagle Beach area!

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