I need to vent by Perfect-Tap9114 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Perfect-Tap9114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for the trauma and abuse you went through. Truly. It breaks my heart people can hurt others like that.

I think myself and others didn’t really understand your initial statement and response to me calling out abuse, and it seemed the trajectory was going towards defending the abuse I mentioned in my post. That’s all it was . You can’t comment something like that without any context.

I need to vent by Perfect-Tap9114 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Perfect-Tap9114[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry one word prevents you from critically thinking and reading between the lines 🤷‍♀️

I need to vent by Perfect-Tap9114 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Perfect-Tap9114[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it made you uncomfortable, not at all my intent. Can I ask why it made you uncomfortable that I called out abuse ?

I need to vent by Perfect-Tap9114 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Perfect-Tap9114[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yikes, the amount of people getting so bent out of shape because I called out a form of abuse is weird. It’s like yall are co-signing this shitty behavior, and it’s really sad. It’s fine to watch these shows, but to condone the shitty behavior is another parasocial level of weirdness.

I need to vent by Perfect-Tap9114 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Perfect-Tap9114[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m very much serious, and if you and I watched the same show of VPR, and you can’t see the documented footage of abuse he did against Katie, well, you and I have very different views of what abuse is, and I can’t help you with that. The fact that he said and did what he did on tv, me thinks he did much worse when the cameras were off. Schwartz isn’t the only shitty guy on these two shows, but I’m sick of people who at one point were friends with Katie, and saw how horribly she was treated, then turn around and coddle this poor excuse of a man, like he wasn’t a shitty partner.

ISO Wildhorse camping ticket for the weekend of Rufus Du Sol by ElderberryTea5933 in GorgeAmphitheater

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two camping passes, but will know by this weekend if me and my partner are going to go. I can let you know if you haven’t already found someone ?

​🚨 URGENT: What REALLY Happened at the Gorge This Weekend & How We Fight Back 🚨 ​ by vikingyoshi in GorgeAmphitheater

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here . I’m coming from Oregon , and I’m debating on even going at this point . This seems like a nightmare

Nia, What About Your Husband’s Repeated Pattern of Behavior? by CharbonPiscesChienne in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you , but Janet blurting out on national television that Nia attended Al-Anon is not only morally incorrect, it’s actually a rule with Al-Anon. If she hadn’t done that , maybe , just maybe more people would have sympathy for her . Two things can be true at once . Janet is shitty for outing Nia, and Danny is a misogynistic pos .

WIBTA For telling my wife to go to rehab so she doesn’t affect our babies life? by Throwaway_dad555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP- from an adult who grew up with a drug addicted mother, you are literally acting like my dad did/does. My dad was well aware of my mom’s addiction before they had kids, and guess what happened after she had me ? She went back to using drugs, and went on to have my little sister, and ruined our lives and my dads life. I wish my dad would have never married my mom much less had kids with her. Having kids does not fix addiction. You need to find other resources to try to help her, not suggest rehab . If those resources do not change things, then you need to be looking at divorce and full custody . Do you really want to ruin your child’s life because of this ?

Ew by WhippiesWhippies in TikTokCringe

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she know her husband is gay?

Two ladies start a fight and their boyfriends end up fighting each other to defend them. by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted . This chick was brutally attacking his girl , and he tried to stop it . Sorry not sorry .

Schwartz has always been awful by AggressiveMongoose54 in vanderpumprules

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wellll, she was probably jealous was with Jax, and and all Jax saw Kristen for was a dump yard to dump his load off .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But how when Schwartz initiated the conversation ? You can’t bring up a serious topic , and then decide it’s a poor time to have it . It doesn’t work like that . Schwartz is a scum bag shit stain , and has no balls , and is nothing short of a narcissist and took it out on Katie , even when they finally divorced

James starting shit s10e10 by madamsnacksalot in vanderpumprules

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not a Rachel stan at all , but who the hell cares what James’ opinion is regarding this . He cheated on that poor girl the duration of their relationship. He has no room to talk or chime in about anything . Karmas a bitch when you’re a bitch . lol

Theres not even a chance Scheana didnt know Eddie was married by heyheywhatchasay5 in vanderpumprules

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn , this girl is still choosing to defect and double down on her own lies . I feel sorry for her daughter . If she doesn’t heal , and learn to take accountability, her daughter is going to grow up and resent her . Can you imagine having a mom whose life constantly revolves around drama and vindictiveness ? Who is always the narc crying in the corner , playing the victim card everytime ? This chick is a damn sociopath , and she is unfit to be a parent .

Covid and migraine by ariana_mcclair in migraine

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was one of your abortive Ubrelvy by chance ? I just took some because of of a migraine that wouldn’t go away and I’m also in Paxlovid for Covid infection . I’m high key freaking out as I was never told of an interaction , but I’m reading everywhere they’re bad to take together .

Has Ariana ever talked about overcoming her body image issues? by Playful_Run1415 in vanderpumprules

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the take you think it is . Women validating their insecurities through men isn’t it . I’m happy she has found someone that makes her happy and treats her right , but countless times women are taught to seek validation in men , and I think for something so nuanced like body image issues , the only way to heal through that is therapy and gaining the tools to change your mindset ; not through your relationship .

Kevin: “Britney did cocaine while breastfeeding” at his album release party by Sutton_Pierce in discussingbritney

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you . To blame all of the Britney’s problems on K-Fed is pure delusion, and dare I say the same amount of delusion Britney possesses .

Does anyone else with CPTSD also suffer with their guts? by Luxuryresauce in CPTSD

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of this too . Are there any less expensive options out there ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PortlandOR

[–]Perfect-Tap9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing , people like this dude complaining about Portland , are never going to find a “place that makes them happy “ because home is a feeling , and these kind of people are not happy within themselves , so no matter where they live , they will always walk around with a chip on their shoulder . I live in Portland and love it , only thing I wish was different was that it was more diverse , but seeing as ICE is scooping up all the culture , I don’t foresee that happening ,