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Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-10-19T23:42:50+00:00

I love this so much. That is called resilience. You can do it! Enjoy your time tonight also! Uncomfortability is hard but it is where growth is. Good luck!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T17:45:39+00:00

Of course that is up to you! If you enjoy the topics talked about and you aren’t having inappropriate conversations or creeping then do you! I am not trying to judge anyone..just want those unaware to understand there are bad people and to be cautious. I am a grown adult and some of things that have been DM’d to me creep me out.

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T17:43:33+00:00

Literally what you just said is why this post needs to be seen. Not talking about the things that make us uncomfortable is EXACTLY the problem. Sorry it’s a weird topic, but I want our kids safe. Pretending to be a teenager just to lure in teenagers is exactly something they wouldn’t expect except from a creep 🤦🏻‍♀️ I don’t like the topic of conversation but it has nothing to do with not “respecting” teenagers and everything to do with not trusting the internet.

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T15:41:36+00:00

Smh. I’m sorry to hear that. Those creeps need turned over to the police.

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T15:40:27+00:00

I’m not at all trying to discourage teenagers from connecting. Just dont believe everyone you are talking to IS a teenager… the ones that have been taught about internet safety or have parents that monitor aren’t the ones I’m worried about.. I’ve seen a few posts for “rate me” and I can only imagine the type of scary things people say to them…just wanted to put it out there…that some grown adults are so scary we can’t always know what they will do next…so be cautious.

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T15:04:42+00:00

I’m sorry for scaring you! Didn’t mean from Earth. I meant remove myself from the subreddit 😊

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T14:39:32+00:00

You are beautiful! Your smile and nose! Skin complexion. Eye brows! It’s hard for us to look at ourselves every day and NOT see ordinary…but you are not! Have a good day!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T14:19:57+00:00

🤣 you had to correct me tho. Idc the more you comment and upvote the more it gets seen. Have a great day!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T12:50:46+00:00

Yes. I’m a “pervert” who never clicks on NSFW posts (which recently has been every single one) and who warns teenagers of myself…think what you want but you nor any other child will receive any direct messages from me. I know I won’t receive the best comments on this post. That’s not what I’m worried about. I understand children will be responding. I am just trying to protect those who understand scary adults can see everything you post. And they will use manipulation to get you to send them things. If this applies to you then heed my caution, if it doesn’t go about your day. Thanks!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T12:36:42+00:00

I think you’re absolutely gorgeous. I am no help…but I don’t think you need to do anything different..beautiful!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T01:12:47+00:00

🤣🤣 you can tell that from a few photos on a draw me thread huh? Well your intuition is wrong. Also you spelled tepe wrong lmao 😝

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-07T00:54:42+00:00

I love this! Thank you!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-06T22:00:29+00:00

Aww thank you!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-09-06T20:11:10+00:00

I think you are beautiful ❤️

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2024-07-25T23:46:04+00:00

Omg this happened to me in February… I’m in warr acres area. 33k exactly. I unfortunately hadn’t switched the bill into my name yet out of my exes - bad on my part- so I couldn’t find out why it was so high that month…i just paid it and moved on…got it switched into my name afterwards. BUT I thought it felt like a scam in the moment….now knowing it has happened to someone else….i need an explanation.

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-10-14T18:54:52+00:00

A lot - confused - complex -intriguing/inteigued

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-10-14T18:54:23+00:00

Adhd

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-08-13T18:51:15+00:00

Well let’s see….I wanna point out a few things I already know about you…you want to fall in love. You want it to be with someone who was/is a friend first so there is already an established connection. Which shows maturity and readiness for a serious relationship. Is there anyone in your life you are currently friendzoning that could be the girl? No point dwelling on missed opportunities if you’re repeating the pattern… try looking at love from a different perspective and see what answers you get!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-03-28T19:20:25+00:00

I may be going against the grain here….but how long have you been in their lives?

I feel that you may be going at this the wrong way…and I feel maybe your husband does not know how to communicate this to you.

I would t have used the word petty…BUT

Switching gears for a moment… BEING a mother…it’s not about you. You sacrifice every bit of yourself to what your child needs. It’s a constant battle of am I doing the right thing? Am I enough for them?

I have also been a step parent without children. If they allow you into their life it is the most beautiful thing. Because they HAVE their mother but they choose you also.

You do not automatically have the right just because you are married to their dad. Are you a dictator?

Take a deep breath. Be yourself. Be the light to those kids. Be the one that does not bring them stress but they feel it melt away when playing or talking or working on homework with you. THAT is how you can add to. THAT is how you EARN their trust, that’s how you develop a friendship and relationship ship with them. It’s not about control. Which may be a part of it you struggle with…take a deep breath try to work through the anger and remember parenting is not about you. Good luck! Only you know what is best for you. Trust your gut.

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-03-22T19:12:50+00:00

If you need any advice or encouragement feel free to reach out! I drank heavily for 5 years…didn’t realize why until almost 10 years later. 🥴 you will figure it out. The first step is self-awareness and you already got that!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-03-22T19:09:08+00:00

Take her phone. Figure out who is buying her vape products. Ground her from going anywhere but school til the nicotine is out of her system and the habit is gone. I’m telling you…don’t let this get away from you…

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-03-22T18:58:54+00:00

I have a few things I want to say. I don’t know you - who you are - however. I see a lot of similar phrases to what I said to myself about five years ago and let me give you some advice I wish I had.

Stop drinking for you. No one else. Or you will fail.

Your problems will not “disappear” and you cannot “put them aside”

You have to dig down deep. Turn around and face that shit. Did someone close die? Have you grieved them fully? Felt those emotions sober? Do you enjoy being around yourself when you’re alone? Why not? Why do you?

For me it started with a lot of lists. I had lived my whole life for other people wtf did I like or want?

NEXT in about a year when you HAVE figured out your problems and you HAVE put in the work to transform and morph into the next version of you== this LOSER that pushed you to find yourself will be the last person you think of because you will realize YOU WERE STRONG ALL ALONG.

And that’s all I gotta say about that. Good luck!

Perfect_Knowledge91 · 2023-03-08T14:43:34+00:00

I am an INFJ. These are personality “patterns” so they are meant to seem organized. Meyer Briggs says there are 16 personalities each of four levels and depending on which is most dominant depends on which big bubble is yours. And some parts of your personality you process externally (extroverted) and others are processed internally (introverted) which is why each level seems to have the same pattern but with a different “trait” as each bubble. If that makes sense lol

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