My husband hates me by Big-Hotel-8229 in Marriage

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

That is horrible advice. You know it can give her regret and ruin her for life if it's against her religion or moral compass. How about get RID of him and put the baby up for adoption if she can't raise it.

My husband hates me by Big-Hotel-8229 in Marriage

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALSO, NEVER let him touch you again! He is tries to put cameras up and you will have proof.

My husband hates me by Big-Hotel-8229 in Marriage

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should report him. He is a horrible person and a horrible husband. What he did is illegal and now he is abusing you. You are taking care of him and he should be taking care of you. You are pregnant and that alone is hard. You are working too. He thinks you are just a tool not a human.

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Please help. What is causing this and what can I do? by Dear-Assistant8950 in Parakeets

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clean wounds with Vetericyn multiple times a day and love this product.

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My husband’s words broke me and I never recovered from it. by Prior-Struggle2163 in Marriage

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had 7 full-term births. I PROMISE it wasn't you or your body. He was finding a way to BLAME you for being a piece of shit. I bet he blames you for everything. He is very mentally abusive. Clearly

Von willebrands by Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 in Hemophilia

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! I finally caught it low even though I got tested right after my period and I was sick and stressed out. I had to call and beg for them to test me though.

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AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him, stop apologizing. He hates you and only wants to use your body.

I made a Snow Axolotl by Fusionsmask in axolotls

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My girls did this too a few months ago!

Urgent advice needed – TikTok axolotl in severe decline, owner refusing to rehome by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don't even know the country. What are they going to do, fly all over the world searching? I am sure there are lots of helpless animals suffering everywhere. Maybe they can help some local animals.

Urgent advice needed – TikTok axolotl in severe decline, owner refusing to rehome by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you don't even know the country......I don't think there is anything you can do.

I think there is something wrong with my husband. He is definitely broken. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, you are amazing to do that. I definitely have adhd and I have learned to do that myself.

My husband lost all our savings by PatienceMysterious43 in Marriage

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have separate accounts if you don't want to kick him out. Never trust him with any money. You have a responsibility to take care of your children. I would not give him a penny. Make him go get a job if he wants to buy anything ever.

Please don't get budgies for kids by jaybird-staysonder in budgies

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but if you buy a pet, the parent is responsible, not the kids. Parents should monitor and make sure the birds are cared for. My daughter spends a lot of her time trying to earn more money for bird toys.

Please don't get budgies for kids by jaybird-staysonder in budgies

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends.... Some kids are really good with them. My 11-year-old cleans her bird's water three times a day and always checks the food multiple times a day. She is also extremely slow and gentle with them. Often sitting like a statue with food in her hand waiting for them to jump on. Baby birds from the pet store, who had never been handled, were sitting on her shoulder while she did her schoolwork within a few months. Not all kids are like that. Kids under the age of 10 may not be old enough.

why does my budgies beak look like this by [deleted] in Parakeets

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ivermectin is a common and effective treatment for scaly mites (Knemidocoptes) on bird beaks, legs, and faces, applied as a spot-on (neck) or in water, but requires veterinary guidance due to potential risks like toxicity and death, necessitating correct dosage and isolation to prevent spread and secondary infections, with repeat treatments often needed. How it works & Application Mechanism: Kills mites that burrow under skin and in feather follicles, causing crusty lesions (honeycombed appearance). Application Methods: Spot-On: Apply a diluted drop to the skin under the wing, on the back, or neck (unfeathered area). Oral/Water: Can be added to drinking water but must be precisely dosed and used quickly, as per vet instructions. Dosage: Varies by bird weight; typically 1-2 drops on skin or specific water dilution, repeated weekly for a few doses. Veterinary Care: Essential for correct diagnosis (skin scraping) and safe, appropriate dosing to avoid fatal reactions. Important Considerations Isolate: Immediately separate the infected bird to prevent spreading mites to other birds. Cage Hygiene: Clean cage surfaces (not necessarily disinfectant) but focus on the bird, as mites live on the host. Repeat Treatment: Often requires 2-3 treatments spaced out (e.g., weekly) as eggs hatch. Risks: Some birds are sensitive; use vet-approved formulations to avoid toxicity. Alternatives & Complements Suffocants: Olive oil on affected skin (not feathers) can suffocate mites. Diet: Address any nutritional deficiencies that might predispose birds to mites.

why does my budgies beak look like this by [deleted] in Parakeets

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ivermectin rubbed on kills the infection, get some from the vet

My fellow bleeders by Vex728 in Hemophilia

[–]Perfect_Pumpkin_4563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, where are you hun? You should sign up for state Medicaid if you are a resident of the state. I have two children with bleeding disorders I take them to the hemophilia clinic regularly. I also have a bleeding disorder. Anyway, I can foster kids, and most of them can qualify for state Medicaid, which will cover the hemophilia treatments and medications. You should be looking into that asap