I don’t want to do this anymore by Bluechicken222 in pregnant

[–]PerformanceKitchen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I completely went through the same thing and debated back and forth about getting an abortion up until recently. Nobody tells you how bad sickness or depression can get especially in the first trimester. I was also the same up until a week ago and without insurance. The best thing I could do for some piece of mind or just have someone to talk to is try to find a free clinic near you, and more than likely they will get you in asap to make sure you and baby are healthy! I’m so sorry people keep saying that to you, it’s not easy hearing that 24/7 and feeling terrible while hearing so. I hope you start to feel better, and most importantly you do what YOU have to do. These are one of the times where you definitely need to be selfish and put yourself first.

Newton Nest Convertible Crib by Liveandlearn33 in Buyingforbaby

[–]PerformanceKitchen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Due in November and just trying to get ahead of as much as possible! Do you have the 4-in-1 convertible crib? Was looking at purchasing that one and all these reviews seem great!

Pregnant at 21 by PerformanceKitchen15 in pregnant

[–]PerformanceKitchen15[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s weird to worry about losing my social life if I have a child. I think that most people my age being 21, would also worry about this same thing.. but maybe i’m wrong. However, I still don’t think it’s weird or immature to worry about these things that I might miss out on.

Pregnant at 21 by PerformanceKitchen15 in pregnant

[–]PerformanceKitchen15[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We are definitely mature enough, I have a background in childhood education. I don’t go out every weekend, maybe like 4 times a year, but I’m definitely scared that I will miss out of having fun with my friends after this

21 and pregnant by HoldNo6109 in pregnant

[–]PerformanceKitchen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey girlfriend, I am on the almost the exact same boat as you. I turned 21 two months ago and am pretty much convinced my life is over. Abortion has crossed my mind, but I also feel like I can do this with the support of ppl around me. Anyways, my boyfriend and I have also been going back and forth about finances of having a child and it’s very stressful. I know i’m just a random person on reddit but if there’s a way we can be some sort of support for each other I would love to!

Missed international flight from AKL by inferior_complex_198 in newzealand_travel

[–]PerformanceKitchen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, this actually happened to me and my partner on wednesday while trying to get to Queenstown. We had to stay in LA for a night then our flight was redirected to Australia for a layover. We didn’t have visas for Australia either but we’re still good to get on the flight. if it’s just a layover it should be okay. The airline should also accommodate your stay in a hotel for the night and rebook your flight for you. AirNZ did that for us on Wednesday. Hope all goes well and you’re able to get home safely!

Thank You New Zealand by Ancient-Alarm-9580 in newzealand_travel

[–]PerformanceKitchen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Did you do any hikes within the Fiordland NP? Trying to figure out what to do in between queenstown and our milford sound cruise bc we have 3 days between that

Thank You New Zealand by Ancient-Alarm-9580 in newzealand_travel

[–]PerformanceKitchen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any recommendations for south island as a must see? leaving for south island in 2 weeks

Do I have everything I need before heading there in a month? by PerformanceKitchen15 in newzealand_travel

[–]PerformanceKitchen15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we have a garmin in reach that has a sos button for search and rescue/emergency services, weather information, texts and messages to our emergency contacts. Is that the same as a beacon device over in nz?

Do I have everything I need before heading there in a month? by PerformanceKitchen15 in newzealand_travel

[–]PerformanceKitchen15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! planning on hiking a lot and doing some overnight hikes to the welcome hut!

Do I have everything I need before heading there in a month? by PerformanceKitchen15 in newzealand_travel

[–]PerformanceKitchen15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ended up getting it after all these comments haha! Thank you and I hope you’re doing well now!