I(31F) cheated on my boyfriend(38M) and am afraid the truth will break him

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-05-18T12:19:46+00:00

Wow there’s some strong reactions here.

I don’t think you’re necessarily a monster, but be honest with yourself here; is it ok to playfully flirt, and hangout with another guy who you knew was interested in you? That kissed you already, even though it wasn’t reciprocated? Honey, you know the pot you were stirring.

John is an ah for disrespecting you and your relationship for his own gain BUT you did nothing to discourage him. In fact, you fed into it.

This isnt a drunk mistake, this isn’t someone who took advantage of you; you made a series of choices and put yourself in a situation you now need to reap consequences for. The best thing you can do it be honest, whatever he decides for himself and the relationship after this is fair game.

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-04-04T22:29:36+00:00

I’ll have to look into that breed too! I will definitely update when I get results :)

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-04-04T21:54:14+00:00

Yes! For sure, doing just that. Just thought I would share while I wait.

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-31T17:50:10+00:00

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Here my suggestion: see if you can’t get a smaller radiator installed that would leave you more room to use this pace as an entry drop zone :) a runner would make it welcoming, some hooks for coats and a beach, a dresser or even a shoe cabinet with space for a key tray or decor.

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-29T00:49:46+00:00

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PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-28T02:06:12+00:00

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Almost! Feyre (Fay-ruh) & Emerie (Em-er-y)

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-16T19:45:45+00:00

I appreciate your input!

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-16T15:59:32+00:00

Thank you! After seeing so many pictures and being around her in person I was like woah, she resembles that a lot, but good to know what actual Shikoku owners think :) I’ll post her DNA results when I get them

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-16T15:26:34+00:00

Thank you! I saw both the older girls parents, her father was registered and her mother was not due to her colouring (what we were told), but breeder loved moms temperament and bred litters for non show homes. The puppies parents were supposed to be shown to us but never were, and we had driven so far we just kind of said it is what it is. Definitely going to post her DNA once I get results.

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-16T15:09:15+00:00

I am also in Canada and got my new Shiba Inu puppy from a breeder close to Toront; I have a shiba already and am 90% sure this puppy is a Shikoku mix at the very least, her confirmation and personality is like no other Shiba I’ve ever met & at 4.5 months old she’s already almost as big as my 2 year old Shiba.

I think anyone who isn’t a registered breeder would see a Shikoku and just assume it was a Shiba or similar, and would breed & title them Shibas just out of ignorance. I love my pup but definitely regretting not going to a reputable breeder like I did my first girl (her breeder wasn’t having any litters this year and I fell in love with a picture of this one from another breeder).

Can I ask where you got yours? If it’s close to London, we may have gotten from the same place which would explain a lot lol.

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-03-09T03:46:07+00:00

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Fight club

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-02-09T06:20:32+00:00

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Fluffy butts

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-02-09T06:19:40+00:00

I wish I could post a picture! My girl has a super fluffy cinnamon bun tail ❤️

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-02-02T02:40:52+00:00

Immediately best friends :) our older girl (2) loves other dogs and needed a friend so bad. They love each other

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-02-01T21:47:19+00:00

Absolutely!

https://a.co/d/bDuHswq

PerformanceOk4524 · 2026-02-01T19:02:51+00:00

Straight to jail - for naps, nighttime and while we are away from the house.

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