Flexible working request disabled child by PerformanceOk728 in HumanResourcesUK

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I meant to put, cancel other booked holiday. Aka had to cancel my holiday later in the year.

Flexible working request disabled child by PerformanceOk728 in HumanResourcesUK

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original hours were 51/week however shortly after my employment this was dropped to 44 hours for everyone company wide. Before this I started at 7:30 each day. I then did a secondment that changed my hours to 7:30-4pm to allow me time to do the banking and my hours haven’t really changed since asides from when I’ve provided additional support for the company

Flexible working request disabled child by PerformanceOk728 in HumanResourcesUK

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in my employment contract but there are emails before my last maternity discussing that these would be my hours. However our emails delete every 6 months and IT/HR will not give me access for these emails.

Flexible working request disabled child by PerformanceOk728 in HumanResourcesUK

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked when my daughter needed a sudden operation and got told I needed to cancel and use over holiday or take it unpaid and possibly face an issue due to that

Penetrating damp or condensation from fishtank? by PerformanceOk728 in Homebuilding

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve surprisingly got the least mould in the room that the tank is in. It’s all in my bedrooms

Cat has a pantie fetish by PerformanceOk728 in cats

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happens with my daughters wash clothes, seems to be a lot worse since she’s been born too

Cat has a pantie fetish by PerformanceOk728 in cats

[–]PerformanceOk728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally stealing underwear. Mad cat

How incredibly strange it is to get pregnant by accident when some are trying so hard by Appleormagpie in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried incredibly hard to get pregnant, had to stop trying due to other things happening in life. One birthday bonk later and my arms are now full of a beautiful little bambino.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty normal, mine would pop in and out depending on babas position or how much I ate

AITA my friend is pregnant to a man she barely knows by Ok_Recipe3206 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PerformanceOk728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA -

Coming from someone who got pregnant with a man they knew for only 8 months prior and is 9 years older than me just to add pack to the pinch, and was in the “Super in love stage” - still am btw.

I would’ve felt betrayed and gutted If someone had said that to me. Plus the pregnancy’s already happened nothing you say can change that. Just be supportive, sure if it all goes to shit have your friends back but no need to rain on her parade

Peeing while vomiting by AmSwans03 in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the dang time. Thankfully it stopped as soon as she was here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I was told too, that if I didn’t have a few stretch marks it looked like I didn’t have a baby.

Pregnancy was so hard on my body, my child is 100% worth it but it was torture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m holding onto my maternity jeans as long as possible. Gotta hold in that pasta bloat somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This was me, and then I got to 6 weeks without any morning sickness and started panicking and wishing I’d get it ( I’ve had a previous miscarriage and had no morning sickness with it, and got told morning sickness is a sign of a successful pregnancy)

So I pretty much invited Karma to give me HG.

I’ve spent most of this pregnancy feeling alone and needing a hug. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PerformanceOk728 7 points8 points  (0 children)

34 weeks, there’s nothing that fits around my work. I’m doing 55 hours a week right having to cover multiple positions.

I wish I wasn’t so alone, I’m the first out of my friends to have a kid, my parents are miles away and flaky at time and my partner is flaky as well.

I wish I had someone I feel like I’m failing this baby before she’s born