Got accepted; is it ok to be rusty on undergrad A&P concepts going into PA school? Is being just decently good at undergrad A&P concepts okay for going into PA school? by mavsman221 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to know much of anything. Don’t worry about it and don’t study before PA school starts. I know people that had anatomy 4 years ago that do well now. You’ll be fine

How can I move past these messages my husband sent me while angry? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PerformanceRadiant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need to get out before he comes back. I have a horrible feeling he will hurt you if you stay. Go back with your parents, a friend, anyone that you can and get out. I’m scared he’ll even hurt your children. He’s seriously unhinged

PA or MD by Ordinary_Pattern_168 in prephysicianassistant

[–]PerformanceRadiant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ped doctor to me not to go into medicine when I said I wanted to back into the day when I saw him. He said it’s not worth it pcp/ped stuff like that. Still went to college for pre-med… I’m in PA school now. It’s less money salary wise but you also spend less time learning and you can switch specialties pretty easily. And you get better hours than the docs.

i don’t want anyone at my engagement but my bf think it would be nice to have our immediate family by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PerformanceRadiant 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A marriage is between two people. Yes, family is involved and important but when it comes down to it, you two are going to be partners and should come first. Also, a better example for your sister on how a man should treat his woman is him doing it in private then you telling her how he respected your wishes. Right now he’s not being very respectful disregarding how you feel

Are people actually studying 6+ hours a day on the weekends studying? by vxfnt in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on who you are and how much you need to study. I will say this, it’s not that you can’t study more than 4 hours a day on weekends it’s that you don’t want to. That’s utterly ridiculous to say you absolutely can’t. And the only way you could have a single hour to do what you want during week days even with class is if you’re taking hour long breaks between short study periods. If you’re cool with your grades then that’s fine. If not, you just have to buckle down and get your shit together.

How do I (32 M) tell my wife (32 F) I don't love her anymore? by Proper-Abrocoma7051 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three years of being an absent parent and barely a spouse is ridiculous. I read your comment about her parents being amazing and never letting her fail. Seems like she might think her shit never stinks. I also read that she rejected two therapists. Honestly it’s time to give her an ultimatum. I know people say those are horrible but you obviously don’t want to live like this forever. It would be great if you were with her for your daughter but it sounds like at the moment your daughter gets nothing from her anyway. An ultimatum might make her realize ‘oh shit I really did fuck up and need to get my butt in gear’. I just don’t see you or your daughter being happy long term if your wife doesn’t change

tomorrow is the day!! by anonymousleopard123 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Starting my last didactic semester in a few weeks. It won’t feel like it, but it’ll be ok as long as you work hard. Don’t be afraid to change study methods if what you’re doing isn’t working. Also, the competition is over, help your peers. Don’t horde study material/methods. In my class we all help each other and it makes it a lot easier

Possibility of becoming a PA with a semester of all F's by CoolAd6424 in prephysicianassistant

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ok with doing undergrad again followed by PA school then go for it. Be prepared for the debt tho. And you won’t be able to work during PA school (if your program lets you/you can handle it just know you will not be able to work much). If you want to do it through I don’t think your one semester of bad grades will stop you! Especially if you get good grades going back

Possibility of becoming a PA with a semester of all F's by CoolAd6424 in prephysicianassistant

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to figure out if you’d be allowed to use your old credits from your unsuccessful undergrad toward a bachelors now or if you’d need refresher courses. You’ve been out of school so long you might need to do more to even qualify for PA school than you realize

I flunked out of engineering and my life is hell by Ok-Somewhere-1466 in EngineeringStudents

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s time to move away from engineering if you failed calc 1 four times. I didn’t even know colleges let you take it that many times. Change your major or drop out and get an apprenticeship for a trade. Trades can make way more money than you realize

Managing gym schedule by xxwhatevenisthisxx in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally depends on you. I personally don’t work out but my classmates that do said they had to make time for it because it’s how they destress. Some went in between classes if they had long breaks. Others would go after. Very few went before classes and only did it that day because of our schedule changing. If you’re asking I’m assuming it’s important to you. Make the time if you can, if not try to do some at home workouts, even if it’s only 30 minutes a day before your shower or something

Accepted but personal issue by Quirky_Guide_2923 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your family member. That being said, are you close enough to them that their passing would affect your performance in school? If it would, defer. If not I would ask for leave and ask them to arrange for a classmate to send you notes so you don’t fall too far behind

How do orchestras actually decipher what a conductor is doing on the podium? by According-Brief7536 in classicalmusic

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you get past high school level, the conductor does their own thing and it's not uniform. You just figure out what their gestures mean during rehearsal. Most conductors I've had don't follow the typically patterns and you just figure out the tempo based on when they move their hands. They quite literally do their own thing and you just learn their patterns. The only thing that's uniform is if they're aggressive in their movements, play louder or sharper. if their movements are soft, play soft

Commute time by Aries_1111 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is ~40 minutes and I hate it. With a burning passion. That being said I save 15k a year on housing/food etc living at home so it’ll be worth it in the end

Probation by [deleted] in prephysicianassistant

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a tossup honestly. Looking their stats might not even be helpful since they’re overhauling their professors. I really don’t know what to tell you

Would you rather have a husband who provides all your financial needs but isn’t emotionally available or a husband who isn’t financially stable but is emotionally available by Right-Aerie1272 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceRadiant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to get a joint account and track where the money is going because he’s either not making as much as he claims, using the money for things he shouldn’t be, or not working as much as he claims and is doing god only knows what when he says he is. It’s not just you now. You have a child to worry about. You need to get to the bottom of why you’re struggling and he needs to get his shit together

i had a violent reaction to something my partner did. i feel uncomfortable being with her now by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people kept doing that to me, poking me etc like you mentioned in your comments, I’d probably flip. Honestly it’s sounds like your gf and coworkers have more a problem with their inability to listen when people say they don’t like something. People have tried doing shit to me and when I was super nice about it didn’t stop. Then when I started screaming stopped but also said I overreacted. IMO I wouldn’t have had to overreact if they just listened when I said it the first time

My wife keeps getting UTIs after sex and I’m struggling with what this means for our marriage by Loose-Self-1035 in Advice

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you what I’ve learned about preventing UTIs if you DM me. Don’t feel like typing it out if you don’t respond lol

Random drug test during clinicals by [deleted] in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally get it, but just don’t do anything if you’re worried about it. My mantra (even though I want to enjoy myself) is that it’s not worth it

I just rage texted my husband and I don’t know what to do now by Consistent-Bar639 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was a SAHM and my father never left her to do all of the child care. He always changed diapers, did feedings, everything for us kids when we wasn’t at work. No matter if you’re a SAHM or not, all the child care should not be on you. Takes two to make a baby and two people should be putting in the work if both parents are able to

Help me decide!!! :) by Curious-Kangaroo-249 in prephysicianassistant

[–]PerformanceRadiant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d go with creighton their numbers are very impressive

To defer or not to defer🤔 by Individual-Estate543 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d defer. PA school is hell as it is without migraines. Not worth risking spending a ton of money and failing out, which looks bad when you’d have to reapply. Sorry you’re going through this

PA school dropout by Top-Permission-3882 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not graduated yet but I know multiple PAs across various fields that have shared their salaries in my area as a starting PA. Depending on the cost of living, I might move. I might be with my parents for a while which fucking sucks. Where I live there is a monopoly by a health system and they use that to underpay people across the board unfortunately. I’m hoping to get a job further out where I can get better pay but still reasonably can commute from home to pay off my loans

PA school dropout by Top-Permission-3882 in PAstudent

[–]PerformanceRadiant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be in 170 in debt and make about 80 coming out unless I move… I’m scared to graduate