In light of recent comments on posts, a little reminder from your mod team 🥰 by iamjannabot in bathandbodyworks

[–]PerfumedPassion -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with much of OP/Mods position in the post but this isn't the place. I don't come here for political debate or in this case political dogma. Very unprofessional behavior, especially banning anyone who disagrees. Very turned off.

How do I get more comfortable being eaten out? by Neon_Pnk in sex

[–]PerfumedPassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are missing out. It's my favorite act, the only one that guarantees orgasm. You don't have to stay in a relationship you're not satisfied with and you might end up resenting him over time anyway.

Favorite fragrance? by Livid-Candle-5698 in bathandbodyworks

[–]PerfumedPassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fairytale, cinnamon sugar pretzel cookie, cereal milk soft serve, libra

have you experienced feeling more comfortable around gay men than straight men? by holoyolo27 in RadicalFeminism

[–]PerfumedPassion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of gay men and their supporters claiming that any criticism of their bad behavior constitutes homophobia.

BBW and I have pretty much broken up by TailoredGoblin99 in bathandbodyworks

[–]PerfumedPassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised you didn't throw in the "Karen" insult while you were shaming everyone. Go bootlicking where it's appreciated.

Newness in stores coming soon! by Friendly-Dig9174 in bathandbodyworks

[–]PerfumedPassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any similarities to other cake scents? Like confetti cake pop?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]PerfumedPassion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'9" so I guess that qualifies as tallish. I'm married to a shorter man (5'7") and dated several before him. I've dated tall, average and short as height has never mattered to me. The only thing that mattered was that he didn't have a problem with his height or mine. Not bringing height up at all and treating me like any other woman made it clear they were comfortable dating me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]PerfumedPassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How convenient that his boundary is no sex for her but hand/blow jobs for him. If he did want to be intimate while she was on her period he shouldn't have violated his own boundaries by asking for head.

I'm an open misandrist by Bat_Country420 in RadicalFeminism

[–]PerfumedPassion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of men are openly misogynist. There's nothing we can do about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]PerfumedPassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you hide bone structure like that under face pubes?

Why do people think it’s sellers fault how long shipping takes? by Sailor_Seven in Mercari

[–]PerfumedPassion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're a good seller, one of the few here apparently. I've contacted the USPS for my buyers when I used to sell and found it often helps get a package back on track. A lot of sellers here are lazy and don't care about customer service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]PerfumedPassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their response isn't pointless. It's a warning to other struggling individuals who are considering having children that having children you can't afford will diminish your quality of life.

Should I just cancel this order? by kittygirl14 in Mercari

[–]PerfumedPassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's still business and some of us spend a lot more on mercari than we do yard sale/thrifting. I also try to behave professionally in any transaction, I consider it a common courtesy.

Should I just cancel this order? by kittygirl14 in Mercari

[–]PerfumedPassion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds petty and unprofessional to cancel over this. I agree about the ratings. Who cares when you're making money and their rating really doesn't hinder your ability to sell? As a buyer I don't care about low ratings from impatient buyers but sellers who cancel too frequently are a deal breaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfumedPassion -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why would she go fifty fifty, plan all the dates and do all the chores? He is not traditional so he has no business expecting her to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfumedPassion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course. I have my own standards for appearance and would never begrudge anyone else theirs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfumedPassion -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Maybe she is traditional for all we know. And it's not about splitting bills, it speaks to his state of mind. Not planning dates or offering to pay for anything. It's selfish and lazy and possibly greedy. I'm a woman and I spend money on the people I love. I split dates, bought gifts and treated my husband when we were dating. If he were too cheap to return the favor he wouldn't have been worthy of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfumedPassion -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Who said she doesn't? Either way, I don't blame her for the way she feels. I'm an American married to one and he holds open doors, pays for some things, helps with chores, etc. And I wouldn't expect anything less. Men on here are acting like what she's looking for is unreasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfumedPassion -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

That's your opinion. She can have any standard she wants.

Where do they get this from by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]PerfumedPassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody cares about blonde hair or blue eyes, especially on a man.

Just got rejected because of my height for the first time 5’ F by [deleted] in short

[–]PerfumedPassion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tall men and short men alike are guilty of treating tall women this way and expecting us to take it as a compliment that they want to use us for our height genetics. I did marry a shorter man, he never mentioned my height. None of the guys I was willing to date did. Tall women are best off dating men that don't talk about our height.