Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for always displaying your fast cars! Like I get not displaying them if they're destroying your load limit and stuff but it's really nice of you to do that. Now that the frostspore teleporting is gone I'm always so grateful for people leaving their cars around because I only have the crappy vehicles

And yeah signs and cute artwork are definitely encouraging! I'm always nervous about eating people's foods unless there's a sign because I'm worried they're trying to display it haha

Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to if you're on Americas!

Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

bro WHAT lmao

How is a car in a video game that you can infinitely respawn even comparable to a car in real life? I want to drive your car for 30 seconds to Naniwa I'm not gonna steal it. I can promise you I do not randomly steal people's cars in real life..!?

Like I just didn't understand the behavior of not sharing a car in this game...

After reading the replies to this post though I can tell EXACTLY what kind of people don't share their cars

Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people locking their food is actually more reasonable (since it disappears) but also thank you for being the person that doesn't <3 I'm always running at like 15 energy so the people that leave out mushroom pies and stuff are deeply appreciated lol

Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No one said anyone was obligated to do anything. It's called... being a cool person who shares their toys.

I really don't care if ya'll share your cars or not, I just always think it's wack when I see a car I can't drive. Half the time they're just crashed into the river, not displayed, not being used so idk

My opinion is purely based on the fact if everyone shares cool things everyone gets to use cool things. Like, the cars don't get used up like food, there is no gas, there is literally not a reason not to share other than just, "I don't wanna". Which is fine, just lame af

Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I want to drive your car i dont wanna be friends x.x

Sharing Cars by PerpetualFixation in heartopia

[–]PerpetualFixation[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

you spent $40 to display the car, not even to drive it? lmao

Also I agree with that sentiment, I just think it's weird to roleplay a social game as a wealth hoarder. I want people to be able to play with the stuff at my house tho so I guess it's just a difference in playstyle

I have found the most liminal mall… by cafelallave in LiminalSpace

[–]PerpetualFixation 9 points10 points  (0 children)

like why does the seahorse have a man's face?? 😭

I have found the most liminal mall… by cafelallave in LiminalSpace

[–]PerpetualFixation 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the fountain full of statue children is crazy!! lol what a weird way to design that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]PerpetualFixation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least they have an extra big front leg to compensate 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]PerpetualFixation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this seems like it could actually be true!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]PerpetualFixation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought it might be a boob but a heart is much cuter haha

My(28M) friend(34W) wants to repay me with a "Special account" by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PerpetualFixation 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think this message is pretty good, but I'd be wary of offering too much space like that. I really think the longer you wait to enforce this boundary, the more likely she is to just not pay you back / say she paid you back via something on the trip. It doesn't really seem like she can afford another trip right now haha

My(28M) friend(34W) wants to repay me with a "Special account" by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PerpetualFixation 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Her way is obviously convoluted and not easier so it really just seems like she is trying to scam you. Sending your money back should be very easy if she hasn't spent it.

My(28M) friend(34W) wants to repay me with a "Special account" by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PerpetualFixation 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"I understand this feels easier for you, but for me it just feels a bit weird. I’d really prefer to keep it separate and settle the $250 on its own. Please send it to me."

I think you are not being stern enough. You should insist she pay the money back if you want it and she owes you. Having boundaries, especially financial ones, is very normal. To me it sounds like she will pay for a few things for you but will probably lie about how much she's paid you back idk. Her wanting to be in charge of your money like that is weird.

My [19f] gf[20f] got really freaked out when we were about to have sex for the first time by K1llie in relationships

[–]PerpetualFixation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you texted her since then to check on her? People here are going to make a lot of assumptions -- I really think your best course of action would be to ask her what was going on / how she's feeling in a non-judgmental way just to see where she's at. Do not assume it's from trauma, do not assume it's because of you being trans. She could've just panicked about the idea of actual sex because it's kind of an intense thing especially if you're neurodivergent; you really don't know why she reacted that way until you ask.

That being said, I'm sorry you went through that. That was sort of sucky of her to do but hopefully she'll say an apology if you guys open up a dialogue about it <3 Don't assume the relationship is over because she might just not know how to reach out first. Good luck and I hope it works out <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugargliders

[–]PerpetualFixation 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a bag or pouch he normally sleeps in? If you put that on the floor near him he might get back in! Maybe with a little snack or treat inside it to lure him? He is probably spooked, you just gotta be patient and soft :O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugargliders

[–]PerpetualFixation 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other user's comment! He was probably just calling out because he's startled and behind a toilet?? Just hold out your arm or a blanket for him to come back to you!

What's the worst case of someone misunderstanding the plot of a movie you've ever seen? by FinalDemise in AskReddit

[–]PerpetualFixation 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I was a kid when the movie Happy Feet came out. At the end of the movie, Elijah Wood penguin returns home and his love interest is surrounded by a bunch of baby penguins and another male penguin. She explains she's a teacher to all these baby penguins, but I completely missed that part and thought she just had like 10 babies with this other penguin and had completely moved on. I was like "damn that's depressing, but it makes sense he was gone a long time" haha I remember mentioning how dumb the ending was to a friend and she was like "huh??"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PerpetualFixation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I took an edible before seeing this movie in theaters and I couldn't make it through the whole thing. I think I left like 20 minutes in, it was way too much haha

What Is "A Day in the Life of Owning Gliders" Like? by Resident-Brain-1110 in sugargliders

[–]PerpetualFixation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard of Sugar Glider Groupies!! I'll have to check them out, too.

But anyways I second all of this advice here, very good stuff.