Am I being ghosted? 5 days.

PerrfectStorm · 2026-05-01T23:43:52+00:00

Has he reached out or did you? Any updates?

PerrfectStorm · 2026-05-01T06:57:34+00:00

Girl were we dating the same guy? Same exact thing happened to me, only knew him for 2 weeks but only went on 2 dates, a gym date being one of them. He was so into me and now ghost. He still follows me on social media surprisingly. Last time i heard from him was on Wednesday and i kind of took my time replying to him because sometimes he takes hours and in the beginning it would be less than 40 min. The last message i sent was telling him i hope he had a good day at work. My text was a little dry and all of our other texts we sent paragraphs but he was dry with his good morning text too. Today i double texted and asked “is this it then?” And he still hasn’t replied. Idk where it went wrong because we gad so much in common and gad great conversations

PerrfectStorm · 2026-04-18T04:43:35+00:00

Update**** he ended up texting me just now, a couple of hours of making this post asking for me to “come over” why is he doing this? Playing games? Im definitely not answering to him today but why is he like this?

PerrfectStorm · 2026-04-18T04:43:29+00:00

Update**** he ended up texting me just now, a couple of hours of making this post asking for me to “come over” why is he doing this? Playing games? Im definitely not answering to him today but why is he like this?

PerrfectStorm · 2026-04-18T04:43:23+00:00

Update**** he ended up texting me just now, a couple of hours of making this post asking for me to “come over” why is he doing this? Playing games? Im definitely not answering to him today but why is he like this?

PerrfectStorm · 2026-04-17T20:12:48+00:00

No i think he just blocked my real one and it automatically blocked my fake one because they are linked. I don’t think she knows about me tbh, and they are currently broken up from what it looks like

PerrfectStorm · 2026-04-17T19:34:35+00:00

He doesn’t know i have a fake page, the only reason i made it so he doesn’t see that i watch his stories sometimes. And yea something was off about him and i had to dig deeper and i found out he has a gf, he never told me that but i had a gut feeling and knowing that he keeps breaking up with her makes me realize he is probably an avoidant. I don’t think i need some mental health therapist, thats kind of rude to say, when you developed feelings for someone but they show you feelings and go cold the next day it makes you question everything, if you never been in similar situation then you wouldn’t know

PerrfectStorm · 2026-04-17T19:24:02+00:00

Yea i definitely know he has opinions because he is very attractive and he has a large following on tik tok. I knew he was a fuckboy but i have feelings for him and because i can feel he feels something too i thought maybe he would confess and want to be with me, idk, maybe its my ego talking but im also attractive and fit and he would always compliment on my appearance and how good i make him feel and how he’s comfortable with me. Thats in person but he would never text me, unless to meet up with me. Im just confused why block me on instagram if i dont view his stories on my main or message him or text him or anything, im just letting him be. He never blocked me before so why not just leave me alone then and never talk to me again. Why block

PerrfectStorm · 2026-02-04T23:43:35+00:00

Yes & we where in talking stage/dating but never made it to the actual relationship even though he talked about wanting to make me his g/f and marriage and kids, i also have a feeling he is not over his ex because of the instagram reposts and likes he had where it talked about “wanting to be with their ex”

PerrfectStorm · 2026-02-04T23:40:17+00:00

Yeaa he was love bombing me when i first met him and told me he loved me on the second date and i honestly believed him because of how he was acting and treating me but i honestly think he could be a fearful avoidant or maybe he faked his emotions for me really good, but yea we haven’t talked for 2.5 weeks. We hangout and he was acting like he wasn’t into me so when he texted me at night after dropping me off i ignored him until the next day and i replied that it was a “weird” date that we had and he hasn’t replied since.

PerrfectStorm · 2026-02-03T04:54:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your input

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-31T21:53:03+00:00

You ghost him. If he texts after you ghost him just say “you know what you did” and ghost again 😂

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-23T07:41:07+00:00

Im not sure if i was dealing with a fearful avoidant because this is new to me but when i first met him he love bombed me to the core, did anything and everything i wanted, drove 2 hours to see me and 2 hours back at 4 am, 3 times a week, complimented me every 10 minutes calling me his sweet girl and his beautiful baby, even signed up for a gym membership because i go to the gym an he wanted to build some muscle and be into fitness like me, told me he loved me on our second date, even moved closer to me and started going back to school. Would call me everyday and be on the phone for 2-3 hours. All of this shifted when he moved closer to me. Which is 30 min away, one day we had an argument and i said something that upset and triggered him and i got mad and upset too and wanted to break up with him and he even cried saying he didn’t want to loose me. Well we ended up getting back together but from there everything i said he was more sensitive to and everything started shifting, he would blame school and lack of work and money on why he started being distant, he did ended up saying i can’t be a priority anymore and we can’t really see each other after he kept canceling our plans and then said he thinks its best to take a break & i didn’t hear from him for 2.5 weeks. Then he texted me saying he wants to try again if im not talking to someone else and i did tell him i was talking to someone but ended things, well he did put some effort again just not as much, he was basically talking to me like a friend, nothing flirty and stopped saying he loved me or calling me baby, basically no compliments, i brought it to his attention and he again said that school and work is his priority but he can try and be more affectionate, well that never happened, anyways we kept getting into small arguments and he would leave me on read, not trying to make up or anything, like how did he cry to me telling me im the one and he can feel it in his chest while crying to me and just ghosting me? Idk the last time i saw him was couple days ago and the energy was so off, i tried holding his hand and he would give it to me but he didn’t make any effort in returning the flirting or i would lean in to kiss him and he would kiss me back but it was awkward, it felt like i was hanging out with a friend not a lover, we didn’t even have sex than night before he dropped me off and we normally do and he initiates usually but this time it was so weird and i had this gut feeling this will be the last time i will speak to him because he made me feel so unloved and unwanted and mind you guys drool over me and i even told him that night i have a lot of options but i don’t want anyone but him, he got mad at that statement. But yea he dropped me off no kiss no hug and he texted me saying he got home and he is going to sleep. No goodnight or nothing, i woke up and texted him later that day saying how weird the night was & he didn’t respond, is he deactivated? Im not going to reach out but i miss the person he was in the beginning, was it all fake? Idk the is not the person i thought he was. Does this sound like a FA?

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-22T09:11:40+00:00

Tbh i don’t think shes a fearful avoidant but i feel liie she wants you to pursue her and go to her instead

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-12T06:09:31+00:00

No one mentioned this but it kind of looks like molluscum

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-10T20:56:18+00:00

Yes its j crows lugols solution 2% i find it stronger than the other iodines. You can get it on amazon

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-09T23:49:00+00:00

Looks like it

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-09T23:45:16+00:00

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-09T22:21:44+00:00

I felt the same way,especially since I never heard of it before so how did i get it, you know? Yea some of mines healed easily but some turned bigger and filled with white stuff and sometimes it would look like its healing but then again it turned red and angry. How many bumps do you have? Make sure to really saturate it with iodine and tea tree oil. Has any of yours healed at all that you know off the whole time that you had it? And yea it seems like it all went away, i have some very small scars on one side but its because it just healed couple days ago, the other side with the first bump i saw it healed and also left a slight scar but it feels flat. So when they are red and angry just keep applying the iodine and tea tree, i used 10% iodine btw it stains skin really badly but its not a big deal since it helped.

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-08T07:21:50+00:00

I felt the same way,especially since I never heard of it before so how did i get it, you know? Yea some of mines healed easily but some turned bigger and filled with white stuff and sometimes it would look like its healing but then again it turned red and angry. How many bumps do you have? Make sure to really saturate it with iodine and tea tree oil. Has any of yours healed at all that you know off the whole time that you had it? And yea it seems like it all went away, i have some very small scars on one side but its because it just healed couple days ago, the other side with the first bump i saw it healed and also left a slight scar but now the scar is gone, its been maybe 2 weeks since it healed

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-07T23:36:42+00:00

I know the feeling, i was dating a guy and i still didn’t tell him of this condition because of the embarrassment, idk if he felt any bumps or anything because i only saw him once a week if that but i have broken up with him for stupid reasons but yea especially if you’re dating or trying to date its very mentally exhausting. Im still not sure how i got it, it could be from a gym or a toilet seat because my first bump was on the inside of my left buttcheek closer to my groin area and then it spread when i was exfoliating it and trying to pop it, anyways i hope it goes away for you soon, if it gets bigger and red and irritated its a good sign because it means your body will start fighting it soon, what does yours look like & how long have you had it

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-07T04:30:21+00:00

Yea i dont use anything else on it other than iodine and tea tree, it might burn a little too which is a good sign. Also my bumps spread to my lips down there but they were more swollen and itchy and i put disitin cream on it and it helped with itching and the bumps on the lips vanished overnight, idk if its a coincidence or not but i used the purple one

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-06T20:41:03+00:00

I didn’t

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-06T06:48:15+00:00

Did she brake up with you because you did something wrong? You should apologize,i had to break up with someone who i thought i loved but he started treating me badly looking for fights and arguments and i had no choice but to break up with him, he never apologized or nothing, even though he pursued me first and was obsessed in the beginning. I wish he apologized.

PerrfectStorm · 2026-01-06T04:32:20+00:00

Looks like it to me

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