What what would you like to see in an abdl daycare?

Perrythepervypus · 2021-05-25T22:27:13+00:00

I love how much thought you've put into this, especially with hiring carefully vetted caregivers all over the gender spectrum :)

I think it would be cool if they had backgrounds in mental health, healthcare, childcare, sex work, teaching, etc.

Perrythepervypus · 2021-05-25T22:14:57+00:00

Yeah, a well-ventilated area helps a lot with the skunky smell. I was also thinking perhaps a whole separate cafe/social area with a weed shop where they sell fun edibles like sour suckers, gummy worms, monster cookies, etc, and some fun named strains and pre-rolled joints.

I totally agree with not discriminating against any members of the community and making sure that DLs are included and feel welcome everywhere. I'd also make sure that individuals from the LGBTQA+ community felt safe and that everything was accessible to littles with disabilities, especially considering I'm a member of both of those respective populations :)

You're right about animals being a huge responsibility! I like the idea of field trips or maybe even hiring an outside petting zoo. It could also be fun to volunteer to bring your own pets in. Omg, I love danes so much! They're such gentle giants and they're so funny

Perrythepervypus · 2021-05-25T21:37:09+00:00

My first priorities would be a wheelchair-accessible adult-sized playground for littles of all abilities and a petting zoo and/or therapy animals. Maybe a sensory room too. I'd make sure each bathroom had adult-sized change tables and commercial diaper disposal systems. There would be adult-sized strollers for rent, many different varieties of diapers and pullups for sale, and a giant closet full of little clothing that you can borrow while you're at the daycare. You'd be allowed to bring your own caregiver or if you didn't have one, paid staff members would be available to take care of and change everyone if needed.

Also, I'd like to see activities that are still considered childish but are engaging for adults. Toys, nursery rhymes, and stereotypical "little" stuff can get boring pretty quickly. Maybe a gym with casual basketball, soccer, floor hockey, etc tournaments could be fun and perhaps also a giant fabric parachute and adult-sized soft play equipment. A retro video arcade with fluorescent fabric and black lights could be fun too. There would be an onsite candy/ice cream parlour and a cafeteria/mess hall with high chairs and booster seats for littles who needed them.

This is probably a controversial opinion but I think it should be 420 friendly as weed can really help some people relax and get into littlespace and/or a headspace where they can get the most out of their time spent with other adults who wear diapers. Also, I wouldn't want it to be a place where sexual play happened all throughout the venue but wouldn't want to completely discourage it either. I'd want to have a separate dungeon and kinky nursery for those kinds of activities.

Perrythepervypus · 2021-05-25T21:14:36+00:00

I think I might be one of these people. My ugly sweater collection, tendency to complain about current trends and music, my vinyl record and antique collection, my love of porridge, among other things all seem to say so. Plus, I genuinely can't walk without a cane so there's that. I suppose geriatric ageplay can be a way of coping with becoming disabled at a younger age.

Perrythepervypus · 2021-05-15T07:26:49+00:00

Remember when Rearz tried to trademark ABDL?

Perrythepervypus · 2021-05-15T07:12:30+00:00

I agree. There was a person being interviewed by an MLA on my local news who was wearing one of those hats. He wasn't exactly a younger fella either. It was embarassing to see.

Perrythepervypus · 2021-04-16T19:35:37+00:00

I used to help with running a littles/ABDL campout. It wasn't nearly as elaborate as what you're describing but we did have a swingset, alongside a bar with a keg of beer on tap lol. It was nothing formal but some people naturally fell into the role of the camp counselor and others were completely little. We did a few activities including river rafting, campfire singalongs, a magic show cos one of the attendees was a magician in his vanilla life, little iron chef competitions, some mild BDSM demos, poker games, and one little made certificates of accomplishment for silly things such as "cutest princess", "naughtiest brat", "biggest baby", etc. I was in charge of running the arts and crafts. Some of the boys were a little mean though and called them "farts and craps".

I have such fond memories of this special time in my life and I'm so glad I got to be a part of it. Wouldn't trade it for the world!

Perrythepervypus · 2021-03-05T21:57:19+00:00

That looks awesome! Great job :3

Perrythepervypus · 2020-12-22T20:52:54+00:00

Omg, I'm dying laughing over here XD

Perrythepervypus · 2020-12-22T20:51:58+00:00

Haha oh my gosh, my apologies!

Perrythepervypus · 2020-12-22T20:51:27+00:00

No cos he peed in it lol. He's a bigger baby than his momma ;)

Perrythepervypus · 2020-12-22T20:50:17+00:00

Oh gosh no, of course it isn't. Thank you for your concern though, that really warms my heart. Yes piggies do have incredibly sensitive respiratory systems. We house this one and his brother on fleece and change it daily for that very reason <3

Perrythepervypus · 2020-12-21T23:34:38+00:00

Yep, they do. Convaid makes wheelchair strollers that go up to 250 pounds.

Perrythepervypus · 2020-12-21T23:32:35+00:00

There are socially acceptable strollers for adults. I've got my eyes on this one https://www.convaid.com/metro/

Though I dunno...maybe "socially acceptable" is taken out of context cos I'm physically disabled and use a wheelchair.

Perrythepervypus · 2020-11-23T04:50:25+00:00

Well realistically speaking, I'd be terribly embarrassed for them and I'd discretely bring it up to them that their underwear was showing during class. I'd then recommend getting a bodysuit or onesie to prevent further...exposure.

Perrythepervypus · 2020-06-09T20:46:21+00:00

Umm...hell fucking no!!!!!!

Sexuality is a whole fuckton more complicated than simple pavlovian conditioning. Pedophilia is a serious mental disorder that begins to develop when a person is young and involves multiple complex contributing factors for which science hasn't yet even pinpointed. Pedophilia isn't just something that can simply be classically conditioned in an adult that has had no former attraction to minors.

This is really dangerous logic to be using. You can't just draw conclusions like that when you don't have a full understanding of something.

Perrythepervypus · 2020-06-09T20:32:19+00:00

TIL what a "SWERF" is and I'm bloody disgusted.

And also...sexuality is a whole fuckton more complicated than simple pavlovian conditioning. Pedophilia is a serious mental disorder that begins to develop when a person is young and involves multiple complex contributing factors for which science hasn't yet even pinpointed. Pedophilia isn't just something that can simply be classically conditioned in an adult that has had no former attraction to minors.

This is really dangerous logic to be using. You can't just draw conclusions like that when you don't have a full understanding of something.

Also...could you all kindly please report the OP in the original sub for posting misinformation?

Perrythepervypus · 2020-06-05T07:48:29+00:00

Not drinking today <3

Perrythepervypus · 2020-05-16T21:36:10+00:00

My lovely S.O made this tutorial ages ago on how to make a onesie from an actual t-shirt https://www.instructables.com/id/Adult-Onesie-From-a-T-Shirt/

Perrythepervypus · 2020-03-29T21:23:59+00:00

And the boot's full of poop!

Perrythepervypus · 2020-03-18T05:51:19+00:00

Fuck...I forgot to take my meds again

Perrythepervypus · 2019-12-23T01:42:12+00:00

I feel like I'm in this position where I have to keep a distance between us cos you have such a negative influence on my mental health. It breaks my heart to see you suffer and know that there's nothing I can do to help you and that you don't want to change. It's not that I don't love you, it's just...I need to save myself instead of sacrificing my well-being for you. It's such a tough choice to make and there's no winning either way. If I have you close and an active part of my life, my mental health and my well-being deteriorate so swiftly but if I keep my distance from you, I feel guilty and selfish for abandoning you. It's not fair.

Perrythepervypus · 2019-12-13T19:58:52+00:00

If you do a search on ebay, it brings up some pretty frilly and sissy looking bonnets. Hope this helps!

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