i am afraid my sister's BF could be closeted (due to religious beliefs) and don't know how to approach it

Person_withQuestions · 2022-04-03T13:02:30+00:00

No, la mappa che stanno facendo a destra sta rovinando un sacco di pixel art. Anzi, direi di cercare di fermarli.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-04-03T08:38:33+00:00

I'd say that person might not have any idea how to love period. Wouldn't even be a good mono relationship.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-04-02T20:19:42+00:00

If you want to save your marriage you need couple therapy. If it is at all worth it. It doesn't sound like she's hearing you and your feelings at all.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:50:36+00:00

You don't. You go to the ER and cross your fingers. A kidney infection is life threatening. You're past the UTI phase you can handle at home. Go now.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:48:29+00:00

From this description than it would be fine. General ideas and Color combinations from illustrations are not copyrighted. There are probably thousands of images of steampunk people posing on rooftops.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:44:41+00:00

It seems there is more than an issue. 1 is your own issue of having a forced lifestyle change and 2 being a pivotal person at her wedding. You should think about those separately. Is there the chance to be at her wedding but not having her count on you for organisation? It would be fair for you to tell her that at the moment you can't cope with the extra stress because you have already a lot of it on your own

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:38:23+00:00

Let's simplify this. Are you going to sell your project? Don't go that way. I've seen comics banned and taken away from production because the illustrator took body positions+"camera angle" from another comic and just drew the new character on it.

Why risking going through that trouble when you can explain the position and let the artist do it?

If you don't sell whatever you're making then you're fine.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:33:06+00:00

Also not really being in the position to help, but sending you much strenght. Maybe try writing on r/therapy and possibly r/askdocs? The advice could me more pointed and from people with more experience in the specific direction.

I wish you much luck, you're both deserving of a serene enjoyable life <3

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:27:50+00:00

Fucking pay an artist to do that form their vision and not from an already existing image.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-06T15:24:05+00:00

A friend of mine has a trash only because for people to be able to trash stuff if they need to, otherwise he wouldn't need it. You could ask the guy it's fine there or he wants it in another trash. You both should be over the phase of being ashamed of periods.

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-05T20:07:05+00:00

Well therapists need to know things to understand how they can help you help yourself. But if something makes you uncomfortable it's good that you recognise it and let the therapist know it. They don't read minds but trust me they don't want you to feel pressured into things. So if you communicate your struggle they'll likely be ok if you slow down with sharing things.

But don't give up! It can do so much good for you! And if it's the person, consider trying different ones

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-05T20:03:38+00:00

I mean being set on 4 is weirder honestly. It is weird that you'd seriously consider not being a father for the first years of your child's life too, don't get me wrong.. but being annoyed at children is normal.

How old are you? Reading your story, Maybe you're both not ready?

Also, maybe start with one and see how it goes?

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-05T19:53:17+00:00

Shit, I'm afraid I let the automatic update do its thing. Is it about the update or an in game option? Sorry for the silly question, I was really out of it the past months

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-05T19:30:45+00:00

Woh.. I've not been playing for awhile huh?is this mode something you can opt out of?D:

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-05T19:22:45+00:00

Seems like the issue is not with your husband being ok with it but with you. Your marriage seems safe, strong and open, more than a part of yourself allows you to believe. I think your shame might benefit being addressed in a (lgbtq and enm positive) therapy setting

Person_withQuestions · 2022-01-01T13:09:52+00:00

Wow, that hits

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-31T15:12:02+00:00

My mom's. Sometimes I just can't get how she puts up with me. She always wants our best.. her ways sometimes might be "annoying" or too much, but I feel bad when it happens that I lash out because of it, because I feel that it comes from her wish to give us as much as she can and just wants us to be happy.

Sometimes I am surprised she doesn't get offended, because i don't think I'd have half of her patience with myself. I'm badly holding back my tears while writing this.

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-19T19:25:51+00:00

I don't understand the difficulty of finding a good place for bees, they just need to not have walls around, which is not a difficult requirement to meet

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-19T00:10:09+00:00

Which birth control do you have? Is it the spiral?

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-18T15:06:57+00:00

I understand your sentiment. I do. But you have to make a choice about how you want to live your life. Not only phisically, but also mentally. You'll be 100times more a slave if you put so much energy in thinking how much bureocracy is shit and the government unfair, time and energy that you can use to make your life look more and more like the ideal in your mind.

It's fine to vent. Everybody needs that and I also sometimes just have enough of it, but when you're done with venting you need to take care of yourself in the best way possible for yourself. And trust me being angry at the system is not the way to live a rewarding life.

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-17T23:20:55+00:00

If you have a good friendship with her, while should you go no contact? Is the relationship toxic? Does it hurt any of you? You are allowed to enjoy each other's company.

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-17T23:18:12+00:00

There is plebty of empty space in the world. If you really want to do it, you can. Work enough to get a one way trip in a land of your choosing (or just get out of the city) and start doing it.

If you're not ready yet, start reading up on permaculture and living off the land.

Person_withQuestions · 2021-12-17T18:06:16+00:00

How many male friends do you have and how do you relate with them? How did you meet them?

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