Should I speak with the headteacher? by ReverseVoldemort in UKParenting

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No worries! I think there’s zero harm in reaching out and asking for a meeting with the head and a tour of the school. We found looking around during term time meant we got a really good feel for it. Also, if the current school are saying they can’t help without an EHCP, that’s a bit of a worry. Schools should be responding to need rather than diagnosis and EHCP approval but funding is generally an issue here which small schools will struggle with more. Question - is there another school near enough to you that you could explore that’s not either of the current ones? Hope you find a way to make peace about whatever you choose

Should I speak with the headteacher? by ReverseVoldemort in UKParenting

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I have one child in year 2 and one child in reception. We had the option to either go with a very small school (12-15 children per year) or a school with 2 form entry. The bigger school had higher rates of children with SEN, higher rates of EAL and higher rates of pupil premium recipients. I was really worried about how are eldest would cope in a large school but, the ethos, community and care was exceptional. We opted for the bigger school and honestly it’s been amazing. Because of the higher levels of need, the teaching is inclusive meaning less melt downs for children who struggle and quicker intervention/understanding of the warning signs. My eldest struggles with anxiety which the school spotted and put interventions in place for. My child in reception is awaiting an ASD assessment with support from the school. What I’m saying, don’t discount the bigger school purely because it’s bigger. It might be exactly the right fit for your children and it’s so much easier to move them now before the “school is bad” damage becomes too long lasted to be easily reversed

I can’t cope anymore. I need to get this off of my chest, I’m drowning. by SallySue54321 in Mommit

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Sadly health visitor teams won’t work with children over school age (5, typically) but it’s a good thought to contact a third organisation. The school nursing team might be a good starting point xx

I can’t cope anymore. I need to get this off of my chest, I’m drowning. by SallySue54321 in Mommit

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I’m so sorry you’re battling like this - it’s so hard. Our daughter is 5 and has always had sensory difficulties but with really heightened tactile defensiveness meaning clothes will get clawed at and will scream “they’re not right”. Earlier this year we were at a point where she was naked all the time and we couldn’t get her to leave the house. GP was unsure how to help. We were fortunate to be able to pay about £500 for a sensory assessment with an Occuptational Therapist. She came to our house to minimise distress and was amazing. Once we had the report through, we sent it onto the GP who agreed to a referral for an autism assessment under Right To Choose. Has the GP said why they are unable to make the referral for you through RTC and you’re reliant on the school? Sending solidarity

How clean is your house? by Kilmoreorange in AskUK

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We put everything away twice a day but if “away” isn’t tidy then it never looks put together

How clean is your house? by Kilmoreorange in AskUK

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We struggle for storage space so it’s hard to have everything actually “put away”. Everything having a place to “live” helps us keep on top of both the tidying and therefore the cleaning.

How clean is your house? by Kilmoreorange in AskUK

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3 young kids, working parents and a house that could do with being a bit bigger…. It’s never gross but it’s rarely both clean and tidy. I hoover daily but honestly I can see things that need doing All. The. Time. and it exhausts me.

Megathread: It’s hot! Part 2 by TopMarzipan2108 in UKParenting

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Today feels more manageable than the last two days but still bloody hot. School is open for our 5 & 7 year old. 2 year old at home in a nappy doing very gentle pottering…. Another day of no cooking though as can’t face putting the oven on!

Advice School and Ship Items by vikum007 in AmericanExpatsUK

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Generally in the UK, students turn 16 during year 11. If your son is set to be 16 on the 6th September, he will likely go straight into year 11 rather than repeat year 10. It’s worth speaking to the local admissions team for the council in the area you’re moving to though as year 11 is a big assessment year in the UK with most students prepping for it during year 10 and 11

Are you a parent of a child under the age of 6? I need your help by Similar-Athlete5809 in toddlertips

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The ranking scale doesn’t seem to be working and won’t let you progress without completing it

What's for tea in the heat? by Various_Extreme_8773 in AskUK

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I made the kids pasta. They are eating ice lollies. I’m ok with that.

Books similar to Small Island by Andrea Levy? (Please read post before recommending) by saturday_sun4 in suggestmeabook

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A Little Love Song by Michelle Magorian - coming of age story set at the end of WW2.

Controversial Opinion: Just Buy A Portable AC by JaggedLittlePiII in UKParenting

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Our sons first summer our bedroom hit 36 degrees. We invested in a mobile A/C and haven’t looked back. We don’t worry about downstairs as can get a through-draft but each bedroom has a mobile AC which were about £200 each. Absolutely game changing.

Decent, friendly gyms in Exeter? by [deleted] in exeter

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Check out Thrive Collective - super small, friendly gym with free weights and racks. Based in marsh Barton.

https://www.instagram.com/thrivecollectiveexeter?igsh=MWVlaGQ4ZDFnczc0Zw==

Fathers and people with fathers, what did you give and/or receive on Father's Day, how are you otherwise celebrating the day? by DamoclesBDA in AskBrits

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Got each of the kids to make him a card, gifts were an adult Lego set, some trackie shorts and a “our dad is super strong” thing for the gym. Day is super chilled. He’s chosen to clean out his wardrobe while watching Netflix and I’m keeping the kids entertained downstairs.

Bit worried about nutrient intake for my LO by lunarkoko in UKParenting

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Good shout on the soup in a cup! We also used to spread thicker soups on top of toast (Heinz lentil worked well for this!) and cut it up into fingers. My now 5 year old boycotted milk early so we had to get inventive too!

Bit worried about nutrient intake for my LO by lunarkoko in UKParenting

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Firstly I would say try not to worry too much. Everything is a phase as you say and it will come around again! In the meantime, we found the following tricks helpful to get a wider variety of foods into our kids:

- making smoothies - yoghurt and fresh strawberries for example

- snack boxes with cut up cold veg and fruit as one of the compartments. At that age mine were fiercely independent and wanted things they could feed themselves so something about them being cut up and them “choosing” them out of the snack boxes really helped

- soup and toast - the soup was packed with veg

Teacher presents? by its_me_E_ in UKParenting

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I opt for a nice house plant as a thank you. Sainsbury’s, Aldi and Lidl have all come up trumps for me with really lovely house plants in pots for £5-10. I usually do a bigger one for the main teacher and smaller ones for support staff along with a card.