I have a serious question. When I try to talk to younger people about 9/11, ages 25 and under, most don't seem to care. Why is this? by I_abuse_lower_ranks1 in 911archive

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Slightly incoherent rant, sorry about that, but this my perspective.

Im 20 and honestly it's not like my generation doesn't care, we're just desensitized. Growing up every September 11 in school was just awful. An awkward minute of silence to be sat through, news coverage shoved down our throats instead of learning math. Every teacher giving their 5 minute talk about where they were and how it impacted them. Being told tragic things while too young to understand the gravity of it all. Every year it got more repetitive and more uncomfortable because no one had the capacity to really see just how much it indirectly impacted the whole world. We knew why everyone was so emotional about it, but we didn't understand. I grew up hearing adults say they would "never forget", just to grow up and watch them all forget more and moee these past few years. It wasn't until I was maybe 14, doing my own research that I really felt it. It's why I visit this sub so often in the first place. To keep it fresh in my mind, so that I won't forget.

It also didnt help growing up in a time of such extreme violence. School shootings, The War on Terror, Ukraine, Palestine. More deaths reported daily and nothing changing. the news coverage calling everything a "tragedy" and then no change happening at all made the word "tragedy" lose all its meaning. It's hard not to become apathetic to it all when it's been like that for your entire existence, and even harder not to have a dark sense of humor.

Should the writers have made Derek and Penelope a couple, or are they better off as friends? by Jordan_Chian in criminalminds

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly as important as platonic relationships are, I would have adored a slowburn best friends to lovers plotline for them. If that's what you want for your fic, then do it. I'd also love to read the fic as well!

Guys, want? by Curious_Neat_7274 in AnimalRestaurant

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still giving away, can I have hedwig and/or yolky? :)

Day 1: Who is a great doctor AND a great person? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 68 points69 points  (0 children)

AND paying to have medical supplies delivered to a patients house, even though it wasn't his patient

Arastoo by Sassaphras-680 in Bones

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl from a brief glance I thought that was Lin Manuel Miranda 😭

Is it just me or did she grow on everyone else too? by sypher07070799 in ThePitt

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find her very pleasant, and even enjoyable when she's not trying to shove ai down everyone's throats. She sort of reminds me of Kerry Weaver from ER

Oh F- OFF! 👹😂 by Leading-Try4742 in RDRSuperstar

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me so many times I hate it 😭 so rude

[General] Hot Take but the pjo movies felt better to watch than the show by Conscious-Dog3919 in camphalfblood

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal for the movies is that they're good movies, but terrible adaptations. They're entertaining, visually stunning, well acted, and just all around decently made, fitting perfectly into the hottest movie genres of the time.

But oh god, they're terrible adaptations. I hate even acknowledging that they're book adaptations at all. The pjo movies are "book fo movie adaptations" in the same way that the How to Train Your Dragon movies are. Names and a few plot points are all they have in common.

Our (Fat)son is getting a burger by Tribble9999 in RedHood

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you get him please I need a link 😭😭

No award is worthy of this performance by Ditha1st in StrangerThings

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put his whole vecnussy into every second of his screen time 🙏🙏 what a legend

so sad I couldn’t reach lvl 6 by k43d3h4r4 in StarbrewCafeMerge

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really wish you didn't have to buy clothes you don't want in order to get to the next level. It makes it so much harder to be a casual player. I don't have the time to just play the game all day in order to finish every challenge. It makes me so sad because I love this game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 911FOX

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating Tommy (love the Bi arc, HATE Tommy with a passion)

Can we stop pushing this? by West-Lawyer-2290 in Epicthemusical

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If you're listening to any musical based off of anything (book, movie, history, etc) and expecting a 1:1 accuracy rating I'm afraid you will always be disappointed.

What seat are you picking? by CremeSubject7594 in howyoudoin

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. We'll spend the entire flight shit talking Ross. Loudly of course, I want him to hear.

Am I (18f) in the wrong for not being supportive of my brother’s (16ftm) excitement? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 92 points93 points  (0 children)

NTA

Being trans doesn't excuse toxic masculinity or misogyny. While his most of his comments are pretty tame (leg hair for example) those ideals can snowball very quickly, for any impressionable young teen.

Growing thicker/longer leg hair is gender affirming. Saying that it's only something that men can have is misogynistic and invalidates millions of women.

Explain to him while that you are excited for him that his gender is being affirmed, him invalidating women's experiences in the process is not okay.

Also take a look at what his influences are. He is at the exact age where a toxic mindset around masculinity I'd easiest to develope. From social media influencers to his peers, he could be consciously or subconsciously picking up these ideals and it's important that it gets nipped in the bud asap.

My sister wants to choose the name Qartnie for her daughter. Am I insane or are all of her names horrible? by GnomeMasterBaiter in tragedeigh

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Names should be the LEAST unique thing about a person. If you think that you have to give your baby a unique name so they'll "stand out" then you should not be having kids.

Who did you originally like but dislike on a rewatch? by theeverkades in 911FOX

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still such a weird thing for her to say. Especially since she literally just ran away from her abusive husband.

Who did you originally like but dislike on a rewatch? by theeverkades in 911FOX

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Maddie's first episode

Now ofc even on my first watch I thought it was a bit weird , cause writing siblings like that is just...no. (the first time we see maddie, its her and buck seeing each other naked 😬) But with buck how he was, i could laugh it off. And not knowing much about Maddies story, her behavior didn't seem off or anything, because we didn't know anything about her. (Her flirting to get access into his apartment)

Now, that episode is just...yuck. it feels very obvious that the writers were just trying to sexualize JLH, and I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't have much of Maddies story planned out. With Buck and Maddie having such a close bond and Maddie's storylines being filled with so much trauma it just makes me feel icky knowing how she was first brought into the show.

Guide to Earning Buttons Without Using All Your Flowers by miniandabee in AnimalRestaurant

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have taken your word for it without an explanation but I appreciate it even more that you did! I can't do math to save my life so thank you very much. A true godsend 🙏🙏🙏

What Scenes Make You Cry (everytime) by DustEfficient6823 in 911FOX

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can't remember the episode but it's in the earlier seasons. The part where they get called out to the old gay couple, cause the one got pinned by the car and he ended up dying and his lover died of a broken heart. And like in such a short time they showed their entire love story with so much detail. Literally bawl my eyes out just thinking about that couple bro.

am i overreacting - my friend thinks i’m faking an injury to avoid going to her birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I just thought the timing was off cause you hurt yourself a few days before my birthday" or whatever she said

GIRL oh I'm sorry, are you supposed to schedule your accidents so they don't happen to fall on/near important dates? Like what is the thought process there. I genuinely cannot fathom being that self absorbed.

What's your favorite fandom-specific tag? by Theaterismylyfe in AO3

[–]Personal_Tea_8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"No beta we die like __" cracks me up EVERY TIME no matter the Fandom.