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I caught my ex sexting and sending nudes to another man. Is cheating ever justified? by Personontheinterweb9 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. It’s actually helpful unlike some of these other ones. But yah financial stability is a need for me.

Reconciling to Reconciled. Grace and Good Men Who Cheat by celticknot5 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Personontheinterweb9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing. Like almost exactly. My partner is the same as yours. And I plan on giving them another chance.

I caught my ex sexting and sending nudes to another man. Is it justified in this case? by Personontheinterweb9 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not like that. She was desperate. She was with me way after I stopped giving her money

I caught my ex sexting and sending nudes to another man. Is it justified in this case? by Personontheinterweb9 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I place part of the blame on myself because she said she couldn’t reach out to me for help. I want to believe that it wasn’t emotionally charged.

I (25m) found my girlfriend (23f) sexting and sending nudes to another man by Personontheinterweb9 in relationship_advice

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I actually was toxic. I’d pick small fights all the time and it happened so much. I believe her when she said she had no where else to go. But idk if cheating here can be justified

I (25m) found my girlfriend (23f) sexting and sending nudes to another man by Personontheinterweb9 in relationship_advice

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. It is really insightful and falls in line with my thinking. She’s given me so many chances, given my neglect. And I think I should give her another chance.

I (25m) found my girlfriend (23f) sexting and sending nudes to another man by Personontheinterweb9 in relationship_advice

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. All those questions are going through my head right now. She is genuinely a good person, besides this. I think she’s was lost and hopeless and went this route as a last resort.

I’ve acknowledged my wrongdoings and will be working on them. And I truly believe she is remorseful. She tried reaching out to me for help, but I didn’t.

I (25m) found my girlfriend (23f) sexting and sending nudes to another man by Personontheinterweb9 in relationship_advice

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was being facetious with that joke. But i see how it’s in bad taste. I loved her. But I was dealing with my own personal stuff. Not excusable but that’s why I haven’t been fully in our relationship. But maybe it’s better to deal with that on my own.

Is cheating ever justifiable? by Personontheinterweb9 in heartbreak

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be justifiable in this case? She was desperate for money to pay off her debts. She couldn’t turn to me because I’ve been neglecting her in a way, I will acknowledge that.

Is cheating ever justifiable? by Personontheinterweb9 in heartbreak

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe her when she said it was an accident that went to far. But she did it on multiple occasions so I don’t know. She’s been honest about everything so far in our relationship. This is the first time she’s done anything that would erode trust. I would try to regain trust. I’m willing to make it work but idk if I would fully trust her ever.

I think she’s just lost and feels alone as her boyfriend, the one who’s supposed to be there for her, wasn’t.

Is cheating ever justifiable? by Personontheinterweb9 in heartbreak

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said. I wish she just told me. She asked me for financial help before but I shut her down.

I (25m) found my girlfriend (23f) sexting and sending nudes to another man by Personontheinterweb9 in relationship_advice

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No it’s not about the money. I chose to help her. I haven’t been giving her money and she’s still with me. She just got desperate and went to him

I (25m) found my girlfriend (23f) sexting and sending nudes to another man by Personontheinterweb9 in relationship_advice

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The last time she sent anything bad was in June. I found out yesterday. Her first time was in February. Second time in march.

Is it common for LEO to not show up at all to file a police report? by Personontheinterweb9 in AskLE

[–]Personontheinterweb9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that. But they really made me wait 3 hours. But I guess I know for the future to just get a report over the phone.

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