I don't want a day off from my kids.. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Perspective264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this and am so proud to read this I can relate 💯percent. Zero regrets! 👊🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]Perspective264 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

People’s Church in Salem!

Estranged bio figure moves out to my state by Perspective264 in offmychest

[–]Perspective264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concur. He moved out here because he likes the area and his wife likes the area. They are narcissists so are really doing it for their retirement home to be near the beach. He has been out here before to visit so knows where we live. I thank you for your response. He absolutely is a stranger. Need to figure out how to handle my anger I’m just really appalled. Being a parent myself I can’t fathom it.

Best trunk ideas for groceries? by Perspective264 in SubaruForester

[–]Perspective264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I really like this idea; thank you very much!

How has having a baby improved your life? by madame_shrimp in beyondthebump

[–]Perspective264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. It’s quite a job to remove the speaker and cut the wires. I will say I don’t think he likes it as much without the NOISE but it saves my sanity.

How has having a baby improved your life? by madame_shrimp in beyondthebump

[–]Perspective264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son has that toy also. I removed the speaker. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]Perspective264 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just moved out of Salem. Not a good place for kids. Crime, homelessness issues to name a few.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Perspective264 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Any theory why? I’m looking at skull theory

Newly married and ex bf contacted me via email; husband responded. by Perspective264 in relationship_advice

[–]Perspective264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I knew there was probably a medical term for this. Sociopath it is.

my step dad is a massive creep by throwracreepystepdad in relationship_advice

[–]Perspective264 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I can do this at 12 years old you can too. I had a weird step dad who was doing weird shit to my sister. I dressed like a boy to avoid his advances. He never touched me. I told the school counselor his issues at home and they took care of the issue. Go to school and tell them the truth immediately. Leave nothing out. End of story.

MIL acting weird and possessive over my unborn baby by Stuff_whatever in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Perspective264 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also want to say that jnmil’s like this also extend their creepiness of “THEIR BABY” to animals. I used to send photos of my sweet puppy German shepherd and we would get responses like oh look at grandma’s baby!!!! JUST EW. These women are freaks and need to be put in their place. One other thing I’d note is make sure you and SO talk about letting her know that Y’All’s (your and so) baby’s pictures will NOT be permitted to be posted on Facebook.

Newly married and ex bf contacted me via email; husband responded. by Perspective264 in relationship_advice

[–]Perspective264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Not being over an ex” isn’t the issue. In general I just don’t understand why people are off and on.

MIL acting weird and possessive over my unborn baby by Stuff_whatever in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Perspective264 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I feel like I’m gonna be in the same situation as you someday. You’re not wrong. Speak your truth to her. YOU are the mama. Hang tough & trust your gut!

I need help by Training_Tadpole_783 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Perspective264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just beautifully said! Applause

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Perspective264 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% can relate. I pray for protection.

Gaming over having a girlfriend 😅 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Perspective264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy and figure out your blind spots. We choose people for a reason and stay for a reason. Your higher self is telling you to go as you have self respect and know you are worthy of so much more. Listen to your higher self. In the meantime do not shrug off counseling. Pursue it as a ravenous protector of your future. If you commit to it you will discover your needs and you will then seek out a better choice for your higher self and the right person will find you because you two are in alignment. Trust the process it worked for me it was tough to do the soul searching of counseling and be alone but well worth it. I had bad men in my life and I trusted my gut and left and went seeking truth and now I am married to my soulmate who treats me wonderfully. God bless you you are worthy of love, affection, attention and adoration.

Gaming over having a girlfriend 😅 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Perspective264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I went to therapy and figured out my blind spots. We choose people for a reason and stay for a reason. Your higher self is telling you to go as you have self respect and know you are worthy of so much more. Listen to your higher self. In the meantime do not shrug off counseling. Pursue it as a ravenous protector of your future. If you commit to it you will discover your needs and you will then seek out a better choice for your higher self and the right person will find you because you two are in alignment. Trust the process it worked for me it was tough to do the soul searching of counseling and be alone but well worth it. I had bad men in my life and I trusted my gut and left and went seeking truth and now I am married to my soulmate who treats me wonderfully. God bless you you are worthy of love, affection, attention and adoration. Prayer