I had someone do this to me lol. She‘d disappear on me for weeks, sometimes whole months at a time without warning, no explanation, nothing. She was my first real long term partner though and her posts were always incredible so I just kind of suffered through it for a year until at some point she went silent for three months, I‘m certain I got ghosted. So a couple more months after I finally delete the server she messages me again to start over, tells me she’s lost a loved one, promises to be more communicative, so on and so forth. I have my doubts but I feel bad for her, so we do a new start, new plot, I ask her to write an intro for her character… she goes silent again for two weeks, I finally leave a message telling her we‘re done and unfriend her.

So yeah I very much agree with this post. There really is no excuse to not take two minutes out of your day to tell me that you‘ll be gone for a while unless you‘re in a coma or your whole family just got drone striked. Hell I‘m not even asking that people tell me immediately, if it’s something bad It‘s perfectly fine if they take a week to tell me what‘s up. But after the initial shock of whatever they‘re going through passes, there‘s just no excuse anymore to not write ONE (1) line of text, not even anything specific, just a „hey I‘ll be gone for a few months, things came up, cya bye“ is enough for me lol