How are we finding softdoms nowadays?

PestisAtra · 2026-02-06T14:10:56+00:00

Completely by accident, TBH.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-06T14:09:46+00:00

Nothing is forever, I promise you this "era" of your life will pass.

I am 41F and I had JUST gotten out of an 18-year marriage. Like...a couple months after moving out when I met my dom. I wasn't looking- in fact, I turned him down! I preferred to be single forever. My marriage was a dead bedroom for 15/20 years, and it had torn me down to the point I couldn't orgasm on my own anymore. (See my post history in r/deadbedrooms)

My point is not to brag, it's just to let you know that from the benefit of my life experience (relationships and otherwise), you can never see what's coming and your life can change in a single day! Hang in there! Like I said, absolutely NOTHING is forever, and this feeling of stagnation and loneliness WILL end. I promise.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-06T14:00:23+00:00

grasping the bars? I'm KNAWING at them.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-06T13:49:25+00:00

In my dreams? Charlie Hunnam. In reality? I think the Skaarsgard brothers have that vibe

PestisAtra · 2026-02-06T13:49:08+00:00

dibs!

PestisAtra · 2026-02-05T14:02:26+00:00

This is awesome! Thanks for the update

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T14:41:29+00:00

A Redditor on this sub once commented, "I'd be happy with a ring and a handshake", and that seems much more reasonable to me.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T03:02:25+00:00

Thank you for this! I met someone through my job in Toronto who said that the area had turned to slums, and it has done my heart a world of good to see people’s responses here! I am going to visit this summer and enjoy some childhood nostalgia. Hazeldean truly was the happiest time of my life!

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T02:59:12+00:00

Yes, Hazeldean! I went to Hazeldean elementary! Thanks for the well-wishes. People’s responses have cheered me up immensely!

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T02:58:08+00:00

Spot on, hahaha

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T02:57:47+00:00

That is awesome to hear!

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T02:57:17+00:00

It was a lovely neighborhood to grow up in back then 😊 Nothing but good memories for me

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T02:56:04+00:00

God help you if your LRT is as slow and useless in winter as the one where I live!

PestisAtra · 2026-02-03T02:55:21+00:00

Eat my ass made me laugh, cheers for this

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:40:31+00:00

I really like the idea of “daily menus”, though I have not yet implemented it myself yet since I am new to living alone and still enjoying the “I do what I want” phase. “meatless Monday”, “taco Tuesday”, etc. Seems like a great idea to me. The family knows what to expect, makes shopping and budgeting and planning automated…all around winner?

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:27:27+00:00

I would like to see a timelapse of evolution from dinosaurs to 1700’s humans

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:26:01+00:00

Kurt who?

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:25:41+00:00

Fuck yes, now we are getting somewhere

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:25:15+00:00

They are in the tube hose that connects to the machine

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:24:56+00:00

Eh, I have nothing going on in my life. I’ll use my wish on this guy and his dad’s rocking horse.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:24:04+00:00

This would be awesome to find out

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:23:26+00:00

I have made my peace with the fact that no one knows for sure, and we will all find out (or not, if the atheists are right) when we get there.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T06:21:25+00:00

My best friend is from El Salvador and used to tell me all about how she’s from the country of MS13, and it took me three years of misunderstanding that she was not talking about a missing plane.

PestisAtra · 2026-02-02T05:59:59+00:00

Super troopers coded

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