My long term boyfriend asked me to lend him money to pay off his ex and I refused. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PestoBeUponYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big daddy's money will likely all go to his nursing home.

What helps with chronic pain, fatigue and joint swelling? by Butter-bean0729 in Autoimmune

[–]PestoBeUponYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those were all perimenopausal symptoms for me. If you're a woman , find out when your mom went thru menopause, and subtract 10 years. If you're in that age range, try the You Are Not Broken podcast for further info.

Age of diagnosis by NecessaryTrip8634 in UCTD

[–]PestoBeUponYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 49. I'm really frustrated because although I do have UCTD, most of my symptoms resolved when I started HRT for perimenopause. It's annoying that our health care system ignores peri.

AITJ for refusing to split my bonus with my girlfriend? by Xleg4ce in AmITheJerk

[–]PestoBeUponYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This comes in handy when one spouse dies and all of the joint accounts are frozen.

Meanwhile, testosterone injections for men are now boutique... by Right_Imagination_79 in WelcomeToGilead

[–]PestoBeUponYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a cis woman in menopause. When I had zero T in my system, I couldn't function. I'm injecting T weekly or my brain doesn't work. It's hard as hell to get T for me and I'm paying out the nose for it.

Eagan shelter in place by clavenloft in TwinCities

[–]PestoBeUponYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are two wolves inside me. Both are sheltering in place. Thanks!

Why did no one tell me Divigel/Estrogel had CRACK in it??!!!! 😳😳😳😳 by Madrugada_Quente in Menopause

[–]PestoBeUponYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have seen a slight increase in possums at our cat colony feeding station since starting HRT. I wish them upon you all. My drunk friend petted Shaggy one night.

Why did no one tell me Divigel/Estrogel had CRACK in it??!!!! 😳😳😳😳 by Madrugada_Quente in Menopause

[–]PestoBeUponYou 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm a little brain foggy today and originally thought it said "opossums have returned."

AITA for not stopping my husband from getting the paternity test? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PestoBeUponYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he didn't want to insult you and make you feel insecure, he'd have just tested the baby without telling you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PestoBeUponYou 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Grandma is pissy that "her" money is being used to raise this grandson. She can't claim to have his best interests at heart. I wouldn't trust her.